The circle of friends circulated such a screenshot:
A second-grade boy who never does housework at home, his mother contacted the teacher and asked not to arrange for him to do hygiene.
Whether this is love or harm is self-evident.
Parents of many boys' families always feel that "doing housework is a girl's business", and they are accustomed to doing everything and not letting their sons touch anything.
As a result, children will not wear clothes in kindergarten, primary schools will not peel eggs, middle schools will not tie shoelaces, universities will not fold sheets...
Even when he enters the society, he wants others to let him and refuse all the work that makes him feel hard and tired.
Doing so will not make him better, but will cause him to be rejected by more people because he does not adapt to the social environment.
Like the 29-year-old "nibbling old man" Xiao Kuang who sued his parents, he was spoiled and habitual from an early age, and everything was taken care of.
When he grew up, he had no intention of working, so he asked his parents to continue to raise him until he was old, and if he did not agree, he took his parents to court.
Behind such a farce, it reflects the parents' doting on their children.
Educator Makarenko said:
"Everything to the child, sacrificing everything, even sacrificing one's own happiness, this is the most terrible gift that parents give to their children."
I thought that raising a child to prevent old age, blindly protecting my son, and constantly satisfying him.
Unexpectedly, it fueled his selfishness, laziness and lack of ambition, ruining the rest of his life.
Coddling is not love at all; a coddled boy will only become a giant baby who does not grow up.
