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"Dear Child" ushered in the finale last night, which is a very typical and happy finale.
Yinuo and Lao Xie did not divorce, Xiao Lu and Dong Fan did not divorce, Hehe's condition was effectively treated, and the love and hatred between the plot tasks were also written off.
The resentment between Yinuo and Xiao Lu no longer existed, and both of them admitted their previous mistakes and apologized to each other, Yinuo wanted to understand that it was wrong not to let Hehe recognize Xiao Lu in the past, and that he and the child should not be deprived of the communication between him and the child in this way.
Yinuo and Lao Xie also froze the previous suspicions, Yinuo knew that Lao Xie reported it, but also decided to forgive him and recognize his feelings and dependence on him.
Lei Wen also forgave his father for the mistakes he made when he was young, and the enmity between the two people was also put down, and she no longer resisted marriage as in the past, changed her view of marriage, and felt that it was actually good to have a partner.
The end of the story has come to the time when Hehe is in the second grade, Yinuo is at home to help her with homework, she is angry, and she calls Dong Fan and asks if she and Xiao Lu have permed Hehe's hair. From this detail, it can be seen that there is no gap between Yinuo and Dong Fan.
It is a very happy ending, but also let people have a deep feeling, especially the last two episodes, many people are crying to watch it, because it is too touching, whether it is Xiao Lu group to apologize in public, admit past mistakes, or the dialogue between Hehe and Lao Su, it is really tearful.
02
This is really a very good TV series, it is not selling anxiety, it is teaching us to recognize the truth of life, let people grow, people in the play have a certain degree of growth, I think this is the best part of this drama.
I don't think it's really scary for people to make mistakes, the terrible thing is that you don't grow out of those mistakes.
Everyone in the play has made some mistakes to a greater or lesser extent, and the biggest mistake Xiao Lu has made is that he has no sense of responsibility for the family, and after the birth of the child, he avoids his responsibilities as a husband and father, and also cheats.
The second big mistake was to ignore Dong Fan's inner feelings in her marriage with Dong Fan and make some choices that hurt her.
The mistake made by Yinuo is to deprive the child of the contact with his biological father, not to let them meet each other, nor to let them recognize each other, in fact, the main intention is to retaliate against Xiao Lu.
Xie Tianhua made the mistake of reporting Xiao Lu and Yinuo for using a fake marriage certificate to do IVF in order to keep his own children. Lei Wen's father made the mistake of cheating when he was young, and the mistake made by Old Su was to take money too seriously and lose the warmth of human nature.
At the end of the story, they have all grown, all have changed, Xiao Lu has become more mature, more stable, and more aware of how to be honest with his wife, Yinuo has become softer, no longer tit-for-tat as in the past, Lao Xie admitted his mistakes, he is still the same as before, Lao Su's heart has become softer, no longer the person who is sharp.
They have really changed, they have become better and better, it is the change that Hehe has brought to them, which is perhaps the biggest theme of this drama, using a child as an introduction, so that adults can fully recognize themselves, see themselves clearly, and make changes.
03
People must make mistakes in their lives, because each of us comes to this world for the first time, each of us is feeling the stones to cross the river, no one will be born to do everything right, and no one will not make a mistake once.
In fact, making mistakes is not a terrible thing, the terrible thing is that after making so many mistakes and not knowing how to make changes, or as in the past, then these mistakes made will not bring any positive effect.
Speaking of this, I have to mention Xiao Xu in the play, that is, Xiao Lu's brother, who is really a very unreliable, very suspenseful person from the first episode, and frequently makes mistakes.
He is a very typical kind of person who is not high or low, who fights the pain of his mother and brother, and is willing to eat at home and is not willing to go out to work.
He feels that working for others is particularly boring, the money earned is small, and tired, he should be making a lot of money, these small money he can't see, it is precisely because he wants to make a lot of money, so he believes in others again and again, and then is cheated by others.
Cheating once or twice, his mother and brother wiped his ass for him, thinking that he would grow, but in fact, he was still the same him, there was no change at all, until the last time, with others loans, borrowed 100,000 yuan, Xiao Lu used the money for Hehe's treatment to help him repay.
This time he went to find a job as a delivery man, and he didn't know how long he could last, and it felt like he couldn't last long with his urine.
His biggest problem is to realize his mistakes, but he is determined not to change, always fantasizing about making a lot of money and daydreaming, only to be cheated out of money again and again, pitting his family.
04
Life is like this, we will all make mistakes, don't be afraid because you have made mistakes, don't make mistakes again and again, the most important thing is to learn to admit your mistakes, and then make changes.
We learn a truth from a very young age called knowing mistakes can be changed, good is great, in fact, everyone knows, but not everyone can do it.
It doesn't matter if we can't do it for the time being, our lives are still very long, and there is time to change.
When you recognize your mistakes and decide to change, your life has entered a new stage, and you have made progress since then.
If there is no change, then there will never be progress, it will always be the same. So you know, making mistakes is actually not so terrible, afraid that you will not change.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Dear Little Child"