Life flows slowly like a river. People's lives are not long, they are not short, some people are satisfied with life, and some people live a lifetime full of regrets.
No matter what your life experience is, you can't stop the pace of time. People who have been in love with each other and support each other always have to go first.
It is said that young couples are old partners, but if we have entered the twilight years and have lost our partners in marriage, the adjustment of mentality has become particularly important.
After decades of hand in hand, it is finally time to enjoy life together, one of them left first, and the person who was left lost his habitual life, and the emotions of panic, grief, and loss are intertwined, and it is difficult to repair.
There are always regrets in the world, and it is difficult for everyone to escape from birth, old age, illness and death, and if you have been immersed in it, it will be difficult to live a long time.
Whether you want to or not, you can only force yourself to look down on you, don't do stupid things, and walk the road for the rest of your life.
Accept reality and get out of the haze
Krylov once said: Reality is this shore, and the ideal is the other shore. There is a rushing river in the middle, and the action is a bridge over the river.
What is the most valuable thing in the world? Regret medicine is none other than that.
This also reflects the helplessness of reality from the side, many things have happened, there is no opportunity for you to make up, then, no matter how cruel the result is, you must learn to accept.
When the elderly lose their partners, they must learn to gradually adapt to the changing living environment, learn to adjust their mentality, and even learn to bear the "lonely and bitter" living state.
Only when we adjust our mentality and accept the reality of life can we gradually get out of the haze and re-establish our own life order.
Old age has something to do, old age has fun
Du Fu of the Tang Dynasty wrote in a poem: "Old age is sad and autumn is strong and self-reliant."
The misery and dissatisfaction in life can only comfort yourself. Facing life with a sad or joyful attitude is determined by oneself.
We have worked hard all our lives, and when we are young, time is often not at our disposal. In old age, finally have their own life, old age has something to do, old people have fun, to live up to this rare time.
Having your own hobbies can fill this seemingly long lonely life, and you can also make up for the unfinished wishes of your youth and make your old age life colorful.
There are also many elderly people who come out of grief and begin to accept twilight love. But in the face of twilight love, there are many aspects that we need to observe, consider, and choose, and we must choose those with similar views, and do not be too hasty.
Guarding the money house is rarely confused
Shakespeare said, "Money is a good soldier, and with it one can make a man a hundred times more courageous." ”
Money is something outside the body, but it is also a place to live. Especially in the old age, when people's earning power is weakened, money becomes particularly important.
If nothing else, just one illness, small illness is fine, if there is a major illness in the consumption of money, it will surprise you. In addition to the money in hand, the importance of the house is also self-evident.
There is no confusion about money, but there are some things that have to be confused. Especially in the treatment of children's affairs, less mixing, less accusations.
As the saying goes, "Whoever says anything in the world cannot be said, but he who sees through it does not say it." "Floating like a dream, half awake, half confused, is the best state."
Hideki Yukawa: I am not an extraordinary person, but a person who looks for a way in the deep mountain jungle.
Many times, our lives will not always be a smooth road, for the elderly life of loving couples: blessed people will take the first step.
For the rest of the people, it is necessary to find their own and best path in the confused life and continue to walk.
It is recommended that you can go to see a classic movie "A Man Named Ovie Decided to Die", which tells the life state of an elderly man after losing his partner, there are distress, helplessness, but also warm pictures and reconciliation with life.
Everyone has an obligation to let life transition smoothly, which is not only responsible for themselves, but also to let the other half of the person who left, real peace of mind.
Either way, being alive in itself teaches us to be strong.
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[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]