"Man feeding the old mother to drink porridge on the street" attracted attention The reporter visited the life of the Shi Songlin family

Elder Jiang Yixiu and her family

This network "Warm Heart! The article "59-year-old son feeding his 92-year-old mother to drink porridge" tells the warm scene of his 59-year-old son Shi Songlin and his 92-year-old mother Jiang Yixiu, (for details, see "Warm Heart!" The 59-year-old son feeds his 92-year-old mother porridge on the street" and attracted the attention and praise of the general public. A few days ago, in front of a small building in the No. 7 neighborhood of JianXi District, this reporter met the elderly Jiang Yixiu and her children.

"Got it, you're awesome! Come on! At about 9 o'clock on the 3rd, Zhang Xizhi was at the door of the house, playing a game of throwing shuttlecock with Jiang Yixiu, who was sitting in a chair basking in the sun. Every time the old man receives a shuttlecock, he will give a thumbs up to his right hand under the guidance of Zhang Xizhi and give himself and praise to everyone.

Zhang Xizhi is Jiang Yixiu's daughter-in-law and Shi Songlin's lover. On the morning of the 1st, she came to the no. 7 neighborhood to see her mother-in-law as usual, until her lover Shi Songlin took out the newspaper, and she didn't know that "my old lady is on the newspaper"!

Zhang Xizhi happily read the article word by word to the old man Jiang Yixiu, and the old man listened with a smile on his face.

"Mom, buy a few more newspapers, this is the best souvenir!" Zhang Xizhi's daughter is far away in Shenzhen, and she was very excited after learning the news in the WeChat family group, "The next time I go home, I must hug and kiss the old birthday star of our family!" ”

On the same day, Zhang Xizhi wrote a mood diary: "My child inherited the kindness and humility of his grandmother... The old man raises us small, we should serve her old, maybe this is our family style. Her mood diary was praised by friends in the WeChat circle of friends: "You are our model!" "Your family is so good, it's touching!" If that's the case, everyone will be happy! ”

On the short video playback platform, the scene of Shi Songlin feeding his mother was liked by many netizens. Netizen "Yanyang Gaozhao" left a message: "This is the virtue of the Chinese nation, praise!" "Netizens"...", he said: "Loyalty and courage are the basis of patriotism, and filial piety is the basis of the Qi family." ”

Shi Guihua, the daughter of the elderly Jiang Yixiu, said: "We take good care of our mothers and set an example for the children. We, the big ones, will surely pass on the virtue of filial piety! ”

The mood diary of the old man's daughter-in-law Zhang Xizhi (excerpt)

Today, the group of our small family is very lively, and the lively theme is that my husband's filial piety to my mother-in-law has been published in the newspaper!

Our family is very happy, not only happy that our mother-in-law's health is getting better and better every day, but also happy for our harmonious family style.

My mother-in-law is an ordinary housewife, very simple, every day I know that she is busy in the kitchen, and I have not listened to anyone she has said anything. Because Mr. is the old man in the family, when I married into this family, my brothers and sisters have already established a family, every weekend, the mother-in-law will make some delicious food, the brothers and sisters will drag the family back to dinner, I think the mother-in-law is too hard, I take the initiative to help her wash the dishes.

Soon after we got married, we had children. At that time, I felt that the child came suddenly, was not mentally prepared, and did not want it. When my mother-in-law found out, she said to me, "God sent you a child, how can you not?" If you want it, I can still help you bring it now. ”

And so, I left the child behind. When the child is born, the mother-in-law really helps to bring it without complaint. My place of work is far from home, and every morning before going out, the child is still asleep, and when I come back at night, the child is almost asleep. Such days last until the child goes to junior high school. My mother-in-law not only has to help me with the baby, but also cooks and washes, and every holiday, she also has to work for a large family dinner.

Day after day, year after year, I was full of gratitude to my mother-in-law, but I was not good at expressing it, so I used my spare time to knit sweaters for her, buy her new clothes every New Year's Day, help her do housework on holidays, chat with her, and occasionally take her to travel abroad.

This bland day has passed for many years.

On May 21 last year, her mother-in-law suddenly had a cerebral infarction and fell, and after rescue, she recovered half her life, and since then, she has been paralyzed. Mother-in-law originally lived on the fourth floor, there was no elevator, she always dragged the handrail of the stairs, difficult to go up and down the stairs, now, it is impossible for her to go up and down the stairs by herself, I discussed with my husband, rent her a first-floor house, this will be more convenient.

Since then, the husband has become the mother-in-law's personal nanny. Pulling and peeing the mother-in-law herself did not know, we helped her change out of dirty clothes, cooked and fed her every day. The mother-in-law from the original life can take care of themselves, suddenly into a state of inability to take care of themselves, autonomous state, she is at a loss, the whole person has changed, crying every day, unwilling to stay at home.

My mother-in-law used to be relatively fat, her whole body was paralyzed, she couldn't make it herself, I couldn't hold her, and my husband's brother and sister couldn't hold her. Fortunately, the husband was tall and tall, so he carried her from the bed to the wheelchair, and then from the wheelchair to the dining table, to the stool, and every day it was like this, the mother-in-law still kept crying, making noise to go out, go out, go out...

I know that she can't accept the reality that life can't take care of herself, and she has infinite grievances in her heart, which can only be expressed by crying. At this time, I will say to my husband: "Contentment, my mother-in-law has not caused you a little trouble for more than 90 years, you should be patient, she is this age, how many blessings can you enjoy?" ”

Seeing my mother-in-law crying, I had only one thought in my heart: "I must not be bothered, otherwise my mother-in-law will be even more pitiful." "I felt that this was my chance to repay her.

In this way, my husband and I pushed her out every day, rain or shine. The gentleman let her practice walking, and she also had a lot of opinions, crying and muttering: "I can't go, you still let me go..."

Every day we "bargained" to let the old man exercise, her state was much better than before, she could sit up straight on the bed, did not fall for dozens of minutes, and knew how to shout before defecation.

That day, the husband brought food to his mother-in-law, and this scene happened to be seen by the reporter, so there was that report.

My children have inherited the kindness and humility of their grandmother, and I am very pleased that they have done a great job.

My husband and I actually don't want others to know this, that is, we think that the old man raises us small, we should serve her old, maybe this is our family style. You don't need to say anything, just do it seriously! (Luo Bao Rong Media Luoyang Network reporter Chai Jing text/photo)