A good marriage must have a husband with a pattern

There is a saying: how wide your heart is, how big your stage is, how big your pattern is, how wide your heart is.

Indeed, in the world of marriage, how big the pattern of men is, how good the marriage is, because the pattern of men determines the direction of a marriage, the development of a marriage, and also determines the happiness of a family.

For example, in marriage, men are always very angry and always calculating, so in marriage, two people are either quarrelsome or quarrelsome, and life must be a chicken feather.

But if the pattern of men is very large, do not care about some small things, but have their own ideas on big things, such men, in marriage is a very good man, and live with such a man, women will feel happy and happy, but also feel safe and steadfast.

Such a man, bringing women is not only marriage, but life is the pattern is the future, but those who are calculating men are different, they bring women is a chicken feather, so that women live more and more tired, life is more and more difficult.

Marriage is good to say, that is, two people work together for the rest of their lives, it is not good to say, it is to live a life together, and how to live a life together is very important.

Every day is happy or painful, or every day is a breakdown, giving people a different feeling, and making a person feel happy in a marriage is also different.

In a marriage, once there is a husband with a big pattern, the marriage will inevitably be very happy, and the marriage will also make people very solid.

1, the pattern of the husband is very important in marriage

I have seen such a sentence: Whether a marriage is happy or not, you can see it by looking at men.

What a man is, marriage is what it is, men work hard to earn money to support the family, give women a sense of security and happiness, then a marriage must be happy and safe.

If men do not work hard to earn money to support the family, always do something that makes the marriage bad, such a marriage, women do not feel a sense of security, do not feel a sense of happiness, in marriage, there is no sense of security, will live unhappy.

In the TV series "Why Sheng Zhenmo", He Yichen is a very patterned man, after marrying Zhao Mosheng, he knows that the divorce procedures between Zhao Mosheng and her ex-husband have not been handled, and he knows that Mo Sheng's ex-husband has cheated on her, and he is not angry, nor has he had a conflict with Zhang Mosheng, but a person who wants to find a way to end.

So he contacted those who had gone through the formalities, and also contacted Ying Hui to solve it, not telling Mo Sheng, but letting Mo Sheng enjoy the honeymoon time with peace of mind.

Under his care and care, Mo Sheng felt very happy and even very happy.

Their feelings are getting better and better, because of this matter, Mo Sheng doesn't know much, only knows why Chen helped himself solve it, in marriage, what women really need is such a husband.

It is to help yourself solve problems when you need it, help yourself to deal with things when you need it, and stand in front of yourself when you need it.

Such a man is a very patterned man, a man who reassures women, a man who makes women happy, and in a marriage, once living with such a man, it must be a very happy thing.

2, no pattern of husbands, marriage is bound to be unhappy

But in reality, there is a kind of man who is not, they are very fierce to women, do not care about women's feelings, always feel that what they say should be what they are, so regardless of women's feelings, do not pay attention to women's feelings, but focus on themselves.

Such a man in marriage, there is no responsibility, naturally there is no pattern, when a woman and such a man live together, will only feel pain, will only feel uncomfortable.

When I went to dinner with friends before, friends and husbands were together, and when the two were together, the husband always called and drank to friends, and was always fierce to friends.

When he saw that my boyfriend was very good to me, he said to him, "Women are used to teach lessons, you can't get used to it." ”

The boyfriend just laughs and doesn't talk, while the friend's husband seems to be very strong and the friend is very humble.

After a meal was very unhappy, and then when chatting with friends, the friend said that he did not know that his husband was like this, only after marriage, in the face of such a marriage, he could not do anything, regret could not change anything.

Such men, in their bones, feel that they are heaven, they are the earth, they are right in what they do, they do not respect women, they do not care about women's feelings, and they call and drink at women.

Such a man, naturally, is also a man without a pattern, and when a woman is with such a man, there is only pain and discomfort.

Because they can't feel warmth, they can't feel love, they can't feel care and attention, so many times, we will find that such a woman is painful, and such a woman is unfortunate.

3. The more patterned the husband, the happier the marriage

In fact, in marriage, those men who have no pattern always feel that women should be afraid of themselves, rather than getting along as equals, while those men who really have a pattern will not think like this.

For them, women are used to hurt, to spoil, not to be fierce.

It's like a classic line in the movie "Ip Man": "There is no man in this world who is afraid of his wife, only a man who respects his wife." ”

Oh, yes! Those men who we always think are afraid of their wives are not really afraid of their wives, but they just respect their wives, they care about their wives, they attach great importance to their wives, for them, being afraid of wives is not a shameful thing.

In the TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo", He Yichen is a wife in the eyes of everyone, but he does not feel how, but feels very happy, happiness Some people manage themselves, some people worry about themselves, some people care about themselves.

For example, when the work is late at night, Mo Sheng will call, when there is a colleague party, it will not be too late, too late, will say to everyone: "The wife at home is strictly controlled", and then leave.

Their partner together said He Yichen, you are now a famous wife in the circle, but He Yichen does not think it is a big thing, for him, it is a very happy thing to have a wife to manage and listen to his wife' words, it is a very beautiful thing.

No matter whether there are people or no one, he respects Mo Sheng's words, and no matter what Mo Sheng says, he will try to do it.

Sometimes, we always think that such a man is afraid of his wife is not out of breath, in fact, it is not, he is not afraid of his wife, nor is he not out of breath, but he cares about his wife's feelings, he cares about his wife, he thinks about his wife, such a man is a man with a real pattern, a man who really respects women.

In a marriage, when a woman feels the respect of men, she will also respect men, they attach great importance to a man's ideas, they care about a man's ideas, so many times, it will be dominated by this man.

And such a marriage is a truly happy marriage, not only women are happy, but men are also happy.

4, the rest of your life, choose a husband with a pattern!

In this life, we must choose a husband with a pattern, choose such a husband, our life is easy, choose such a husband, our life is beautiful.

A husband with a pattern knows how to care about women's feelings and knows how to respect women, such a man will not be solipsistic in marriage, and such a woman will not only care about her own feelings in marriage.

They know that marriage is two people and needs to be run together, and to run together is to respect and care for each other, so no matter what time it is, they will respect and care about the woman's feelings.

When we choose such a man, in marriage, not only do we feel secure, but it will also make us feel very happy and make us feel very at ease.

But if we choose a man without a pattern, every day is a chicken and garlic, every day is a chicken flying dog jump, such a life no one can stand, and such a life, will only make a person collapse, let a person suffer.

And what kind of men are patterned men? In fact, it can be seen through three points.

The first point: whether to be preoccupied

In a relationship, it is inevitable that there will be bumps between the two, which is a very normal thing, but if at this time, men are always preoccupied, then it must be that the pattern is not enough.

They do not know how to respect the feelings of others, do not know how to think about others, do not know how to care about the feelings of others, always encounter a little thing and can not get by, always like to be calculating, do not rely on it.

In a marriage, once a man is like this, then such a marriage must not be good.

Second point: whether to respect women

In a marriage, if the man knows how to respect the woman, the marriage must be happy, if the man does not know how to respect the woman, the woman in the marriage, not only has no status, but also lives a very humble life, and even loses herself.

When a woman lives such a life in a marriage, she will be unhappy for the rest of her life.

So if a man does not respect you enough when he is with you, you will not be happy, and such a man must learn to stay away.

The third point: whether it is solipsistic or not

There is a kind of man who does not like to listen to the opinions of others, always no matter what he encounters, he is solipsistic, always likes to say one thing and nothing, and what he says is what he is.

For the opinions of others, completely do not adopt, such a person, not only selfish, but also closed, and live with such a person, even if you know that the other party made a bad decision, you can only watch, can not do anything, so in marriage, do not live with such a man.

And when you want to choose, don't choose these three kinds of men, such men have no pattern, and you and such men together, must not be happy.