When people reach middle age and insist on doing these 8 things well, you will definitely have good luck

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Time is fleeting, so don't let me stay.

When men reach middle age, they feel that they have lived a "Journey to the West".

Goku's pressure, the belly of the Eight Precepts, the baldness of Lao Sha, the nagging of Tang Monk, the ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties can not be less.

When it comes to middle age, everyone thinks of all kinds of crises and is full of sorrow. In fact, the really powerful people have never become famous at a young age, but more importantly, they have become late.

In fact, when a person is young, he may not be able to touch the method of success because of insufficient life experience. People in middle age, due to the accumulation of experience in the early stage, the mind is more mature, the pattern has also improved, and the second half of life is the time to really exert strength, as long as we manage ourselves well, we will eventually see the clouds.

[1] Run your marriage well

There is a saying in "Marriage Psychology": "Marriage needs to be managed, strong or gentle, the important thing is that two people in the marriage need to grow together and complement each other's advantages, so that a good marriage can be achieved." ”

When people reach middle age, they must be patient in running their own married life, and the so-called family happiness is definitely premised on a harmonious husband and wife relationship.

The biggest bankruptcy of people in middle age is the misfortune of marriage!

Home is a haven for everyone and a place to heal trauma. Working hard outside, having a happy home, as a backing, you will be confident and brave to move forward.

[2] Abandon ineffective social networking

No matter how big your social circle is, there are especially few true friends, and maybe not one.

When you are in trouble, you will understand that it is useless to ask anyone, and in the end you have to rely on yourself. If you're in the mix, then you don't ask for help, but someone comes to help.

The essence of interpersonal communication is mutual benefit, some social circles do not need to be forced to enter, you will find that it is useless to enter.

When people reach middle age, they must be able to withstand loneliness, reduce ineffective social interaction, and low-quality socialization is not as comfortable as high-quality solitude.

[3] No longer indulge in overnight wealth

Only the poor have the idea of getting rich overnight. So those who sell lottery tickets, lying in the chess and card room, can make money.

Although the lottery ticket is only 2 yuan a bet, but the probability of winning the lottery is almost 0, I have seen a news before, some people open lottery betting stations, recruit their own people, solicit customers to buy in the store, the system does not issue tickets, but they claim the prize privately. Because the money came easily, he opened several branches in the area. He just seized the hole in the lottery winning rate of the extremely low lottery and made hundreds of millions of dollars fiercely.

So as a middle-aged person, you must not have the idea of getting rich overnight, although the single-bet lottery is cheap, in fact, people who buy addiction, many people are ruined. Make money steadily, people of this age, really don't toss it.

[4] Calm down and no longer be angry

Restrain your emotions and stop being angry!

There is a line in Desperate Housewives:

"The more bad luck, the more you have to calm down and silently cheer up, quietly survive"

A pot of fragrant porridge, only slowly boiled, in order to boil out the most intense taste.

When people reach middle age, they have passed the age of impulse, and they must be calm when things happen, and they must not be slaves to emotions. A person can't even control his emotions, so how can he control his life?

[5] Stop dwelling on small things with rotten people

Susan, a psychology professor at Yale University, carries a pamphlet with her wherever she goes.

Every time she met someone who was deliberately looking for trouble, she immediately opened the pamphlet to take a look, and then left calmly.

Friends thought that the book was on it, remembering the secret of emotional stability, and when they opened it, they found that it was just an urgent matter of the day.

In one of her speeches, she said:

"When you realize that you still have so much to do, you don't have time to argue and tangle with bored people."

There is a saying that goes like this:

"No matter how perfect you are, there will always be people in your circle who don't like you."

Remember, don't get tangled up and arguing with rotten people, and put your time and energy into your own more important things.

[6] Carefully create your external image

When men reach middle age, they must stay away from greasy, sloppy looks.

Streamline skin care every day, insist on doing a good job of sun protection, and appropriately "reduce stress" on the skin. Dress up to strive for maturity and stability, not frivolous. Try to wash your hair once a day, stay away from greasy and dandruff, try not to grow a beard, and remember to shave your beard before going out every day.

This society is actually very realistic, and you give people the feeling that they cower, do not trim the edges, are dirty, and are easy to be looked down upon. No one wants to see you, and talk about development.

[7] Develop the habit of insisting on reading

Zeng Guofan once said this:

"Human temperament, because of nature, is difficult to change, but reading can change temperament."

Reading a book does not bring about obvious changes, but when 100, 200, or even more readings accumulate, it produces a qualitative change.

Learning to read books can also improve a person's pattern.

The so-called pattern is actually the breadth of your vision, the depth of your thinking, the height of pursuing your goals, and the calmness and generosity reflected in you.

People with a big picture are more likely to succeed in their careers.

[8] Make your own exercise plan and stick to it

Middle-aged people at this age, physical fitness is going downhill, if you do not insist on exercise, it is easy to be eroded by diseases.

It's best to make an exercise plan that works for you and stick to it. Middle-aged people enhance exercise, with several benefits:

(1) Prevent chronic diseases and slow down functional degradation

(2) Delay aging and promote longevity

(3) Strengthen the muscular system and bone system

If you don't have strong self-discipline, it is recommended to join the local sports circle, and everyone encourages each other, and it is easier for you to stick to it. And people who insist on exercising are strict self-disciplined people, and you can also open up your own circle of contacts through exercise.

Remember, the body is the capital of the revolution, the body is not good, and whatever you say is nonsense.

epilogue

When Buffett was young, he was only an unknown investor, and his fame was only slowly becoming famous until he was nearly sixty years old.

A person's real growth needs to be precipitated, and it is even more necessary to accumulate thick and thin. When we are young, we fail to do a decent thing, not because we are not strong enough, but because our own accumulation is not enough.

Man is like a tree in the desert, only by rooting deeply into the ground can he follow up and pull out long branches.

If you have also stepped into the ranks of middle-aged people, please face yourself, adjust your mentality, and calmly greet each day. Our life is not necessarily rich and expensive, but as long as we have goals, good character, good health, family harmony, coupled with our careful management, our life will be better!

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Author: Pine between seams

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