Wen | Gu Ziyu
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The fate of people and people is really very wonderful, some people don't feel how to look at it, but some people can see it for thousands of years.
Uncle Zhang is 62 years old this year, used to be a small leader in the unit, tough appearance, personality is particularly domineering, is simply a proper drop northeast man image.
Uncle Zhang had a marriage, because of his impatient personality, occasionally when he and his wife had conflicts, it was easy to do, and finally the two broke up.
Thinking of these pasts, Uncle Zhang regretted it very much, he said that he had deeply reviewed it over the years, and at that time he was too young to know how to cherish it, and he would never do it again.
As he grew older, he felt more and more that he was not living alone, and he wanted to find a wife and enjoy his retirement life.
He told the Red Lady that he did not like these three kinds of women, women who were too materialistic, women who were too ostentatious, and women who were not financially independent, were not in the scope of choice.
Then again, Uncle Zhang does not want to, a single woman who meets these three conditions, rich and beautiful and independent, people may not necessarily find a wife.
However, the column group still arranged a 60-year-old Aunt Li for Uncle Zhang according to this request, and as soon as the two met, Uncle Zhang's first impression of Aunt Li was OK.
Aunt Li's reaction is very general, she said that she wants to find a feeling of déjà vu as soon as they meet, which is a bit difficult, not very good to achieve.
May not have made a good start, the next chat will directly collapse, Aunt Li asked Uncle Zhang what was the reason for the failure of the first marriage, Uncle Zhang's answer was directly defeated.
He said that when he was young, his temper was not very good, and his wife was sometimes willing to do it, and this answer did not scare people away? The Red Lady was in a hurry on the side, thinking that this uncle was too honest.
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As the saying goes, words do not speculate more than half a sentence, do not have to think, the next chat will directly enter the dead end, the result can also be imagined.
Aunt Li's evaluation of Uncle Zhang is that this is a man who is too self-centered, too macho, and has no sense of responsibility for the family and his wife, so it has led to the failure of the marriage.
Aunt Li's conditions are good in all aspects, and she is not in Uncle Zhang's three dislike principles, but the two still have no fate, and the red lady immediately arranged another blind date for Uncle Zhang.
Aunt Chen, a gentle and gentle woman, spoke softly, there was a feeling of a little woman, and Uncle Zhang's eyes lit up as soon as they met.
The two people chatted more and more speculatively, Uncle Zhang said that he liked to walk around after retirement, and also listed some places he had been to, domestic and foreign, and listened to Aunt Chen's face.
She said that she also likes to travel, the most wanted to go to the place is Yunnan and Hainan, but unfortunately these years are not this thing or that thing, has not had the opportunity to go, Uncle Zhang said that if the two people become, nothing is a thing.
Aunt Chen then carefully asked if the two of them were married in the future, if they were not in good health, could the other party take money to see a doctor, and Uncle Zhang's answer was particularly manly.
He said that while both of them are not too old, they can find a way to work together to buy a major illness insurance, and then say that the current national policy is getting better and better, and it will not let the people look down on the disease.
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Aunt Chen was also worried that if she walked behind in the future, she would not be eligible to live in Uncle Zhang's house, and Uncle Zhang agreed without hesitation.
He said that he had two houses, one in his son's name and one in his own name, and these problems did not have to worry at all, these words made Aunt Chen very moved.
Maybe Aunt Chen really just entered Uncle Zhang's eyes, asked all the questions, and didn't resent any problems, this is not the uncle who insists on the principle of three dislikes.
It is reasonable to say that Aunt Chen has no salary and no labor insurance, the typical economy is not independent, and in her future living arrangements, she cannot but consider money and material problems, but Uncle Zhang has also accepted.
Maybe it really is the answer to that sentence: the lover's eyes are out of the west. As long as you like this person, there is no problem, who lets themselves see it?
Just like the object of young people now, men and women in love look at each other, how to see how to like, even if the quarrel is sweet, angry is cute.
Aunt Chen's evaluation of Uncle Zhang is also high-pressure, she said that when she looks at the other party, she is a good man with a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and with such a man, she has a sense of security.
The same man, Aunt Li in front of him is not optimistic, think he is a very egotistical and conceited, a man who is not responsible for the family, directly passed.
Aunt Chen looked at Uncle Zhang, like a fan sister,there was appreciation and admiration, and felt that such a man was her own ideal in the world.
In any case, this blind date activity was successful, and I hope that Uncle Zhang and Aunt Chen can hold hands and succeed, and wish them a happy and harmonious old age.
Write at the end:
There are no perfect people in this world, just to see if the other person is the person you really need, and if the answer is yes, then you are right.
The facts once again verify the truth that there is no best, only the right is not appropriate, so sometimes don't force yourself and the other party, if you can't do it, you will be the next.
As the saying goes, a thousand readers have a thousand Hamlets, and everyone looks at people and things from different angles, so the answers given are naturally different, and the one that suits them is the best.
I have seen a saying that the person you casually meet on the road may be the person that some people want to see in the twilight.
Therefore, in the sea of people, not all people will have a fate with themselves, it is not easy to find a person who is related to themselves and can appreciate each other, and it is not easy to cherish it when you meet it.
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About the Author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.