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Preface
Some people say that Xie Tianhua is the 2.0 version of Cai Xiaoguang, who only loves one person in his life.
However, I feel that Xie Tianhua and Cai Xiaoguang, one heaven and one underground, are different from clouds and mud.
Zhou Rong in Cai Xiaoguang's eyes, no matter what age, can not understand how to behave in the world. However, Cai Xiaoguang will give Zhou Rong a clear analysis of right and wrong, and then say to Zhou Rong: No matter what kind of decision you make, I can understand.
Because of love, so inclusive.
Fang Yinuo in Xie Tianhua's eyes, no matter what ridiculous things he did, was to save Hehe. Therefore, as long as Fang Yinuo does not divorce, Xie Tianhua agrees, even if Fang Yinuo wants to have another child with her ex-husband.
Because of love, so tolerate.
The difference is that Zhou Rong grows up in tolerance, and Fang Yinuo is lost in tolerance.
Revisiting "Dear Child", I was no longer touched by Xie Tianhua's deep affection for Fang Yinuo, but wanted to persuade the girls: Lovers without a bottom line cannot marry.
Why is It said that Fang Yinuo is lost in tolerance?
The bone marrow matching of the grass failed, and the doctor said that there was another way: the child's biological parents had another child, and then used the newborn's umbilical cord blood to save the child.
"Marrying you is for Hehe, I want her to have a father, and I want to let myself have someone to share the pressure of life, that's it."
At this time, Fang Yinuo looked at Xie Tianhua, who was waiting for Hehe as if he were his own, and what she thought was not Xie Tianhua's efforts in the past three years, what she thought was not that the Xie family had quarreled because Xie Tianhua wanted to sell the house to save Hehe, she thought that she wanted to save Hehe, she wanted to divorce, and then she had another child as soon as possible with her ex-husband Xiaolu.
Many people say that Fang Yinuo exudes great maternal love. However, I would like to say that Fang Yinuo is too selfish, she only thinks of doing what she wants to do, and ignores the feelings of the people closest to her.
When Fang Yinuo was sure that she would be able to do anything to save Hehe, her husband, her parents, and even her former mother-in-law, Gao Caiping, were all suffering and thinking about the future for her.
Xie Tianhua found Xiao Lu for the first time, and he asked Xiao Lu if he would divorce him. When he learned that Xiao Lu did not want to divorce and only wanted to have a child to save Hehe, Xie Tianhua punched Xiao Lu in the street and asked: Have you ever thought about what Fang Yinuo should do in the future? What should the two families do after that?
Fang Yinuo's father begged Xie Tianhua not to divorce his daughter, saying:
"I know that we don't have a face when we mention this to you, and I myself am embarrassed. However, Fang Yinuo is my daughter, and I just watched her go black for Hehe's sake, I really can't do it. Tianhua, don't divorce my family, okay? I beg you. ”
Even Gao Caiping, who was not literate, pointed at Xiao Lu and scolded:
"You don't think about saving Hehe all day long, and then you faint on your own head, you say Yinuo, you are going to make a child with her, are you going to remarry?" You let her face the Xie family with two children alone, how did you live? ”
What was even more infuriating was that when Fang Yinuo learned that she was pregnant and that she was pregnant with Xie Tianhua's child, she did not want to give birth to this child. And this child is the first child of Xie Tianhua, who is nearly forty years old. Could it be that Hehe is a dear child, and fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua's child are not dear children?
Because of the understanding and tolerance of relatives, they have to move forward, completely disregarding the feelings of others, and Fang Yinuo's selfishness is cultivated.
Why does Xie Tianhua have no bottom line?
When Dong Fan knew that her husband was going to have another child with his ex-wife, he scolded Xiao Lu and said, "You bastard! ”
Indeed, Xiao Lu had long forgotten his responsibilities to his existing family.
He said that he wanted to live a good life with Dong Fan, but he did not want to have children, and let Dong Fan understand and accept that he had another child with his ex-wife.
After calming down, Dong Fan calmly filed for divorce with Xiao Lu. Even if Xiao Lu is stalking and chasing after him, Dong Fan still adheres to the bottom line:
"The child and I can only choose one or the other, and this matter is not negotiable."
Xie Tianhua knew that when his wife wanted to have another child with her ex-husband, she did not get angry with Fang Yinuo, and he said that he could understand that he could accept Fang Yinuo's surgery, as long as he did not divorce.
Later, when Dong Fan told him that Fang Yinuo could not do surgery and was going to open a room with Xiao Lu tonight, Xie Tianhua pulled down the roller shutter door of the potted plant shop and let Dong Fan cry outside the door:
"Xie Tianhua, you come out, let's discuss, let's think of a way, and then think of a way!"
Xie Tianhua chose to pretend to be deaf and dumb, and did not pay attention to it.
Can he really accept Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu having another child?
No.
As his sister Shedan said of him:
"If you play small like this, otherwise you will be wronged, and I will not give you a head!"
Habitually forbearance.
Therefore, when Fang Yinuo fell and lost her and Xie Tianhua's children, Xie Tianhua did not hesitate to report the fact that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu had planned artificial insemination with a fake marriage license, and at this time, Xie Tianhua completely forgot hehe's life and death.
It is not fortunate that a man loves you to the point of accepting it completely and has no bottom line, because if one day he feels that his efforts are unfair, you should think about what you can give back to him.
Write at the end
Yang Lan once said: "The bond of marriage is not children, not money, but the common growth of the spirit." ”
Deeply.
In "The World of Man", Zhou Rong, who has always been clean and tall, learned to pay under the influence of Cai Xiaoguang. In order to let Cai Xiaoguang direct the play he lost before, Zhou Rong hid Cai Xiaoguang's life for the first time in his life and begged for people, drank wine and laughed. After the fact, Zhou Rong did not tell Cai Xiaoguang about her efforts, just like Cai Xiaoguang's love for her over the years, supporting each other and growing together.
But what about Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua?
Neither Fang Yinuo nor Xie Tianhua made themselves better because of this marriage. On the contrary, one is more selfish, and the other is more snug.
A very ironic scene:
Whether it was the deep affection of Fang Yinuo who had been secretly in love with Fang Yinuo for many years when he was a student, or Xie Tianhua's care for Fang Yinuo and Hehe after remarriage, he never made Fang Yinuo nostalgic. However, when Xie Tianhua was selfish again, when Xie Tianhua reported that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu had illegally given birth and cut off Hehe's chances of survival, Fang Yinuo finally saw Xie Tianhua's unwillingness and finally realized Xie Tianhua's efforts for so many years, and finally discovered his love for Xie Tianhua.
Therefore, being a person has a bottom line and principles, and only then will he win the respect of his lover.
Today's topic: Do you think Xie Tianhua is a good husband? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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Author: Suzune Qinxin; you have a story, I have a pen, I have no covetous jun.