With the end of the 2022 winter vacation, the children have also returned to school for a week of classes.
However, there are still some students, "people in Cao Ying's heart in Han", are still in the Thinking of the New Year's Holiday, and have not returned to the normal state of opening classes and learning.
Ma Songsong is a student in the 6th class of the fifth grade of the county experimental primary school. His math teacher, Mr. Wang, sent a message from the parent group:
"The following dozen children have not yet returned to the state of learning, do not listen carefully to lectures in class, wander their minds, and are in a daze...", including the name of Ma Songsong.
The emperor was not anxious about eunuchs, children did not listen carefully to lectures in class, and parents were more anxious.
Ma Dad is very anxious, because Song Song has refused to listen to his parents since he was a child, and he always likes to sing against them, and now that the child refuses to listen to the lessons, Ma Dad is really helpless and does not know how to be good.
During the evening meal, he quickly called Teacher Wang, "My son Ma Songsong has not been very attentive to learning, and may not really be able to keep up with other children in terms of learning, and he is unwilling to listen to me, so he also asks the teacher to help him supervise him more, and with the teacher's supervision, his state will be better."
Teacher Wang said: "Song Song is a very normal child, his learning ability is not a problem, his main problem is not willing to listen to the class, the performance of the last semester is OK, the final exam has also reached more than 80 points, as long as he can return to his heart, listen carefully to the class, his learning can be at the general level, tomorrow I will talk to him again." ”
When Song Song went home at night, she took her mother's car to go home, and Ma Ma also knew that the child did not love to learn, afraid that he would backfire, so she did not dare to manage too strictly, she suddenly remembered that she had read a book written by Teacher Yin Jianli a few days ago, "A good mother is better than a good teacher" Said in the method:
Let the child build self-confidence, can not criticize the child, and encourage and guide the child
So, she said to Song Song: "Son, you have made more progress in starting class this time than before, in the past, the day before the start of each school, you would cry and make a big fuss, saying that you didn't want to go to school, this time it was really good, I didn't cry or make trouble, I went to school on time, and my son grew a year older and went further!"
If the child likes learning, first let the child like the teacher, so that the child feels that he is very important in the teacher's heart
Ma's mother saw that her son did not reject herself and chatted with him, and continued to talk to him:
"At dinner today, your math teacher, Mr. Wang, called your dad."
Matsumatsu said, "What? Am I mistaken, was it my dad who called the teacher or the teacher called my dad"?
"It was really your teacher's phone call, I was right next to your father at that time, I heard it clearly, if you don't believe it, you can ask the teacher tomorrow."
Teacher Wang said: "You are a particularly well-behaved child, people are also very smart, last year's final exam results rose from often failed to more than 80 points"; she also said: "You are really a talent."
But the teacher also said, "You are still in the state of the holiday in class, your mind is not concentrated, you have not listened to the class much in the past few days, she told you to return to the state from tomorrow, so that you can always maintain last year's good results."
Song Song listened to his mother's words, and instead of agreeing to his mother, he said to his mother: "Now you should also accept your heart and concentrate on driving."
"Okay, I'll definitely concentrate on driving.".
After dinner the next day, my mother asked Matsumatsu, "How was the class today, is the heart back?" Do you understand what the teacher is saying? ”
Matsumatsu said, "I can answer the teacher's question today."
Therefore, Ma Ma also knows that Song Song has come out of the holiday environment and has begun to return to the state of normal learning.
Call the teacher to confirm, the teacher said: "Your education method this time is very good, he is really back to the state, the class can keep up with the teacher's thinking, the question can be accurately answered."
Therefore, in addition to educating children to be patient, they must also pay attention to methods and skills.
Each child is also a different complex individual, to really educate the child, parents must make good use of emotional companionship, fully understand the child at the same time, they must also continue to learn and grow.
In short, there is no best education for children, only better.
At each stage of the child's growth, parents should also be the same as when teaching the child to learn to walk, allow him to fall, constantly encourage, and finally let him learn to walk, learn to run, the child's life path, will certainly go more and more spacious.