In a long time, the person who can accompany us the longest is ourselves.
Instead of pleasing others, we should love ourselves well, and we should learn to be kind to ourselves.
Love yourself and accept yourself sincerely
I have seen such a sentence: "We spend our whole lives to get rid of the expectations of others and find our true selves." ”
Many times, we will always envy the advantages of others, but only grasp our own shortcomings for inferiority.
In fact, there is no perfect person in the world. As human beings, we should all love ourselves from the bottom of our hearts, accept ourselves, and provide ourselves with a steady stream of energy and self-confidence.
You may have had all kinds of confusion and could not reconcile with your own ordinary, but you must know that everyone is a unique existence in this world.
We should all love ourselves from the bottom of our hearts, give ourselves confidence and strength, and often say to ourselves, "I'm the best!" ”
Love yourself, please don't blindly compare yourself to others
In fact, many of the troubles in life stem from blind comparison, which makes people unable to face up to their lives.
Proper comparison is the driving force; blind comparison is a disaster.
I have heard the saying that life is fair, and everyone who is assigned an apple has been bitten once, but the position of the bite is different.
You envy other people's successful careers, but you don't know that he is tired of socializing and worrying about not having time to spend with his family; you envy other people's time freedom, but you don't know that he is always depressed and anxious, often worried about his livelihood.
Everything has its own good and bad, and each of us has its own pleasures and troubles. Maybe what you think is bland is the beauty that others have longed for and can't get.
Instead of looking up to others, it is better to reflect on yourself; instead of fearing the darkness, it is better to carry the lamp forward.
While we crave perfection, don't refuse regrets; while we can't do everything as we please, we still have the ability to choose and change.
Life is not for comparison, but for feeling.
Do not seek to compare with others, but seek to surpass yourself, grasp your own rhythm, and move forward steadily on your own track, and you will meet all the good unexpectedly.
Love yourself and find your own joy
Someone once said, "It is blissful to be intoxicated with a certain hobby." ”
It is a blessing to have a lifelong hobby.
To develop a love well, music, sports, tea drinking, planting flowers, writing, painting...
When you have a hobby, you can discover a happy new world beyond the ordinary daily trivialities.
From now on, learn to truly love yourself and learn to embrace life with love.
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Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article has been deleted and revised
Producer: Ou Can, Zhang Xiaohui
Editor: Yan Shan, Xie Fei
Editor-in-charge: Xu Bingyi, Cao Chunyao