#当你老了, what do you regret the most when you are 60 years old # When I am old, the thing I probably regret the most is that I am obsessed with everything in the past and cannot let go. Suppose a person, in childhood

#当你老了, what do you regret the most when you are 60 years old # When I am old, the thing I probably regret the most is that I am obsessed with everything in the past and cannot let go.

If a person suffers trauma in childhood, we will complain, blame the original family, and resent those who have bullied us.

These things have passed, and holding them accountable will not promote your growth, nor will it make you happier, but will only make you more pessimistic and disappointed.

Only by learning to forgive and let go, starting over, taking the initiative to take responsibility, and taking responsibility for yourself in the moment can you make yourself better.