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When a man really loves a woman, he has an attitude; when a man really loves a woman, he has feelings.
Probably everyone will only be indifferent to the people they don't like; for the women they like, they want to be together day by day.
Whether men are with you because they love you or do they only have a physical need for you, there will be these few signs.
1. The first time you meet, you are anxious to have intimate contact
For women, she needs to cultivate in her feelings, and when she does not confirm herself and truly love a man, she will not deliver her feelings so quickly, and she will not deliver her body so quickly.
If two people have never met, and the man is eager to have intimate contact with you when they first meet, then you must carefully consider his feelings for you.
Because in that state, he doesn't love you at all, he has no patience at all, and he has established feelings with you, he just wants to express his desires.
Men who truly love you are restrained and rational in the face of you.
Even if he really likes you and wants to have an intimate interaction with you, he will manage his relationship with you first.
Because he loves you so much, he cares a lot about your feelings, not just thinking about his own feelings.
A man who is serious about feelings will not be reckless and reckless, and will not base his happiness on your insecurities.
Because what he wants is a long-term marriage and relationship with you, not only a momentary happiness and a temporary companionship.
Good intimacy happens naturally, not in a hurry with men's ulterior motives.
2. Erratic attitude towards you
Women in the relationship, must find an emotionally stable, not just look for the rich man.
For a man's earning power, his character and virtue are the most important considerations for women to marry.
If a woman can find a man who loves you wholeheartedly and consistently in her relationship, it is really a great surprise and surprise in your life.
When men first started with you, because they had not yet received you, they were incomparably gentle with you, incomparably patient, and incomparably pampered.
After he got you, his attitude towards you changed dramatically, which shows that when you first met, his feelings for you were just his bad intentions.
A man who truly loves you, whether he gets you or not, he will have a stable attitude towards you.
It will not be inexplicably hot and cold, nor will it disappear inexplicably, and it will not be inexplicably thunderous to you.
A man who has an erratic attitude towards you, a man you can never guess what he's thinking, who only has a physical need for you, not because he loves you.
Because he doesn't love you, he does everything by considering his feelings, he comes to you when he needs it, and you never find him when he doesn't want to see you.
A man who comes to you only when you need it; a man who only sweetly talks to you when he needs it, is an extremely selfish man and a man who only has a physical need for you and no feelings.
3. Never touch on the future and the reality of life
When a man really loves you, he will be responsible for you, and he is more looking forward to if he really wants to choose a woman and spend his life with himself, he will not hesitate to insist, that person is you.
If a man doesn't love you and just has a physical need for you, he won't think about the future of the two of you at all.
Because your future has nothing to do with him, he just wants to accompany you through this short journey and does not consider running a long, long-term marriage and relationship with you.
When a man makes money outside, it is very hard, and when a man is really working for a woman, he is willing to suffer this pain, because he wants to give his beloved woman, a warm home, and a good future.
A man who always lives by his girlfriend, no matter how grandiose he says he loves you, he loves only himself, because he is not willing to work hard for your future, he just wants to live a comfortable life alone.
In life, you are faced with the triviality of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, your rent, travel, living expenses, etc., he has thrown these responsibilities on you, let you bear it alone, let you bear it alone.
If you have just paid the rent, are penniless, and are still anxious about what to eat next month, you hope that men can try to find a job and do a good job, men will feel that you are extremely realistic, because you only like rich men.
A man who doesn't love you but only has physical needs for you, he doesn't want to, take on the heavy responsibilities of life, and don't want to carry your future marriage, and your future.
Does a person really love you? Or will it marry you? Or do you only have a physical need? Women can judge themselves through these three signs.
When a man does not have a clear plan for your future; when a man is eager to have an intimate relationship with you the first time you meet; when a man has a hot and cold attitude towards you, and his emotions are uneven, he does not love you at all, he just treats you as a physical need.
When a man truly loves a woman, he is not only emotionally fond of the woman, but also physically willing to accept the woman.
If men are already in the relationship, exposing their own signs, women must not be stupid and pretend not to know, the last injured only you, you must learn to stop the loss in time to leave, your happiness and life, there is a new world.
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