Remarriage seems to have become a lot of people to re-choose marriage, re-choose the way of feelings, whether it is young or old, in the long life everyone will also have their own right to choose love and ways, in the face of feelings, need to be serious, but also need to think carefully, so that they can make their next life more smooth.
60-year-old Uncle Lee's family affairs:
Uncle Li retired this year, after retirement he officially began his pension life, Uncle Li's body is still very healthy, and now after retirement, the monthly pension is also six thousand yuan, which makes his current conditions are also very good.
Uncle Li's wife died of illness a few years ago, and there is a son, a daughter, and now the life of the two children has been stable, and there is no need for Uncle Li to worry too much, and life has suddenly become idle.
Uncle Li knew a unit before retirement, but a few years younger than his own Aunt Sun, the two people usually have little contact at work, but also through several short contacts after a good feeling, Aunt Sun's marriage is not happy, his ex-husband lost money in business when he was young, and later aunt Sun was not so good, the two people often quarreled, and finally had to choose divorce, in the eyes of some people, Aunt Sun can not suffer together, But for the people around them know that Aunt Sun suffered too many grievances at that time, because the ex-husband's business was not smooth, so he often lost his temper with Aunt Sun, and even after owing a large amount of money, he sold the house of two people, and this house did not get anything for Aunt Sun, because the name of this house is the name of the ex-husband, which was bought before the two people got married, so the house had nothing to do with Aunt Sun, and finally when the two people divorced, Aunt Sun could say that nothing was obtained, only the child followed her.
Aunt Sun's experience is actually quite painful, after all, when the two people divorced, Aunt Sun was more than forty years old, although she also had a job, she could make money, but the money before was basically not retained, and she was paid off by her ex-husband, and in the next few years, Aunt Sun has always been renting a house, making money while supporting children, fortunately, in these years, she has also survived, and the children have also begun to work.
Maybe it was after experiencing a failed marriage, Aunt Sun never went on a blind date, did not want to get married in the past, and even only wanted to live alone, until she met Uncle Li, the two people belonged to the kind of love at first sight, both of them had a common hobby, that is, reading, the two people also became friends because of books, and gradually became friends until now.
After Uncle Li retired, he suddenly wanted to set up a new family with Aunt Sun, because the interests and hobbies between each other were very suitable, and after knowing Aunt Sun's past, he was also a little distressed, and he wanted to live together, and after retirement, Aunt Sun even set up a small stall, which became Uncle Li's favorite place.
Although Aunt Sun refused at first, on the one hand, her own experience made her hesitate, on the other hand, it was also because she felt that the conditions of the two people were a little different, but under the continuous pursuit of Uncle Li, Aunt Sun agreed to be together, but she made a request, need to buy a house again, the house can be downpaid, but must write her name.
In the face of Aunt Sun's request, Uncle Li did not think too much about it, but said:
"I can write your name on my house now, this house was bought before, and now there is no loan, and it is also very good, it is my name, you can add your name." 」
But Aunt Sun said:
"After all, it's your house with your wife, and it's not appropriate for me to live in it, and your children don't agree."
But Uncle Li still made a decision, to persuade his children, but Uncle Li's matter just after he finished talking to the children, he was opposed by two children, the children felt that Uncle Li should find a wife to live a life, but Fang Ben did not need to write her name, two people to live together is very good, all at this age, have to care so much about what to do, afraid that Aunt Sun's intentions are not pure.
But Uncle Lee explained:
"After all, her last marriage did not go well, and in the end nothing fell behind, she lived a lifetime without even a house, and now she wants a home of her own."
But the daughter said:
"Dad, her past has nothing to do with us, we can't let our family compensate for her past, and you are all this age, feel comfortable together and live together, live at home we are also willing, after all, you also like, there is a person with you, we are also happy, but it has nothing to do with the house, you can get a license, but there is really no need to add her name to the house book." 」
The son immediately echoed:
"Yes, Dad, you are living very well together, and we would like her to be with you, but the house and the name cannot be added, and there are still fewer people cheating on marriages now?" In case she just marries you, and then waits for you to add a name and divorce you, then there will be no feelings, and the house will be lost in half. ”
Maybe the son's words were a little too much, and Uncle Li was also a little angry, angry:
"This is my house, I'm getting married now, I'm just going to let you know, not for you to make a decision for me, it's so fixed, you also have a psychological preparation." 」
Seeing that the matter was about to be fixed, the children had no choice but to comfort Uncle Li not to worry, and at the same time, they were afraid of being deceived, and finally the daughter said a way:
"Dad, do you see this work, I went to tell Aunt Sun, if you have been married for five years, together for five years, this house plus her name, good or not, at least these five years can also see whether she is sincere to you, so we can also rest assured." 」
Uncle Li did not speak after hearing it, and acquiesced, and later when Uncle Li's daughter talked to Aunt Sun about this matter, Aunt Sun said:
"I'm all this age, and the name on the house book is also to be able to have a home, and when I can leave some assets for my children after a hundred years, I know what you are worried about, but it's okay, I and your father can get along well, and if you can't, you will be separated, just do as you say." 」
Although Aunt Sun agreed, Uncle Li's daughter still felt a little unhappy, and that sentence left some assets for her son, which made her still feel a little dissatisfied, and finally Uncle Li made a decision:
"Then get married, add her name after five years, people want to leave some assets for their children can also be understood, after all, living with me, nothing else, at least in terms of life or she will pay more, we can't sell this house for much money, then if you are willing, walk around with her children more, don't want to be half of a person, it's also very good, just so it's fixed, don't worry." 」
This finally made Uncle Li marry Aunt Sun and get a certificate.
Write at the end:
Whether it is in the marriage feelings of young people or in the twilight love of the elderly, in fact, there should be real feelings and pay, to feel whether a love is suitable for themselves, and in the face of some material contradictions, they should also be mentioned in time to communicate and resolve it, so that they can better enter a new life.
Similarly, for children, it is also appropriate to consider more, after all, in today's life, the feelings of the elderly are still quite serious, and there must be a certain degree of vigilance, but it is also necessary to master the ways and methods, so that they can make their parents more receptive, what do you think?