Wen | Gu Ziyu
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In the world of feelings, people are very selfish, and no one is willing to share their feelings with another person.
But there are always some people who are self-righteous, trample on the feelings of others, and find some high-sounding reasons for their own wrongdoing, which is very ridiculous.
Wu Min, 55 years old this year, is a hard-working and kind woman, who runs a car wash business by herself, although it is a little hard, but the income is very impressive.
Her husband has been in the coal mining business, and although his income in recent years is no better than before, he still has some regular customers in the business that has been operating for decades.
Some time ago, the husband took the family's real estate certificate to borrow 100,000 yuan, saying that it was used for business turnover, and Wu Min learned about it and went to repay the loan.
However, not long after, the husband took the real estate certificate to borrow 100,000 yuan, Wu Min was very puzzled about this, so he went to inquire in many ways, and finally learned that the husband's two loans were for another woman.
Wu Min had suspected her husband of indiscretion before, but her husband denied it, and this time she couldn't bear it, completely quarreled with her husband, and threw him out of the house.
Wu Min and her husband met through the introduction of blind dates, at that time he was a miner with nothing, Wu Min felt that he was thick and honest, so she married him.
After marriage, her husband wanted to be a coal boss himself, and Wu Min went back to her mother's house many times to borrow money to support her husband to do business, and now there are still some arrears that have not been repaid.
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Now that her husband has betrayed the family, Wu Min said that she did not want to live with him anymore, and she asked her husband to pay back the arrears he had previously borrowed from his mother's family.
She took the reporter to her husband's residence in his hometown, and as soon as the two men met without saying a few words, they quarreled again, and the husband said that he had been expelled from the house and had nothing.
He also agreed with his wife's divorce proposal, saying that Wu Min's personality was too strong, not like a woman at all, and he had no feelings for Wu Min for a long time, but he strongly denied that he had a woman outside.
The more he said this, the more angry Wu Min felt, and she pulled out a key in her husband's drawer, at which time his husband began to tense.
After inquiring, Wu Min found the neighborhood where the woman lived, and she saw a water bill on the wall of the stairs, which had her husband's name written on it.
Wu Min knocked on the door after no one responded, she opened the door with the key, as soon as she entered the door, she saw her husband's slippers, there were several pieces of her husband's clothes in the closet, and there was a faint smell of tobacco in the air, Wu Min concluded that her husband had moved here after leaving home, and the house in her hometown was just to hide her eyes.
On the bedside table, Wu Min discovers a surprising secret that contains a paternity report and a contract to buy a house.
Wu Min also saw some luxury consumption receipts, she was sad, married for almost 30 years, her husband had never bought her a gift, but he was so generous to other women.
She said that she was accustomed to a hard life, frugal in her life, never willing to spend a penny, the bag she carried was worn out and did not change, and her clothes did not exceed a thousand yuan.
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In the face of the facts, the husband had to admit that he already had a 10-year-old son, and he knew that this matter could not be hidden.
He said that he was also impulsive with the woman, and he did not expect to have a child, and when the other party carried the child to him, he was also frightened.
At first, he was also afraid that after the matter was broken, his wife would not forgive him, but the child had already been born, and he could only accept this fact with a hard scalp.
After the wife gave birth to her first child, she had physical problems, and when she wanted a second child, she couldn't conceive it.
There is a concept in their hometown that the more children there are, the more prosperous the family, so the husband gradually changes from nervous and afraid at the beginning to a kind of sneaking joy: Is it bad to have multiple sons?
He fantasized that as long as his wife did not find out, he would enjoy the blessings of the people and live a good life outside the home, but unfortunately the paper would never be able to contain the fire, and the truth would one day come out.
Wu Min proposed that the house her husband bought for the woman was the common property of their husband and wife, and she asked the other party to return it, but the husband said that he only gave the other party twenty thousand yuan, and the name was not his own, which had nothing to do with himself.
But Wu Min said that her husband had been in the coal mining business over the years, and his income was not very much, but now he could not make ends meet to perfunctory himself, which showed that he had already transferred his property to the other party.
Couples who have been married for 30 years face a situation of parting ways, but there is no consensus on economic issues, and they can only take legal procedures to solve them.
Wu Min said that she worked hard for this family wholeheartedly, washed the car in the car dealership every day, tired and sore back, but never expected that her husband had an external heart early, and he was still stupid in the dark.
She thought that after the family's hard work, life would get better and better, but she did not expect that her husband had already had other plans, and she was not a heart with herself.
Write at the end:
Wu Min's tragedy tells us that women must be kind to themselves, and while loving their families and loving their husbands, they must remember to learn to love themselves first.
It is said that in this world, only the sun and the human heart cannot look directly, and some people's hearts really can't guess it, because the hiding is too deep to cover it.
Some people say that some people can accompany you through the reckless and green teenagers, the turbulent and displaced youth, but they cannot cross the stable and numb middle age and reach the old age that is dependent on each other.
Not all people are good, not all marriages are perfect, not all love is a good full moon, this is the truth of life.
Sometimes, we pour out our hearts and lungs for others, not necessarily in exchange for reciprocal returns; we are thinking about how to last for a long time, maybe the other party is thinking about how to leave, so be nice to yourself, don't let yourself regret.
Finally, let's end with a passage from Mrs. Song in "Snail Dwelling":
To be a woman is to be kind to yourself, eat well, drink well, play well, in case of an accident, other women will use the money we have saved, live in the house we have saved, sleep with our saved husbands, and beat our distressed babies. You say that we are diligent and thrifty reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, single-mindedly for the family, what does it mean, there are always some giant rats to steal the grain we have accumulated, rather than others to spend, it is better for us to spend it ourselves.
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About the author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.