Text | genial
Image source network
In fact, each of us has our own mask, and we will unconsciously set up a "human design" for ourselves.
People who hope that they have strong qualities but are actually a little fragile will unconsciously pretend to be strong in front of others. People who want to get a "good reputation" tend to portray themselves as victims when they encounter setbacks.
In love, some people will be reluctant to take the initiative to break up with each other in order to get a good reputation. The so-called unwilling to take the initiative to break up is not necessarily because of the fear of hurting the other party, so they will use various hidden means to force the other party to open their mouths first.
"It's you who're going to break up with me, not me..."
Time flew by, and in the blink of an eye, Lingling and Qingmi had been together for three years. Three years is long enough to dilute the sweetness of the beginning, and only countless losses remain.
On the third anniversary of love, in order to celebrate this day, Lingling deliberately asked the leader for leave, secretly made a cake by herself, and prepared Aomi's favorite red wine.
Playing a balloon for one afternoon made Lingling's fingers slightly sour, but the next second she immediately ran to the kitchen to turn off the fire.
Looking at this day's masterpiece, Ling Ling couldn't help but fantasize that Aomi would have an expression after pushing the door.
Rei thinks that even though her passion for Aomi has faded, she needs some romance to relive each other's past sweetness.
Whenever there was a little wind and grass on the other side of the door, Ling Ling would rush to confirm, afraid of missing the moment to open the door for Aomi for the first time...
Anyway, Ling Ling's expectations were disappointed again and again. Aomi did not return all night, Ling Ling stared at the carefully prepared cake, and a burst of busy tones came from the mobile phone next to her ear, returning to the whole room: "I'm sorry, the phone you dialed has not been answered for the time being, please dial it later." ”
Ling Ling sorted out her clothes, supported her forehead, and then dragged her heavy body toward the bedroom.
The next day, the returning Aomi only glanced at a table of meals and elaborate decorations that had cooled down, and then fell next to Rei.
On the other side, Ling Ling, who heard the movement, opened her eyes and saw Qingmi, who was sleeping on her head upside down, just smiled lightly, and then turned her back to continue sleeping, only to see her figure trembling slightly...
As for the fact that the anniversary day did not return all night, Aomi only said lightly, "I am very busy at work."
I've seen you love me, so I understand your indifference, your alienation, just because you don't love anymore.
Ling Ling took a day off and cleaned every corner of the house. After cooking dinner for Aomi, she put the room key on the table and left with her luggage...
She understood that Aomi had no love for her, but was just waiting for her to say that she was leaving first, so she fulfilled him and let herself go.
Men don't love you anymore, want to break up with you, and often use these three ways to "force" you to leave, don't be bitterly entangled.
Cold: Cold: Indifferent to you
A boy who doesn't love you anymore and wants to break up with you, the usual trick is to use indifference to "force" you to leave.
He will be very cold to you and give you a very strange feeling.
Even if he really knows you need his help, he can watch your jokes as a bystander.
I have seen stories like this: when a girl encounters a problem, her boyfriend has never sided with her, for example: they are in line to be cut in line, girls find someone to theorize, and boys do nothing but ask girls not to embarrass him.
For example, girls and boyfriends bump into neighbors and throw garbage at their doorstep, girls go up to theorize, but are scolded by neighbors, but boys do nothing, just look at their girlfriends coldly.
The girl looked forward to a word of comfort from her boyfriend, but she didn't expect to get her boyfriend and said with disgust: "Why bother so much, you can help bring her a little." ”
Boys who don't love you will use indifference as a means to force you to retreat, forcing you to say what he doesn't dare to say or doesn't want to say, "Let's break up." ”
The so-called cold, probably I know how you feel, but still unwilling to give you a little care and warmth, too lazy to do anything.
Second, procrastination: use all kinds of excuses to shirk, unwilling to spend time for you
A man who wants to force you to initiate a breakup in various ways will lack patience with you because he doesn't want to spend time for you or be alone with you.
So how to reduce the time two people spend together? That's procrastination, shirking your date invitation with all sorts of excuses, and procrastinating your needs with all sorts of excuses.
Men who want to break up with you will also use procrastination tactics to refuse to communicate with you.
You see his obvious change and you want to get closer to each other, so you will constantly want to create more opportunities for two people to get along.
However, when the other party understands your intentions, they will use various excuses to reject your overtures and your plans, and refuse to communicate with you.
Men don't love you anymore and want to break up with you, often using procrastination tactics to make it clear to you that he's avoiding your needs.
Third, suppression: many complaints about you
A man who wants to make a good name for himself, he often does not take the initiative to break up with you, but he will "force" you to break up by suppressing you and complaining to you a lot.
The man who has made up his mind to leave can't see your good, even if he understands that what you are doing is for his own good, he can still pick a bone in the egg, deliberately make you difficult, complain to you in every way, and even dislike you.
In "Foreign Daughter-in-law Local Lang", Uncle Tong promised to take care of Ah Jiao for the rest of his life because he was drunk at the birthday party, and he made a note for this.
After waking up drunk, Uncle Tong had long forgotten what he had done yesterday.
Ah Jiao came to Uncle Tong with shyness and asked when the two of them would serve wine, and Uncle Tong only thought that Ah Jiao was talking nonsense. When Ah Jiao took out the note, Uncle Tong understood that "drinking is bad."
Uncle Tong did not like Gillian at all, but out of commitment and lobbying from many neighbors, he decided to pat and drag with Gillian and then "forced" Gillian to go by herself in the process of getting along.
Uncle Tong did everything to make things difficult for Ah Jiao, complained all kinds of things, and also thought of various ways...
Men who don't love you will reflect his true feelings for you by complaining about disgust and suppressing you.
The performance of men who want to break up with you can be summed up in these four words: cold, drag, and suppression.
If your other half is like this to you, often just want to break up with you, don't bother. Men who don't love you are determined to go, so no matter what you give, it's hard to turn back for you.
If you intend to deceive yourself all the time, then you can only continue to experience disillusionment, and feel the pain in the huge gap between fantasy and reality.
END
I am Hexu, a creator of the emotional field of warmth and happiness in the heart, writing emotional texts, writing emotions with pens, and warming the heart with emotions. Thank you for reading and deeply wish you peace, health and joy!