When the TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo" was popular that year, the audience shouted about how to cultivate He Yichen (Zhong Hanliang).
He Yichen is the interpretation of the perfect male god, born in the school grass, the professional gold content is high, the most important thing is affectionate and dedicated, obviously there are so many suitors around, obviously there is a lover who is silently waiting for him, he still chooses to wait for the old love Zhao Mosheng (Tang Yan), the first is seven years.
And the most desirable thing about this drama is the two-way rush of He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng, whether it is waiting, or affectionate, or unwilling to settle.
Why is it that the reluctance to settle down and wait for your beloved will especially impress the audience and make the audience yearn for it?
Because such feelings are too rare in life, especially in any workplace now, they are paying attention to fast pace and high efficiency, so that many people only see the two words of efficiency, but they do not think that quality is the key to determining the long term.
And most people bring the efficiency in the workplace to life and to the feelings.
I love the controversial original song "Once Upon a Time Slow" a few years ago, which has the lyrics "Once upon a time the sun became slow." Cars, horses, mail are all slow. There is only enough to love one person in a lifetime. ”
But now, when many people pursue others, they are eager to "take" each other within three days, hold hands on the fourth day, go to bed on the fifth day, and then a month later, find each other inappropriate.
At this speed, it is really too late to see whether each other is suitable, so why be so anxious?
We still have a lifetime to live, so why spend the rest of our lives trying and making mistakes?
There is an older sister, single for 32 years, and there is always a steady stream of suitors around her, but she has never chosen to end her single life.
When people ask her why she doesn't want to fall in love, she will say that she wants to fall in love, but she doesn't want to fall in love casually, and sometimes when she just has a heart and is ready to agree, she finds that the other party has given up and "turned" to the next goal.
Pursuing a person is not a difficult thing, nor is it heartwarming, but what is valuable is to stick to the end.
Our company front desk little sister is a typical love brain, from confession to confirmation of relationship, it only took 5 days, the boy will bring a bouquet of roses every day to pick her up from work, and then will take her to eat a romantic, luxurious dinner, in these days, two people also press the road, along the way there are talk and laughter.
Such a short pursuit, a temporary payment, the little sister and the boy confirmed the relationship.
Within a month, the two chose to live together.
But unfortunately, less than 4 months later, the two people chose to break up.
Obviously, the reason why the two people are together, the boy is because of the freshness, because of love at first sight, because the little sister is easy to chase, and the little sister feels that the boy's efforts in those few days are eternal.
But as the two people get along day and night, the boy's freshness passes away, he will dilute his own efforts, and the little sister will have a gap, the two people from mutual joy, slowly, it will become only to see each other's shortcomings, feel that the person in front of them, is not the person he liked at the beginning.
Then, one shot and two scatters became a natural thing.
People are sometimes so contradictory, longing for love, but they can't believe in the so-called true love, because too many people's love is only superficial.
Who doesn't want to talk about a vigorous love, who doesn't want to have someone who knows all the careful thoughts they have but still likes themselves, who doesn't want the person around them, not just let you drink more hot water, but put the water to your mouth, tell you to drink slowly, don't choke.
Now when people fall in love, too many people think that "love does not know what to do and goes deep", in fact, only the first half of the sentence "love does not know what happens" is their true portrayal, and "a deep love" is completely unrelated to them.
They don't want to use time to dig deeper, they just want to catch up with the people they like in a short period of time and then have fun in time.
If you like a person and are rejected, please stick to it for a long time, after all, others are thinking about a lifetime, not a while, isn't it worth waiting?
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Author: Yu Xiaoyi, a post-90s girl who has a heart! I have a story of wine, just waiting for you to listen!