Wen | Immortals
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, including not only young people, but also the elderly, hoping to have a partner who can always accompany them, to eliminate loneliness and loneliness, most people understand, and even many children will look for the other half for widowed parents.
However, for the physiological needs of the elderly, children can not personally care, and even sometimes deliberately ignore, always feel that this matter is no longer important for the elderly, but in fact, this is not the case.
The elderly also need a husband and wife life, and may even need more than the young people, not only for themselves, but also for each other, as seen a 78-year-old grandfather's self-description, he said that he and his wife have been married for 60 years, have been in a bed, sleeping naked together, sleeping in the arms is not airtight at all. As the saying goes, "the thick cover of the shop is not as thick as the meat", the tight talk is convenient, the feelings are close, it is also easy to get excited, and the body is exercised, although it is not more than twice a week, but the body and mind are smooth, to avoid skin hunger, especially for the prostate, the female chest is not sagging, which is conducive to the integration of yin and yang. The two are convenient for taking care of each other and keeping abreast of their physical condition.
However, this matter has a premise, that is, you love me, and always pay attention to the other party's physical condition in the process, if the other party does not agree to be strong, it is not to applaud for love, but to hurt each other, and eventually the feelings that are hard to establish will disappear and cannot end well.
Uncle Yu is 68 years old this year, his wife passed away more than ten years ago, and then he has been living alone, and now he can have a pension of more than 10,000 yuan a month after retirement, coupled with the filial piety of his children, his later life is not bad at all, and it can be said that he is still very rich, and he is also willing to spend money, so although a person has many years, but the clothes have their own fixed brand, eating also pays attention to the way of health, and it is also very dashing.
However, a person for a long time, especially the age is getting older, it feels more and more lonely, a few years ago the children will often come to visit the uncle, but these years of marriage, the birth of the baby, everyone has their own busy things, there is no extra time to accompany the uncle, which allows the uncle to have another wife, talk about the idea of a dusk love.
In fact, this idea was put forward by the children many years ago, and at that time, Uncle Yu also looked for one, but after only one year of conversation, the other party was about to break up, and how to persuade them not to return, which made the children very confused, did not know what happened to the father and the other party, and Uncle Yu rarely mentioned this matter. And he himself may have been hurt by this matter, and he has never looked for it since, until now.
In fact, in the elderly blind date market, in order to the situation and family lineage of the uncle, it is particularly easy to find, so it did not take long to know Aunt Mei, she is four years younger than the uncle, but also has not been married after the widow, the only daughter is now working abroad, and now looking for a person who can live a life together, and grow old together.
In fact, Aunt Mei's idea is very simple, but also ask the other party to give themselves how much, after all, the companionship of people of her age is the most important, and looking up to Uncle Yu is also to value his gentle temperament and good health.
And Uncle Yu also fell in love with Aunt Mei at first sight, especially although Aunt Mei is more than sixty years old, but because the family is also well-off and will be maintained, it looks much younger than the actual age, which makes Uncle Yu very happy, and immediately wants to settle the matter of the two of them, and also takes the initiative to take out a dowry of 100,000 pieces to each other.
This is what Aunt Mei did not expect, which also makes her more favored for uncle a few points, after all, the man who spends money for you does not necessarily love you, but the man who does not spend money on you must not love you, such a bold remarriage object, do not blame Aunt Mei will agree.
With the initiative of Uncle Yu and the recognition of Aunt Mei, the two soon got married, originally thought that this was a happy twilight love, you can hold the hand of the son and the son with the old, but this marriage only lasted for 13 days, Aunt Mei actually disappeared, which made Uncle Yu very angry, and even found the TV station, scolding Aunt Mei is cheating marriage.
Uncle Yu said that if she did not want to live with herself, she could bring it up, where there was only 13 days of marriage and could not find anyone, and also took away her own colorful gifts, people can go, but to return the 100,000 yuan dowry. In fact, Uncle Yu's words are very pertinent, but there is no way to force it, but I can't get married for a few days and take away so much money from myself!
After many searches, finally found Aunt Mei at the home of Aunt Mei's friends, and when she saw Aunt Mei, she was tired and immediately denied Uncle Yu's statement, saying that he was not only a rude person, but also a shameless person, and he was the victim.
After repeated inquiries, Aunt Mei said what she had encountered in the 13 days of marriage, and it turned out that Uncle Yu usually couldn't see it, but
In terms of men and women, it is a very strong desire, I don't know how to solve it when she was alone before, but now with Aunt Mei, she began to toss her wildly, the first time she still felt good, but the second or third time she couldn't eat it, but he still wanted to continue, which made the original desire was not big, and because of her age, Aunt Mei, who was not good, couldn't eat it at all.
However, Uncle Yu completely ignored it, thinking that Aunt Mei was his wife, he should fulfill his husband and wife responsibilities, and did not listen to Aunt Mei's persuasion and continued to act according to his own ideas, which not only made Aunt Mei tired and abnormal, but even once after that, aunt Mei was hospitalized.
Aunt Mei cried as she spoke, and also took out the gynecological diagnosis book issued by the hospital, bluntly saying that now when she saw Uncle Yu, she was fighting in two battles, indicating that Uncle Yu hurt her too deeply and was determined to divorce him, and everyone glanced at Uncle Yu with strange eyes.
To tell the truth, although Uncle Yu is a bit unexpected, it is also reasonable, but his behavior is a little rude and selfish, but it is also true, there is a need not to find a wife who else can you find? In fact, at this time, there should be more communication, which also shows that the twilight love of the elderly values feelings, but it is also necessary to understand the ability in this regard, not every elderly person is capable of it, and there is also the existence of such a special ability as Uncle Yu.
As for the 100,000-piece bride price mentioned by Uncle Yu, Aunt Mei said that she had repaid him 90,000, and the remaining 10,000 was the cost of seeing a doctor himself, and he should pay this money. At this time, everyone's eyes turned to Uncle Yu's body, which he had never mentioned.
And Uncle Yu also lowered his head, even if he acquiesced to this matter, and then said that he did not want to give out a penny, why did his wife run away and give her money to see a doctor, so he did not say this matter, and wanted to get all the money back.
But in the end, Uncle Yu also knew that the money would not be returned, so he decided to give up, and the marriage between the two of them that lasted only 13 days ended, and Uncle Yu said again this time that he would not find a wife in this life.
Haruki Murakami once said: Whenever I look at the sea, I always want to talk to someone, but when I talk to someone, I always want to see the sea. Life is always so entangled and helpless, I believe that Uncle Yu and Aunt Mei also want to enter happiness to combine, but the opposite is true, and do not know how to understand and respect, so that the dream of twilight love is only 13 days away.
When it comes to the matter itself, it is not shameful that the elderly have physical needs, but it is also necessary to know that they can do what they can, not only for themselves, but also for their partners, young people cannot be too intense, let alone the elderly. The reason why Aunt Mei is in pain and illness is also that Uncle Yu is too selfish and needs too much, and it is no wonder that she is trying to separate.
After all, it is important to find a wife to relieve loneliness, but health and life are more important, and Aunt Mei is not enthusiastic about the affairs of men and women, and she cannot be with Uncle Yu with such a high frequency and intensity.
And Aunt Mei also has some problems, since she felt uncomfortable at the beginning, then she should have said it earlier, don't put up with it to the point of irreparability, so that there is no way back for feelings, hurting and spending money.
The elderly care about feelings and care more about money, and those who can't get it back want to pay back the money they paid, which is why Uncle Yu has been pestering Aunt Mei.
But in the end, to be a man is to have the responsibility of being a man, marriage is a cost, not to mention that because of him and let Aunt Mei hospitalized, he spends some money is also reasonable, after all, a feeling, do not lose face and lose your son, that will only be looked down upon by everyone.
Although dusk love is good, but also to look at the person, understand clearly and then walk in, after all, the elderly are not afraid of spending money, but there is no time to try again, a failure may be a lifetime will not try again, lonely life of loneliness is no amount of money can not buy back.
Therefore, cherishing the people in front of you, more communication, more understanding, and more understanding are the opportunities for white heads to grow old, and they are also the source of happiness. The most beautiful is the sunset red, after the sunset more calm!