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Every age has the right to pursue love, and love at every age has a different color.
The love of youth is pure and hazy youth, the love of adults is the childishness that is difficult to hide in the heat, the love of middle-aged people is as plain as the water revealing mutual intentions, and sunset love is to look down on the truth of life and therefore know how to cherish it more.
Love is never a privilege of any age group, but love will be more important for people of certain ages.
Even so, love is still involuntarily pursued because of happiness and sweetness.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", Zhu Shina is a very picky middle-aged woman, and she also has her own opinions and visions on love.
She loves gossip and likes to watch the hilarity, in fact, there is no shortage of suitors.
The owner of the flower shop once sent "fragrant orchids" to Zhushi's milk every day in order to win the heart of ZhuShi's milk.
It's just that the owner of the flower shop is so attentive but he has not won the favor of Zhu Shi's milk, who is respectful of him, and even invited him to go to the house for a cup of tea: "I just invited you to the house for a cup of tea out of courtesy, and you don't think about other aspects." ”
It can be seen that the heart that wants to conquer middle-aged women cannot be pursued in the same way as young girls.
Not all middle-aged women are very eager for romance, and for middle-aged women, the sense of ceremony is not the first.
Uncle Tong is not a romantic middle-aged man, but he eventually won the heart of Zhu Shi's mother.
Zhu Shiniu will eventually choose to be with Uncle Tong because Uncle Tong is considerate enough, even if he may not be willing to express it in front of outsiders.
Uncle Tong satisfied the "sense of security" that Zhu Shi's milk wanted, so that Zhu Shi's milk felt that she had something to rely on.
When people reach middle age and experience the baptism of years, they are no longer so needed for flashy things, but they are more focused on spiritual things.
The key to conquering a middle-aged woman: satisfying her with these three feelings.
First, give her the feeling of being cared for continuously
For the vast majority of middle-aged women, love is equivalent to having feelings of being pampered.
Romance is never the first need of middle-aged women, and romance for middle-aged women can only be the spice of ordinary days, not the most important thing.
What middle-aged women want is a man who knows the roots and can know each other.
Such a confidant man can give her continuous care.
The so-called care is derived from the details of life, Xu is cold will remind her to add clothes, Xu is able to send her a medicine when she is sick, Xu is to see her favorite flowers can carry a copy to her.
The so-called care is a behavior that naturally occurs when you want to be good to a woman from the heart, and you don't need to practice deliberately, nor do you need to remind yourself again and again.
When a man can continue to give a middle-aged woman the feeling of being pampered, then he will finally be able to conquer the woman's heart.
The care of the long stream of thin water can best touch the heart of a middle-aged woman, because for most middle-aged women, they will be more cautious about love.
Second, give her the feeling of dependence
Someone once said, "I never think the word strong is a happy thing to use in women, because if someone can rely on it, what woman is willing to use strength." 」 ”
No matter how independent and self-reliant a woman is, she still hopes to be pampered in her bones, and she hopes that there is someone who can give her to rely on.
Dependence is not dependence, dependence refers to the time when I am vulnerable, someone can see my tearful eyes and accompany me through sadness.
Dependence is not dependence, so we don't have to sacrifice each other, just encourage each other, so that each other have the courage to complete the life they want.
Middle-aged women are not so materialistic, but often look at whether a man can give her "dependence".
She is not necessarily thinking about the money in the man's pocket, but about whether two people can rely on each other and support each other to get to the life they want.
Aunt Liang had a marriage, and her ex-husband's inaction in the marriage hurt her fiercely and forced her to be as strong as steel.
Aunt Liang once said in frustration: "I don't want him to be rich and rich, but at least he should rely on me when I am tired, but he has done nothing, but he requires me to be both virtuous and financially independent..."
After the divorce, Aunt Liang was once completely desperate about marriage, until the appearance of Suber made her believe in love again.
In the 3 years that Suber pursued Aunt Liang, whenever Aunt Liang was in need, he would appear at the first time, and even in order to help Aunt Liang tide over the business difficulties, he also withdrew all the money for his pension.
Suber gave Aunt Liang enough to rely on, so Suber and Aunt Liang chose to grow old together.
If you want to conquer the heart of a middle-aged woman, you must have enough patience to become her dependent.
Women are made of water, only the temperature of love will be as gentle as water, do not force a woman from water to ice.
Third, give her a visible future and give her a sense of security
Middle-aged women are pragmatic and eager to have a visible future. Because youth is no longer there, it is more important to see whether two people can have results.
If a man wants to win the hearts of middle-aged women, he must give her a visible "future", rather than relying solely on rhetoric and sending flowers to play romantically on weekdays.
Security is what everyone needs deep inside, especially for middle-aged women, so if a man can't give her a visible future, it's hard for her to start with a man.
Middle-aged women are rarely "love brains", do not lose themselves because of men's rhetoric, and agree to only fall in love with men and not marry.
Therefore, if a man wants to get a middle-aged woman, he must give your sincerity and prove with practical actions that you really want to live the second half of your life with her.
Middle-aged women have passed the age of hearing love, so if a man wants to get a middle-aged woman, he must meet her three needs through actions.
Eighteen-year-old girls have a lot of trial and error opportunities, but middle-aged women don't, so they are more cautious. If you want to pry the heart of a middle-aged woman, you need to rely on a sincere heart, and you also need continuous action.
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