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We always say that flowers are not red, so we pay special attention to women's age, and even instill such a belief for women: "When people are old and yellow, no one wants them." ”
For women, there are always all kinds of harsh requirements and suppression, for example: divorced women have no one to want, women over thirty years old can only pick up what others have left.
Perhaps, there are women who will "marry" because they have passed the so-called optimal age for marriage, and there are also women who can no longer find a good person who is sincerely treated because they have had a marriage.
However, there is always a woman who can fall outside these limits, or even say that no matter what age she is, there will be men who will fall in love with her from the heart.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", Zhu Wanling and Hu Huaixi divorced and returned to the Zhu family, and Zhu Shi's mother was a countdown to Wanling. Zhu Shi's grandmother and Wan ling stressed that divorce is a shameful thing.
Zhu Shi's accusations against Wanling are full of worry, she is worried that Wanling has divorced and had children, and no one will want it in the future, so she intends to let Wanling go back to find Huaixi to reunite.
In fact, Zhu Shi's worries were completely unnecessary, because Henry, who had a successful career and was handsome, fell in love with Zhu Wanling at first sight and launched a fierce pursuit offensive.
Henry has both internal and external conditions, a large number of women who pursue him, and the excellent-looking and young Yumi chased Henry for a long time without chasing Henry.
However, Henry is only rare to divorce Wanling, and does not even mind that Wanling has given birth to children.
People who don't know Wanling will think that Henry will like Wanling is just a fantasy drama of the TV series, but understanding Wanling's personality in the play, you will find that Henry's love for Wanling is a reasonable thing.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", Chang Xianglan is probably the ideal wife and mother of all men, but Zhu Wanling is even more than Xianglan.
Pandan comes from the countryside, the education is not high, giving people the feeling of being a bit rustic. But Zhu Wanling is different, born in a big city, high education, is a doctor, gentle and considerate personality, inside and outside the cultivation of her demeanor and speech between everyone shows everyone's beauty.
It is no exaggeration to say that Zhu Wanling's personality traits are the same as those of Qing'er who is still Zhu Gege.
This is also why Aunt Kang Bo kang has always hoped that Zhu Wanling can marry Kang Qiyao, the most handsome of the four sons of the Kang family.
Zhu Wanling has many hard conditions that women do not have, so even if she is divorced, there will still be men to love.
Such a woman, even if divorced, will have a man to love.
First, the face is good, know how to dress
Appearance is important, the important thing is that it gives a first impression. We judge how a person is, often through the first impression to judge, and in the subsequent relationship is often difficult to break the first impression to give feelings.
If a man's first impression of you is that you are sloppy, then most of them will not like you, even if you show different characteristics in subsequent interactions.
Moreover, in real life, for people with a bad first impression, we will basically stop interacting, and how to get along with the opportunity to break the stereotype of the first impression.
The so-called good face is not to say how beautiful you are, but at least you must know how to clean yourself up, make yourself look "fresh", and not leave a bad impression.
A woman who has someone to pursue at any time must know how to clean herself up.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", although Zhu Shina is a "mother-in-law" who is nearly sixty years old, she is fashionable and beautiful, even though she is more than half a hundred years old, there are still suitors.
Looks are not the whole of a person, nor is it the most important, but looks play a role as a stepping stone in many cases.
If you start from the first impression, I believe that no matter who is more willing to deal with people with good looks.
Second, the personality is virtuous and considerate, and there are shining points on the body
Love must be the appeal of all of us, and many times we will fall in love with someone and believe that the other party can give us warmth.
For the vast majority of men, they all want their other half to be gentle and considerate, because they can directly feel love and tenderness, so that their hearts have a sense of belonging.
Therefore, many men will like women with good looks and gentle personalities.
However, gentleness and thoughtfulness are actually the inner essence of every woman, but some people show more and some people show less.
Of course, not all men see gentle and considerate women as ideal.
If you want to boil down to why a woman has always been able to be pursued, it is that there is a shining point in the woman, and this shining point can be easily discovered.
When a person is smoothed out by life, and has no enthusiasm for life at all, then even if he is originally a diamond, he will be dusted and undiscovered.
Third, there is a person's "capital" to live a life
The reason why Zhu Wanling can have the confidence to divorce is probably that she has dependence, which is not only from the support of her mother, but also because she has "capital", that is, it is very easy to find a job by virtue of her former status as a doctor.
She has the strength to support herself, so she can exude self-confidence throughout her body, and she does not feel that women will be devalued by divorce.
Many women who have reached the age have not met the lovers who truly love her, not necessarily because they are not worthy, but because they simply do not have enough confidence in their bones to believe that they are worthy of happiness.
The environment of the original family does affect a person's self-perception, but work and strength can help a person rebuild their confidence.
A woman has the confidence and strength to live alone, and her heart will give birth to self-confidence, and she will believe more that she is worthy of beauty.
The so-called belief in what will meet what, we have been constantly verifying our own ideas, but also in the continuous confirmation of the wish.
A woman with the above three characteristics often does not lack male love, because both internal and external conditions, mainly a sense of compatibility in the mentality, will make them really meet a lot of beauty.
If a person never believes that she is worthy, she cannot open her heart to accept the beauty that should have entered her life in the first place.
Our lives may really have a destiny, but fate depends on our every move, on our perception of ourselves. A woman who is loved regardless of age, not because of luck but because she deserves it.
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I am Hexu, a creator of the emotional field of warmth and happiness in my heart, writing emotional texts, I hope my words can help you, thank you, deeply bless you.