There are two kinds of people, try not to interact, let alone fall in love and get married

Text/Xuan Xiaolei

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Most of the people around us look normal, but there are still some people who, at first glance, know that something is not right.

For example, people with very bad tempers will be angry at every turn.

For example, neurotic people sometimes make words and deeds that feel weird.

There is also a kind of person with bad character, which may take a little time to discover, or will observe the details, can be found.

These people are not easy to get along with, or it can be dangerous to get along with, so try to stay as far away as possible.

Especially when choosing a partner, the grumpy one is not to say, and everyone knows that it should be avoided.

The main thing here is to say that two kinds of people cannot communicate, cannot fall in love and get married.

The first is people with psychological problems.

The third is the person who has a character problem.

People with psychological problems are really tired together and may develop into a danger, because they are easy to go to extremes and thus behave differently from ordinary people.

Serious mental illness, which we can see with the naked eye, can also be avoided, but there are still some potentials, which require us to observe more, or stay away from him after discovery.

Just like the Zhu Zhu in the recent hit drama "Dear Child", it belongs to a girl with some psychological health, which should be the influence of the original family, and the personality is somewhat extreme.

Xiao Lu went to the step of divorce and could not see her daughter, relying on Zhu Zhu's impulsiveness and extremes, originally she had been explained by Xiao Lu to apologize and refuse, and then she was also blocked.

However, she couldn't find Xiao Lu, so she directly found their daughter's first birthday party, in front of so many people, so that Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo couldn't get off the stage.

Although Xiao Lu himself was at fault in this matter, Zhu Zhu was not completely innocent, for example, when Xiao Lu was drunk that day, she could use his mobile phone to find his family and friends to send him back, or she could send him to the hotel and then go home.

Taking him straight back to his room and taking pictures of him together is not normal in itself.

It's like it's used to stimulate her mother, or to have the psychology of doing something against her mother in private.

This kind of mentally unhealthy person, he will do whatever it takes, will be reckless, and it will be more troublesome to spread, and he himself will look very pitiful, so that you do not know how to be good.

Another kind of key, people with character problems, whether it is making friends, talking about business, or talking about love and marriage, are a kind of misfortune.

Keeping these people around is like a time bomb. Conflicts between you can occur at any time, and it is more likely that there are interests involved, or that he wants to use you, squeeze you, or even frame you.

There are problems with character, including strong jealousy, so he has the potential to spoil your good deeds.

It also includes taking advantage, not losing, overbearing, selfish, vicious, cold-blooded and ruthless.

After such a person knows each other, he can also be seen, and the details can be seen in his character, and some clues can be found, such as whether there is compassion, whether there is love, or whether people and things are only in charge of themselves, bad thoughts, and improper mental skills.

If you are in love with them and married, it is difficult to say what will happen when you are together. If life is good, and their life has been smooth sailing, and they can be satisfied, then they can live in peace.

However, such a probability is small, one is that no one's life can be smooth, and the other is that they cannot be easily satisfied, coupled with a bad personality mentality, it is easier to get emotional, or what kind of moth.

It is not easy to get along, it is not safe, and the focus is that it is also a problem to break up with such people with bad character and divorce.

Because if they don't want to share, it won't make you feel better, or he will take advantage of it and not let you lose any benefits. Either he'll have to make you pay because he won't accept that he has a little "lost" point.

Either pestering you endlessly, or creating trouble to make your work life troublesome, or asking for nothing to make you lose, or thinking of some shady moves to make it impossible for you to live a new life.

Unless they want to divide it themselves, or if they mix well, it's a problem if you want to be separated peacefully.

Therefore, whether it is choosing a partner or a friend, choosing a lover or a partner, do not look at other conditions first, first look at the character, this one has passed, and then look at other conditions.

It can even be said that as long as the character is good, other conditions are almost fine. After all, poor conditions can be slowly tried to change, but poor character, it is difficult for you to change him.

Find someone of good character to get along with and fall in love, even if they are separated one day, it is only mentally unwilling or sad, at least the physical life will not be threatened.

If they are all kind or have a pattern, then it is also possible to get together and disperse, which is also worthy of the fact that they once loved each other.