After experiencing Xiao Lu's infidelity, the divorced Fang Yinuo was slowly cured by Xie Tianhua, coupled with the kindness of the Xie family to her, Fang Yinuo's temperament was also much softer, no longer as before, it seemed that he would always live in anxiety.
Xiao Lu and Dong Fan also started a new life, which should have been an "enemy couple" who did not interfere with each other and no longer intersected, but because of the child's illness, they had to put aside all their grievances and dissatisfaction and regain close contact and exchanges.
Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo are fine, Xie Tianhua has always loved Fang Yinuo deeply, trusted her, and the two have always respected and supported each other after remarrying, Xiao Lu is Xie Tianhua's good buddy, he will never suspect that there will be renewed feelings between the two.
Xiao Lu is different, Xiao Lu has always been a straight man with a large nerve, he does not know how to coax women, nor does he understand women's minds, Dong Fan whenever he sees a smile on his face that cannot be concealed when he receives a phone call from Fang Yinuo, her emotions are inevitably a little lost.
And it was Xiao Lu who was sorry for Fang Yinuo, so in his heart, there was always a trace of guilt in the other party Yinuo, although it was not love, but this "guilt" was enough to plant a thorn in their marriage, seemingly rooted in Dong Fan's heart.
Especially since Fang Yinuo allowed Xiao Lu to see his daughter Hehe, the marriage between the two suddenly cracked a crack, and Xiao Lu's various performances after this also let Dong Fan know that he may not love her so much.
Everyone wants to have a love that will not be abandoned until death, especially those who have been hurt in the relationship, and it takes a lot of courage to pay the heart and start a relationship again.
They do not believe in love, and they always look forward to love in their hearts, and when they really meet love one day, most of them may not be happy and excited, but more tempting, cautious and wary.
Of course, falling in love with a person who has been hurt in marriage will also make you hesitate and uneasy, because every love is selfish, but in the face of a person who has lived in the heart of others, it is difficult for us to judge whether we are unique in each other's hearts, just like Dong Fan and Xiao Lu, looking at it is also a beautiful relationship, but once it comes to the problem of the previous marriage, the contradiction will come out.
Remarried couples, want to judge whether the couple is true love, you can try to consider from the following three aspects, if there is a discrepancy, it means that there is still a gap between you, you need to use a more sincere and firm heart to maintain this marriage.
First, you can't share each other's family affairs
Have you ever had the experience of your husband's family chatting happily in their hometown dialect, sometimes laughing; sometimes glancing casually at you and whispering at a lowered volume?
When you look at them or walk toward them, they immediately shut their mouths, as if you were an intruder who had trespassed into the house and disturbed the well-being of their family.
Don't say remarried couples, even the original couple may have many people who have had similar experiences, this feeling of being kept in the dark, being isolated and excluded by the man's family, often makes the partner feel hurt and feel that he will always be an outsider in this family.
Especially remarried couples, because of the problem of the previous relationship and children, sometimes they will feel inconvenient to say in front of you when they talk about children or the last relationship, and they will quietly get together to discuss, often at this time, it will anger the partner.
Just like Xiao Lu in "Dear Child", since he was allowed to visit Hehe, he put all his thoughts on Hehe, and often did not consult with Dong Fan, he directly accompanied his daughter for a night, and when Dong Fan said it, he said with a straight face: The child is sick, and I, as a father, cannot not accompany him.
Often at this time, Dong Fan can only swallow all of his stomach, because everyone's children are sick, and you still have the right to accuse, and if you continue to make trouble, you are just unreasonable.
In fact, as a father, the child has cancer and wants to give her all the love, and it hurts that she accompanies her is a normal act of parenthood, but Xiao Lu ignores the importance of communicating with the current, Dong Fan is not Xiao Lu to take care of the child every time, but his own assertion every time, it seems that everything is his own business, and has nothing to do with her.
Husband and wife are the closest people in the world besides their parents, but also to accompany themselves through life, pouring out their hearts and their own family and family things, can make each other more trusting, but also show that you regard your partner as your most concerned and no need to fortify the family, only this kind of trust can make each other's hearts closer, so that the feelings are more stable.
Second, the happiness of childbearing cannot be shared
To save Hehe, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo must have another child, and Fang Yinuo feels unfair to Xie Tianhua and chooses to divorce him.
Compared with Fang Yinuo, Xiao Lu was much more selfish, he felt that having a child with Fang Yinuo was entirely to save Hehe, and it did not affect his marriage to Dong Fan, and he never considered whether Dong Fan could accept it.
Sure enough, Dong Fan, who had always understood and understood him, collapsed at that moment, asking him to make a choice between her and the child, and it had to be either or the other.
Dong Fan once questioned Xiao Lu why when he told him before that he wanted to have a child for the two of them, Xiao Lu did not agree, and now he wanted him to have a child with Fang Yinuo, but he agreed without even thinking about it, although it was to save Hehe, but she always had a thorn in her heart.
Many remarried couples do not want to have children after having their own children, because they are afraid of hurting the boss, and they are afraid that after the wife has her own children, she will ignore the big one or let the boss be wronged, but for women who have not given birth, she definitely also wants to have a child with her lover, so that the relationship between the husband and wife will become closer and stronger.
Children are the crystallization of conjugal love, but also the bridge and bond connecting the feelings of husband and wife, especially in China, this kind of attachment to heirs from ancient times to the present, in order to have children with predecessors, they are unwilling to have children with the current, this kind of love is undoubtedly selfish, unless you have explained it before you get married.
Third, the economy cannot be shared
The topic of economy is probably one of the most sensitive topics between second-married couples, as long as it involves the issue of money, it is easy for second-married couples to have conflicts.
Xiao Lu once gave Fang Yinuo a card saying that he was treating Hehe, and said that he would deposit money in it every year, I believe that he must have never told Dong Fan about this matter, and he often gave money to his brother Xiao Xu, which caused a husband and wife war before he and Fang Yinuo divorced.
Dong Fan has a job and an income, so there has been no dispute between the two in the economic aspect, but in real life, if a similar situation occurs, a family war will definitely break out.
Money is a more sensitive topic in remarriage marriages, and most couples do not want to tell each other their true income, on the one hand, they distrust their partners, and on the other hand, they want to make more plans for their children.
In fact, whether it is a first marriage or a remarried couple, if it cannot be shared in money, marriage is difficult to last for a long time, because life is originally to eat and dress and sleep, everything is money, everything is money, if you are calculating on the money, how can people believe that you will accompany me to take care of me and protect me when I am sick and in trouble.
A marriage, if you don't have even the most basic sense of trust, is doomed to go ahead.
Whether it is a first marriage, or a remarried couple, the relationship between husband and wife is the most intimate relationship, a good marriage should be regardless of you and me, jointly run the marriage well, if it is mutual mustard, the hearts of the two will be estranged, so that they cannot pay wholehearted trust to each other.
A truly good couple should share hardships and hardships, share the joys and sorrows of life, share each other's hardships, trust each other, respect each other, and face the ups and downs of life together.