After a woman gets married and has a family, all parents who love their daughters will do everything they can to think of their daughters, rather than dragging their daughters' hind legs.
However, there are also some parents who, with the grace of nurturing their daughters, put forward various requirements for their daughters. Before marriage, the daughter's parents asked for a salary to subsidize the family, and after the daughter's marriage, the parents asked the daughter to subsidize the son.
In order to repay the kindness of their parents, the kind and filial daughter will most likely obey and compromise. Otherwise, when the parents cry, the daughter herself will not be happy in the in-laws' house. However, a daughter who is easy to compromise with her parents will not have a good life in the in-laws' house.
No in-laws will allow their daughter-in-law to marry and have their own small family, and they must also selflessly subsidize their mother's family as before marriage? If so, then he would not marry back a daughter-in-law, but an ancestor who could help her provide for her mother's family.
01, parents prefer sons to daughters, daughters have been wronged
Aunt Mo, who has been strong all her life, regretted it after she fell ill and was hospitalized, but her son, daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law did not have anyone to visit and take care of her. If he had not preferred sons to daughters, favored his son, and taken his daughter's bride price to buy a marriage house for his son, perhaps now his daughter could still take the knees and run before and after serving her.
But now it's all too late, after her daughter divorced and left the in-laws' house with her children, and broke off relations with her mother's family, Aunt Mo knew that she was about to lose this daughter who had been filial piety.
Aunt Mo was very unwilling in her heart, how could her daughter, who had worked so hard to raise for more than twenty years, break off relations with herself because of the 200,000 bride price? Before the daughter got married, she was so obedient and filial, responsive to her parents, and never said half a "no" word.
Aunt Mo has a son and a daughter, the daughter is the eldest, and the son is The Son. Because she was deeply influenced by her parents' preference for sons and daughters since childhood, Aunt Mo, after getting married, did not want to see her daughter at the request of her in-laws.
It was not until she later gave birth to a son, and Aunt Mo had a position and voice in her in-laws' family, that she stood up. Therefore, when her daughter graduated and could earn money, Aunt Mo subtly instilled brainwashing into her daughter and told her to help her brother.
The well-behaved and sensible daughter, indeed, as her parents said, most of the hard-earned money is handed over to her parents, leaving only a small part for living expenses. In order to let her daughter help the family for a few more years, Aunt Mo also broke up a relationship with her daughter.
02. Parents intercept their daughter's 200,000 bride price without permission
Until her daughter was almost 30 years old, and no one cared, Aunt Mo was in a hurry. But even if she is in a hurry, she does not intend to let her daughter marry casually. Therefore, when the daughter brought home her son-in-law, Aunt Mo became angry and gambled to ask for a dowry of 200,000 yuan.
Aunt Mo thought that the other party would retreat, after all, the 200,000 bride price was not a small amount. But who knows, the other party actually borrowed 200,000 dowries for the sake of his daughter. Looking at the 200,000 stuffed over, Aunt Mo had to compromise.
Just considering that the son, who is two years younger than the daughter, has also reached the marriageable age, but because there is no marriage room, no girl has been willing to marry. For the sake of her son, and considering her daughter's bride price, that is, the filial piety fee for herself, Aunt Mo calmly withheld 200,000 yuan and did not give her daughter a penny of dowry.
After marriage, the daughter also went back to her mother's house many times to make trouble, saying that the in-laws saw that she did not have any dowry, and became angry and ashamed, threatening Aunt Mo to sell her daughter. The daughter also cried and cried, hoping that her parents could give back half of the bride price, so that she could at least have an explanation to her in-laws and gain a foothold in her in-laws' family.
But the 200,000 dowry has long been taken by them to buy a wedding house for their son, where is the remaining money to get it? Aunt Mo ruthlessly refused her daughter's request, after which the daughter slowly stopped returning to her mother's house.
At first, the daughter did not return to her mother's house, at least she would call to greet her. But since the son is going to get married, the daughter-in-law wants a 100,000 dowry, and Aunt Mo spoke to her daughter again, the daughter simply did not even call the phone, and people could not see it.
03, the daughter broke off relations, and the parents had no one to support
The daughter-in-law was in a hurry, and Aunt Mo had no choice but to go to her daughter many times to ask for money. But the daughter said every time that she had no money, and after making a few troubles, the son-in-law was also annoyed and quarreled with her daughter.
Aunt Mo was so anxious that she hadn't even solved her son's marriage, so where did she have the energy to worry about her daughter's marriage? In this way, after the son was successfully married, the daughter also came with the news of divorce.
What makes Aunt Mo feel even more outrageous is that after her daughter divorced, she ran away from home with a child who had just turned one year old, and did not return to her mother's house at all. In order to avoid her parents, the daughter even changed her phone number and moved, and Aunt Mo could no longer find her daughter.
Aunt Mo, who originally planned to live with her son and daughter-in-law, was driven out of the house by her daughter-in-law in the third month after her son's marriage, saying that no daughter-in-law was willing to live with her in-laws and let her in-laws return to her hometown for the elderly.
Aunt Mo, who was angry and demoralized, fell ill and was hospitalized at once. Although her wife dismissed her many times, Aunt Mo still couldn't get through that in her heart. What makes Aunt Mo even more chilling is that all the savings of the old couple are all set up on the son's small family, but now Aunt Mo is sick and hospitalized for 10,000 yuan of hospitalization fees, but the son is unwilling to come out, saying that the daughter-in-law has an opinion, and the money will be divorced.
Aunt Mo washed her face with tears every day, and her wife sighed all day, and finally borrowed money from relatives to pay the hospitalization fee and was successfully discharged back to her hometown. Thinking that she had turned a big circle and eventually had to return to her hometown for the elderly, Aunt Mo was very unhappy in her heart.
At first, she bragged to others that she would follow her son and daughter-in-law to retire, and others envied them, but now it has become evidence of punching her face. In the dead of night, Aunt Mo also called her daughter's previous mobile phone number many times, but it was still "the phone you dialed is an empty number."
It was only at this time that Aunt Mo had to admit that taking her daughter's 200,000 dowry to buy a house for her son, pitting her daughter and hurting herself. The son married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, and the daughter also broke off relations with her parents. She didn't know who else to take care of her and her wife when she and her wife couldn't move?
Today's Topic:
Do you think Aunt Mo's daughter broke off her cruelty to her parents because of the 200,000 bride price?
!["It's pitiful that my sister-in-law has no money to buy a house, but it has nothing to do with me", mother-in-law: Then you should go back to your mother's house as soon as possible[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)