In fact, you probably fell in love with the man who has always been good to you

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All the affection is worth a "late" word. Meeting too late, knowing each other too late, and falling in love too late is enough to make the two people who were originally a good couple miss out on life, and the rest of their lives are accompanied by regrets.

The word "habit" sometimes makes us miss a lover, because its existence will make us hindsight and miss the best time to love the lover who loves us deeply.

Suddenly looking back, the man was no longer in the light, and he knew that it was too late, and the happiness that was once within reach could only become an illusion.

In "The Prince Becomes a Frog", Ye Tianyu said to Xu Ziqian: "You are too convenient, so she (Yun Xi) can't see your goodness." ”

Xu Ziqian's love for Yun Xi can be described as "selfless", but Yun Xi's eyes are full of only Shan Junhao.

Later, when Yun Xi knew that Xu Ziqian was the first boy to hold her hand, she finally understood her true intentions.

In fact, Yun Xi has long been in love with Xu Ziqian, so she will think about starting with Xu Ziqian after Shan Junhao disappeared, so she will care a little about Xu Ziqian and Ye Tianyu together...

Yun Xi had long been accustomed to Xu Ziqian's gentle thoughtfulness and care, so she could not see her true heart, and she could not see Xu Ziqian who was full of light.

Fortunately, Xu Ziqian and Yun Xi still had a chance to start over, so as not to miss it.

The ending of Xu Ziqian and Yun Xi is like a plot that only exists in fairy tales.

In real life, once some people miss it, they will never have it again.

In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", there is a boy who has pursued Yumi for 6 years, and he even chased from Shanghai to Guangzhou in order to win the hearts of beautiful people.

He carefully prepares various romances for Yumi, but only Yumi's indifference is obtained.

Not only that, yumi introduced him directly to her colleagues in order to get rid of his "dog skin plaster".

Unexpectedly, the boy fell in love with Yumi's colleague at first sight and talked about a sweet love affair with Yumi's colleague.

The boy's outstanding appearance and considerate and careful personality have won unanimous praise from Yuki's family and friends.

Aunt Kang said, "Yumi, he is the best of the boys you brought back." ”

However, Yumi doesn't care about this, and is even happy that the boy has finally shifted his purpose.

However, the punch in the face came so quickly, Yumi saw that the boy was no longer enthusiastic about her, and all the preferential treatment given to her in the past was given to her colleagues, and she realized that she had already liked the boy.

Yumi tries her best to save it, even when the boy and his colleagues are in trouble, but the boy eventually reunites with his colleagues and ignores Yumi.

Yumi wept bitterly for a long time...

Yumi's experience is estimated to be closer to real life, because no one will always be waiting for you in the same place.

Cherish this man, because you are likely to have already fallen in love with him...

01, there is love hidden in habit

Man is the product of habits, habits are neutral, there is no absolute good or bad.

But in love, if you are used to a person's kindness to you, accustomed to a person around you, then you are likely to be blind, unable to see the other party's good, nor can you see your true intentions.

For the people and things we already have, we tend to underestimate their true value and not see their preciousness.

Only when you lose, when you are free from the state of being, will you understand the meaning of what you once had.

If you have a man by your side who is very attached to you, who has been in your world as a suitor for more than two years, and you have become accustomed to all his eyes and warmth, then please withdraw yourself from the state you already have and imagine the emotions that will come after losing him.

Let go of all the things you should take for granted, let go of the confidence that he will not go, let yourself believe that he has a new beginning, and then see your emotions as a bystander.

If there is heartache and pain in your emotions, then it means that you have probably already fallen in love with him, but the habit makes you not know it.

Sometimes, the habits you think of as yourselves actually hide your love and care for a person. Maybe the other party has been too meticulous, has been clinging to you, so that you feel too much about it, and you can't see your own heart.

02, cherish everyone who is good to you

The best way not to let love slip away is to cherish, cherish the present, and cherish everyone who gives you love and warmth.

Even if habits make you relax about everything you have, learn to exert your subjective initiative, fill yourself with gratitude, and accumulate energy in the present.

If a boy is very persistent with you and very good to you, don't take advantage of his goodness as a matter of course, let alone be indifferent.

If you really don't like it, reject him with deep blessings and gratitude.

Remembering that other people are good to you is never taken for granted. In this world, except for the obligation of parents to be good to you, other people have no obligation to tolerate you, cherish you, and take care of you.

When a person can be grateful for everything he has, it shows that he often knows how to cherish and know how to give back with true feelings, and naturally he will not lose his true preciousness.

Cherishing will make a person grateful for everything, but also allow themselves to see their true intentions, reducing the probability of missing out on love. Cherishing will also allow a person to be able to achieve at least no regrets and no regrets in the face of other arrangements of God.

Cherishing the probability is to be able to make love not too late, and habits and reason should make a person invisible to his heart.

Cherish the man who has always insisted on being nice to you, because you may have already fallen in love with him without knowing it.

All affection can not withstand a late word, knowing each other too late, awareness too late, the ending is completely different. Pity is not a kind of self-cherishing.

Let go of what you should take, withdraw from habits, expand your awareness with a cherished mindset, and seize the good person who deserves to be loved.

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I am Hexu, a creator of the emotional field of warmth and happiness in the heart, writing emotional texts, warming the heart with words, thank you for reading, and deeply wishing you peace, health and joy.