Zhang Ailing once wrote: "I have walked so far, turned a thousand times, was it originally to meet you?" "There are thousands of passers-by in life, and when you meet the right person, you will not waste this brilliant life." As the song goes, "Love the right person, Valentine's Day goes by every day." ”
At the age of 49, Aunt Li met the person who made her feel safe for the rest of her life, this person was Uncle Wang, who was six years older than her, and when it came to the encounter between the two, she was still quite fateful.
When Aunt Li was 40 years old, her husband died of illness, she did not have a stable job, she relied on odd jobs everywhere, and pulled her son up. At that time, there was a job as a nurse for Uncle Wang's wife, who had a deep affection for his wife, and after decades of ups and downs, his wife was terminally ill, and the couple had been thinking about each other.
Uncle Wang accompanies his wife every day, lets the doctor do his best to treat his wife, even if the family is ruined, he must seize the first opportunity. Aunt Li also often saw Uncle Wang sneaking tears in the corridor, and Uncle Wang's wife often nagged her husband's goodness, and always advised Uncle Wang to find another one, after all, he was only in his fifties at the time, and his children would have their own families, and he was afraid that her husband would be alone.
Aunt Li was deeply touched by the affection of the two, she thought of her husband's reluctance and regret when he was dying, hoping that the couple could have a good ending, so the wife who took care of Uncle Wang was more attentive, other people's nurses were all a little counted, more money, but Aunt Li never mentioned overtime pay, saw Uncle Wang's wife was tortured by illness, and would take the initiative to stay and help for a while.
Later, Uncle Wang's wife still left, walking very peacefully. After that, she went to work elsewhere, relying on her meager income, supporting her son until he graduated from college, and did not see Uncle Wang again until his son joined the work.
Aunt Li's son was afraid that she was alone, so he arranged a blind date for her, hoping that she would find someone to live with and take care of everything. Aunt Li is inferior in her heart, in fact, she does not have illusions, because she has no social security, no pension, and an unmarried son, who is not popular in the blind date market.
Sure enough, many middle-aged men learned about her conditions and retired. Until her friend introduced her to Uncle Wang, the two were old acquaintances, and although they were surprised to meet, they were not embarrassed at all, and they could also talk.
Uncle Wang has some understanding of Aunt Li's character, knows that she is diligent and simple, and does not dislike her lack of medical insurance, etc., of course, to choose a reliable and comfortable life, so Uncle Wang proposed marriage.
At that time, Aunt Li was still a little inferior in her heart, because Uncle Wang was much better than her, Uncle Wang used to work in the unit, the pension was relatively high, there were two houses, and the children had also become a family and lived in other places.
Uncle Wang's friends did not understand and advised him not to be the wronged boss, and Uncle Wang's children were also worried that Aunt Li was ill-intentioned, so they did not agree.
In fact, in law, children have no right to interfere in the marriage of their parents, because the original Marriage Law and the current Civil Code clearly stipulate that marriage should be completely voluntary by both men and women, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other party and prohibit any organization or individual from interfering.
Therefore, as long as Uncle Wang and Aunt Li are both voluntary, they can obtain a certificate. Only parents, on the moral level, will still consider the feelings of their children, so Uncle Wang is also embarrassed.
However, he has identified her, no longer thinks about others, and believes that his children will one day understand their choices. Aunt Li was touched by his persistence, in order not to let others say that she was going for his money, she offered not to pull the marriage certificate, so that there would be no property disputes, the two people would live together, and if it was not appropriate, they would separate.
Uncle Wang was grateful for her reasonableness, and his children had no words, so Uncle Wang and Aunt Li began a happy life. Uncle Wang gives her 3,000 yuan per month for living expenses, and Aunt Li herself will do some odd jobs to earn money.
Usually, the home is organized in an orderly manner, and the life is full of taste. Uncle Wang is a very ceremonial person, every special holiday will send her small gifts, Valentine's Day will also send flowers. At this age, Aunt Li still received flowers from the opposite sex for the first time, which was a romance that her previous husband had not given.
Later, Aunt Li got breast cancer, although it was in the early stages, as long as a small operation can be slowly recovered, but the cost of surgery is more than 100,000, which is a big expense, Aunt Li is desperate, and even thought of giving up treatment.
Although the two lived together, there was no legal relationship in law, and even if Uncle Wang did not give her money to treat her, he would not commit the crime of abandonment. This is because article 261 of the Criminal Law stipulates that the crime of abandonment refers to the refusal to provide for an elderly, young, sick or other person who has the obligation to support an elderly, young, sick or other person who does not have the ability to live independently, and if the circumstances are heinous, he shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than five years, criminal detention or public surveillance.
But Uncle Wang gave her confidence and promised her: "If you follow me, you are my person, we have a disease, no matter how much it costs, I will find a way." Under the comfort of Uncle Wang, Aunt Li quit her job and was relieved to treat her illness. After the operation, Uncle Wang has also been taking good care of her.
Later, Aunt Li's son got married and bought a house, the down payment was still 50,000 yuan, and it was also Uncle Wang who let Aunt Li give him the money saved as a heart, and Aunt Li's son refused to ask for it, or Uncle Wang persuaded him to accept it.
The two have been together for five years, and the feelings have become sweeter and sweeter. Aunt Li said that Uncle Wang has diabetes, except for the little thing between husband and wife, everything else is fine. At their age, those things are not important anymore, and it is more important to meet someone who has himself in his heart than anything else.
Love has never been about age, and if a relationship doesn't make you better and may make you worse than before, it means you haven't met the right person. Fortunately, Aunt Li and Uncle Wang have gone through thousands of sails and still have sincerity and eagerness for love.
(Involving privacy, the names in this case are pseudonyms, and some of the pictures are from the Internet, which only matches the narrative.) Warm reminder: respect the original, please do not plagiarize the handling and reprint Oh)