Wen | Gu Ziyu
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There is an old Chinese saying: If people don't know, they can't do anything about it.
The meaning of this sentence is to tell us to be frank and frank in doing things, do not hold any luck, some things can not be done, do it will be caught.
In this era of rolling everywhere, many people regard feelings as fast food, love comes and goes quickly, sometimes love is crazy and impulsive, but forget that love is also responsibility and restraint.
Zhang Lei is 38 years old this year, and her husband has been married for more than ten years, and their husband's feelings are also OK, although there are occasional quarrels, but she knows that whose husband and wife do not make trouble, and do not live like this?
Occasionally, her husband also bought her a gift, or bought a bouquet of flowers on the way to work, such a small surprise has often happened, so even if her husband and herself have a little awkwardness, Zhang Lei feels that these are not big problems.
She sometimes complained to her girlfriends, but everyone said that marriage is like this, who is not living in a noisy and noisy way, since everyone is the same, she is more at ease.
When Zhang Lei is fine, she also loves to brush her mobile phone and chat with friends, once when she brushed a short video, the platform recommended a video of a nearby person for her, and she casually clicked on it.
This point opened, startled himself, almost dropped the phone to the ground, this is a show of love video, the video of the woman is posting herself and her boyfriend eating scenes.
The woman had a sweet face, the man did not show his face, only showed a pair of hands to peel shrimp for the woman, but it was these hands that made Zhang Lei collapse: that was my husband's hand.
Zhang Lei's heart was pounding, her hands were shaking, and she was shaking her hands, and she opened the woman's previous video, and she cried while watching, and the more she watched, the more uncomfortable it became.
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Those videos are all women crazy and happy content, the male protagonist is only showing a pair of hands, but this pair of hands makes Zhang Lei eager to stare the mobile phone out of a hole.
Married for more than 10 years, how can his husband's hand admit mistakes, the ring on his hand is still bought together when they got married, and the exposed cuffs of the clothes, too familiar, these clothes are bought by Zhang Lei, and now they are hung in their own wardrobes.
Watching her husband cook for other women in the video, Zhang Lei couldn't believe that this man was like a grandfather at home, opening his mouth and stretching out his clothes, but now he washed his hands for another woman to make soup, which was the biggest mockery of himself.
Seeing her husband send gifts and flowers to the woman, Zhang Lei thought about it, as if such a scene had not appeared in her own home for a long time.
The bag that the husband gave to the woman, he had long been optimistic, but he had not been willing to buy it, and now the bag he was carrying had been torn.
The more she looked, the more sad she became, and it turned out that her husband had told him that he had been very busy lately, often working overtime, and now it seemed that time was spent on this woman.
Zhang Lei let herself calm down a little, she added the woman's contact information, chatted with the other party, and gradually became acquainted, learned that the woman worked in a nearby shopping mall.
She told Zhang Lei that although her boyfriend was married for the second time, he was very good to himself, Zhang Lei exploded as soon as he heard it, and his original match was still washing clothes and cooking with children, how could he be divorced.
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Zhang Lei really can't tolerate it, directly with her husband showdown, she took out those videos, did not expect her husband to deny it, saying that it was not him, and her attitude was extremely cold.
Zhang Lei couldn't help but go directly to the woman and told her that the man in the video was her husband, but the other party said that he was in a normal relationship, and the boyfriend also showed her the divorce certificate.
Zhang Lei was very angry, she opened the video in the phone, the woman swore that this person was her boyfriend, so that Zhang Lei did not say a word.
Zhang Lei knew that her man's heart was no longer in this family, and there was no point in continuing such a marriage, so she decided to give up.
She was glad that she could brush that video, otherwise she would still be in the dark, she didn't know when she was deceived, since she knew the truth, she wouldn't tolerate this betrayal, long pain is not as good as short pain, make a conclusion.
The husband did not expect Zhang Lei to be so determined, but thinking of the things he did, he really did not have the face to face his wife and children anymore, and moved away in a gray and slippery manner.
Write at the end:
In this world, there are some things that are worth forgiving, some things that cannot be forgiven, even if you reluctantly accept it, occasionally look back, there will still be a feeling of eating flies.
Some people regard love as a very casual behavior, wandering in the wind and snow, while some people regard love as a treasure and care for irrigation with their hearts, such people are long-term lovers.
People with different views are doomed to not be able to go all the way to the end, so when it is time to let go, let go, no matter whose hand he holds.
Since some damage has already formed, try to let yourself forget a little bit, and over time, it will gradually heal.
Milan Kundera has such a sentence in "Life Outside": Meeting is a matter of two people, but leaving is a decision of one person. Meeting is the beginning, but leaving is to meet the next departure.
Where life does not meet, just go forward, you will meet a person like yourself, before this, just do yourself.
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About the Author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.