"Dear Child" Xiao Lu's first failed marriage has given a wake-up call to women who want to be happy

Wen\Muye, Jiang Zuo Mei niang

Recently has been chasing "Dear Child", before Fang Yinuo became pregnant, Xiao Lu's performance was not bad, he could pick up the beam financially, and mentally gave Fang Yinuo enough love.

He is also giving Fang Yinuo a massage, and is cutting fruit, Fang Yinuo wants to eat chili noodles, he also coaxes her for the child, and said that when she is finished, he will buy chili noodles for her every day, a very spoiled wife look, when I see here, I have a good feeling for Xiao Lu, and I vaguely feel that he will be a good man who can carry it clearly.

Thinking that when I was just married, even before I became pregnant, I bought my own vegetables and cooked, rode my own electric car to work, and suffered a double loss in material and spiritual conditions, I really envied Fang Yinuo's marriage, there was a man who loved him so much, their marriage would be happy and happy, but the more I looked at it, the more I found the cruelty of the truth.

It is such a man who claims to love his wife and coaxes his wife to turn around, and when his wife's amniotic fluid is broken and he is about to give birth, he can leave the hospital on the grounds of overtime. Well, you are busy at work, you really can't get out, but even if you are busy with business, then after you are busy with work, shouldn't you go back to accompany the birth? But no, they actually went home to watch the ball game.

Here is Fang Yinuo wandering in the ghost door closed with all his might, there is Xiao Lu watching a ball game at home, drinking beer, drinking drunkenly and sleeping, perfectly missing the production process of his wife, this Xiao Lu, really makes people scold him 100 scumbags are not excessive.

And Xiao Lu woke up and went straight to the hospital, just to honor his mother's orders, the first time to get his wife's placenta, to repair his brother's body, not to see Fang Yinuo, at that moment, really for Fang Yinuo felt that this marriage was cold.

01. Big bug on Xiao Lu's body

It is undeniable that Xiao Lu is excellent, will come to things, you see that Xie Tianhua and Xiao Lu both like Fang Yinuo, Xie Tianhua and the other party is really good, but Fang Yinuo still chooses Xiao Lu, you can know that this family is very bad, the mouth is very slippery man has a lot of heterosexual relations, and later Xiao Lu was able to attract Bai Fumei Zhu Zhu when he was not divorced from Fang Yinuo, and he can find a flower Dong Fan after the divorce, he is really charming.

But such a man, you really don't see his essence, he hides a big bug, which is the root of his final divorce.

For example, when the mother-in-law decided to eat Fang Yinuo's placenta, at first he refused very simply: I would not let my child's placenta be beaten to death, let you stew.

Here, Xiao Lu's refusal is right, because everyone who has the right three views knows that eating the human placenta is against the code of ethics, and even the state clearly stipulates that it is a prohibited behavior. Moreover, what parent can accept that their child's placenta has been stewed and eaten? Xiao Lu's attitude was very firm, and he also gave Fang Yinuo a reassuring pill.

But then, Xiao Lu did not firmly believe in his position, although he said no, but under the soft and hard bubble of his mother, he actually shook his position, not only personally ran to send a placenta to his mother, but also helped conceal Fang Yinuo.

For this behavior, my old Yang said, this is also no way, Xiao Lu is not also difficult to do? On the one hand, he didn't want to make his mother sad, and on the other hand, he didn't want Fang Yinuo to be angry, so he lied and agreed, and at the same time stole it behind his back, which was also to offend both sides!

Yes, men always speak for men, but the truth is that this thing can obviously do the best of both worlds, but it is not Xiao Lu's kind.

02. Sheng Changbai's firm position in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Think of Sheng Changbai in the original "Know it or not".

He picks out clothes, never lifts his eyelids, only the ones that are smeared with black. Pick a beard, one does not want talent, the other does not look good, as long as some honest and willing to do, the mother Wang Ruofu feels that his son is not normal, very depressed, she also vaguely went to explain to him what is called "through the room", as a result, he blocked his mother's mouth with a word.

He said he thought talented girls would be too noisy. Not only that, he also let his mother's housekeeper Liu Kun's family say this to those girls who had the opportunity to do intercourse:

"The family style of the Sheng family, through the room can not lift the aunt, the future good or bad all depend on the future less grandmother to decide."

In a word, the lethality is extremely strong! At the beginning, the old lady of the Sheng family and Wang Ruofu were both sent down the man's house as soon as they married into the door, he was holding the Family Style of the Sheng Family, on the one hand, he told his mother that he did not want to have a room at all, on the other hand, he was establishing the authority of his wife, killing two birds with one stone.

In the play, Changbai's wife Hai Shizheng has a second child, Wang Ruofu wants to give him a room, and as a result, Changbai coldly said to his mother: "Daddy makes money and supports the family hard, you have a good, first hold Daddy." "The king was so angry that He was going to vomit blood.

Watch the original work, watch the plot on TV, every time I see Changbai so clear, I will burst into tears, if this is a man in reality, how good should it be, my old Yang if he has half of him.

Sheng Changbai this person you say he is stupid, he is the real essence, you say he is Geng, he is Geng to the point, such a person will make the family have a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? It is absolutely impossible, because his stance is firm, reasonable and wise, and it is impeccable, and if anyone marries him, it is really less Gao Xiang in the previous life.

03. My father's wisdom in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

After talking about the film and television drama, let's talk about the examples in reality.

This has to talk about my own family affairs, my grandmother has a hot temper, and sometimes not very reasonable, when I and my aunt, no less bullying my great aunt, but she did not expect that in the end, my parents are the terminators of the mother-in-law contradiction.

Once when my grandmother was living in my house, she had a few words with my mother, when the matter happened, I was present, to be honest, I think it was a small misunderstanding, and then my mother also explained, but my grandmother's temper came up, that is, no one can stop it, she was hoarse and argued with my mother, so that the neighbors did not know what happened, persuasion was not good, and finally she insisted on calling my father back, but also forced my father to make a decision.

What was the decision? It's very simple, it's a multiple-choice question: if you want her, you don't have my mother (divorce), if you want my mother, you don't have her.

It is said that my father did not know what was happening when he received the call, listening to my grandmother's one-sided words, it seems that I blame my mother, but what kind of temper his own mother has, he also has a number in his heart, so he is making a mistake, and he does not know what to do.

Fortunately, on the way, I met the neighbor who was persuaded at my house, and I knew the beginning and end of the matter, and as soon as he arrived home, my grandmother cried and rushed to the ground, not to forgive, to let my father make a decision, it was really forced to Liangshan!

In a hurry, my father immediately took a knife from the kitchen and handed it to my grandmother, and then he "pounced" and knelt on the ground and said, "Mom, she is right, I can't leave her, I blame you for not serving you at home." If you want to kill, you will be killed, and I will recognize my son. ”

The scene was so shocking, the onlookers were shocked, and I sincerely admired my father's wisdom.

My grandmother was afraid that I did not expect my father to play this play, at this time, everyone you persuaded my grandmother sentence by sentence, she finally dissipated her anger, and never mentioned this fateful choice question again, since then, a family storm has finally turned into a jade under my father's superb acting skills.

04. Mei Niang said

Is it also difficult to say that Xiao Lu is difficult to do? It's really not that hard at all.

A man, if he does not have a position, means that he has no clear right and wrong at all, as long as one party goes on the line and puts pressure on him, he will not be able to care about what is right or wrong.

Even if his mother is wrong, he does not dare to insist that you are right, because a man without a position is simply a confused person, and if you are not tough, he will let you continue to be wronged to the end.

Moreover, the more likely it is for a man to shake his position, the more his mother-in-law will like to meddle in the life of your little two.

As Wu Zhihong said in "Chinese Love and Love": "The other part of the mother-in-law relationship involves power, which is a war, in the son's family, who is the hostess." ”

You say, if the mother-in-law succeeds once and lets her son shake up, will she relent? Of course, she wouldn't, because once the war started for the first time, she would naturally taste the fruits of victory for the first time, and she would naturally gain inches and win new victories!

Therefore, we women, looking for men, must find the kind of man who has a position like Sheng Changbai.

Because men with a stand are all men who can shoulder things and be responsible for you, he will resist the wind and rain and snow of life side by side with you, rather than cowering and hiding behind his mother-in-law, leaving you alone to face a chicken feather in life.

He is a man who has a correct view of right and wrong, and can intelligently deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he will not let you be wronged for no reason, he really has to be wronged, then he should be the first to suffer for you, marry such a man, you will really wake up laughing in your dreams.

And as long as he stands firm, the mother-in-law will believe that you can live a good life, will take the initiative to quit your life, and let you truly become the hostess of the family.

Of course, if you are not so lucky, then you have to be "heroic and good at fighting" like my mother, don't think that my father's "position" is natural and spontaneous, that is the result of my mother's battle after every battle of wits and courage with my grandmother.

Every time my mother and my grandmother fought, my mother was justified and well-founded, plus there was love and righteousness, and finally every time my father wanted to theorize with her, the heart was gone, because the reason was all on my mother's side, and the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family also spoke to my mother, you say, does my father dare to move my mother's finger?

Well, let's talk about more wonderful stories about my mother later, and I'll talk about it today.

In short, "Dear Child": Xiao Lu's first failed marriage, a wake-up call for men who don't want to divorce, don't be so confused, really.

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