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A person's life will definitely be very lonely, so many people will have the idea of remarriage after divorce or widowhood, and they all want to find a partner for themselves, so that they will live happily for the rest of their lives. Some women are over 50 years old but still have a desire for love and hope to find someone who loves themselves to spend their old age together.
No matter what age a woman has the right to pursue and pursue marriage, it is normal to find a partner for herself. But in general, people will choose to remarry with people of their own age, because the opposite sex with the same age difference can only be long-lasting.
However, there are also some people who prefer to be younger than themselves and find a much younger partner for themselves, and Aunt Lu, 51, is one of them. Aunt Lu cried: "I remarried with a 33-year-old guy, but my life is not satisfactory, and I really can't sleep well every day now." "What kind of story happened to Aunt Lu's body?" Let's take a look.
Self-narrator: Aunt Lu
I'm 51 years old and I didn't go out to work when I was younger because I didn't have to worry about money at all. Although I was born in an era of son preference, because my mother's family conditions were relatively good, I was not wronged since I was a child, and I did not lack money to spend.
Later, under the arrangement of my parents, I married my husband, in fact, I did not like my husband, because my husband looked very ordinary, only 1 meter 6 tall, but he weighed 150 pounds, and his skin was dark, which looked really ugly. But my parents thought that my husband had money in the family and would definitely let me live a good life in the future, so they had to let me marry my husband.
In the end, I also listened to my parents and married my husband. Although my husband is ugly, he is still very good to me, especially willing to spend money for me, as long as it is what I want, he will try to be satisfied. At that time, I didn't have to work, I went out shopping with friends every day, did maintenance, and had a happy life.
So later I slowly accepted my husband, although he was not good-looking, but he really loved me, and he also let me live a happy life, so I never thought of betraying my husband. Over the years, the feelings of the two of us have become deeper and deeper, and life has been quite happy, I thought that my husband could accompany me for a lifetime, but I did not expect that he would give up halfway through.
In March last year, my husband was in a car accident while on a business trip, was hit so badly that he died on the spot, and I didn't even see him for the last time. After my husband left, I realized how deep my feelings for him were, the month he just left, I didn't have any appetite every day, I couldn't eat, the whole person lost more than a dozen pounds, and I didn't want to communicate with others, locking myself in my room every day.
My son was particularly worried about me and wanted to take me to live with him, but I didn't accept it, because I knew that my daughter-in-law was not very willing to live with the old man, and if I really passed, it might cause them husband and wife to have a conflict, so even if I wanted to live with my son again, I didn't live there.
Later, after the healing of time, I slowly got better. I think this kind of life is really boring every day, I just want to find a job for myself, my sister knew that I was looking for a job, and then told me that her gym was ready to recruit a group of elderly fitness instructors and let me try it.
I also have a little heart after listening to it, I know more about fitness, because I have been insisting on it for decades, I will go to the gym several times a week, and it is precisely because of my perennial fitness habits, my physical fitness is particularly good, and the figure is also maintained very well. Although he is more than half a hundred years old, if he does not look at his face, he is still like a young girl.
Later, as I expected, I successfully interviewed, and since I became a fitness coach, I feel that my life has a hope again, every day is quite meaningful, and I will never feel bored again. And I also met a lot of new friends in the gym, some the same age as me, some who were much younger than me, and I felt that life was really much more fulfilling than before.
And our gym team building activities are also a lot, basically two or three times a month, and the cost is gym package, we don't need anything, as long as people go on the line. So I'm really grateful to my sister, if she hadn't introduced me to the past, I probably wouldn't have been able to find such a good job. I'm really happy working in the gym.
Later, I met Xiao Jin through the introduction of my colleagues, Xiao Jin is also a fitness coach, but he is not from our gym. At first, I didn't think we would develop, but fate is such a wonderful thing. When we first added contact information, Xiaojin often chatted with me, and I found that Xiaojin knew a lot, and he was also very good at chatting with me, so I also had a good feeling for Xiaojin, and I usually liked to chat with him.
Every day before going to bed, I have to talk to XiaoJin for a while, which has become my habit, otherwise I really can't sleep. Later, there was a period of time when XiaoJin didn't pay much attention to me, and at that time I felt a little sick and lost, and I didn't have any spirit when I worked every day. At that time, I realized that I might really like Xiao Jin, but I couldn't think of the gap between us.
Because I am already 51 years old, and Xiao Jin is only 33 years old, the difference between us is 18 years old, if I had a child earlier, I could have been Xiao Jin's mother, I think we must not be together, so I did not want to confess, but buried that love in my heart.
However, I did not expect that after a few days, the conditions began to look for me frequently, and explained to me that I had something to deal with before my hometown, so I did not have time to contact me. Hearing Xiao Jin say this, my heart was agitated again, and I felt that my mood was good again. After about a month, Xiao Jin suddenly confessed to me, at that time I was really surprised, I told Xiao Jin my worries, Xiao Jin told me that he did not care about age, he loved me as a person, even if he would be gossiped by others, he would also be with me, and when he heard Xiao Jin say this, he did not want to retreat anymore, so he agreed to Xiao Jin.
During my relationship with Xiaojin, Xiaojin was really very considerate to me, coming to pick me up from work every day, and then rushing back to work by himself, and when I left work, he also had to pick me up and personally send me home. Xiao Jin's cooking skills are very good, he often comes to my house to cook for me to eat, but also help me clean the hygiene of the home, it is because of this bit and piece, I completely fell into, we only talked about love for two months, I and Xiao Jin got a marriage license.
After the two of us got married, I thought that I would definitely live a very happy life in the future, after all, I could have xiaojin in my future life. The living expenses of the family are my expenses, but I don't care about these things, anyway, I have money, and it is the most important thing to be able to live a good life. All the clothes of this Xiaojin are also bought by me, and every month I will give Xiaojin another 10,000 yuan of pocket money, and then Xiaojin said that it was not very convenient to have no car at home, so I didn't think about it, so I bought a car for Xiaojin with more than 300,000 yuan.
It can be said that I have everything I need from Xiaojin, but after we got married for a month, Xiaojin told me that his parents are older and not in good health, so they don't trust them to live in their hometown and want to take their parents over. I didn't refuse, so I accompanied Xiaojin back to my hometown and took his parents over.
But since then, I haven't had a comfortable day, although their family of three has spent my money to live with me, but Xiaojin's parents still don't like me very much and always look for my stubble everywhere. I often say I don't want a face, I'm so old, I'm still looking for their son. And Xiao Jin is also standing by his parents' side, and every time we have a conflict, he is helping his parents.
And I also found that Xiao Jin had an external heart, and usually did not return at night. Now I have realized that Xiaojin married me for my money, I really want to divorce, I also mentioned this matter to Xiaojin, but Xiaojin did not agree at all, and said that he would not divorce me when he died.
I'm really miserable now, I can't sleep well every night, I'm very worried when I think about these things, I know that I shouldn't have married Xiaojin in the first place, and now I can't end it.
Write at the end
The vast majority of women are particularly emotional, and they are easily deceived by men's rhetoric and are willing to give everything for each other. But women must understand that men like young and beautiful little girls, and if he is willing to be with a woman who is much older than himself, there is only one reason, that is, he wants the other party's money. Marrying such a man is absolutely unlikely to be happy, and it is likely that he will end up with two people and money later.