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In "Know It or Not", the audience likes Sheng Changbai.
Especially on the first day of the new marriage, the mother-in-law Wang Da niang wanted to play with the majesty of the mother-in-law, give the daughter-in-law a dismount, and warn the daughter-in-law to manage the family well, have a good baby, and also be responsible for the future of the husband.
Everyone knows that this is not right, and the future of the husband is what his daughter-in-law can decide?
As the head of the family, Sheng Hong just smiled awkwardly and did not comment.
Because he didn't want to get into trouble, he liked to get by with the mud in everything. He knew that once he spoke, he would inevitably quarrel with Lady Wang. He wanted to calm things down.
But if he doesn't squeak, it means that he acquiesced to the mother-in-law bullying his daughter-in-law.
Sheng Changbai said without mercy: I can't share the pain of the bride's fertility, and she is not responsible for my future.
What if my mother is wrong? If you are wrong, you must point it out in time.
As for whether this will embarrass the mother, since she has made a mistake, isn't it right to be embarrassed?
With such a son, will Lady Wang still play her mother-in-law's majesty and brush her sense of existence in front of her daughter-in-law in the future? After all, being intimidated by his son on the spot did not have much face, and the mother-in-law who wanted the prestige not only did not earn, but also lost face, and even lost his son!
Sheng Changbai's daughter-in-law must have been particularly touched by her husband's words in her heart. After all, in that era, the daughter-in-law had to obey the mother-in-law absolutely.
If it were placed in the present, Sheng Changbai's daughter-in-law would simply run over to him and give him a kiss.
With such a husband at home, how can there be a mother-in-law problem!
Many times the daughter-in-law does not want right or wrong, but an attitude of the husband.
With such a man building a fair and just bridge between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the family is definitely full of happiness and harmony!
02
Some people are unhappy in marriage, always blame others, never consider whether they have problems, and even blame their daughters-in-law for not doing well.
But is that really the case?
Minglan's cousin Shulan married a phoenix man, and Shulan's family was rich in dowry, so that the originally poor in-laws also had shops and fields, and they did not need their mother-in-law to wash clothes for others to live.
However, the phoenix man felt that a woman marrying a chicken with a chicken and marrying a dog with a dog, and Shulan would listen to his shouts when she married him.
In an instant, he felt that he was a rich man, and his waist was also straight, calling friends and friends every day, spending days and drinking.
If he knows how to love his daughter-in-law, he is self-righteous, not only does he not love his daughter-in-law, but he also bullies Shulan with his mother.
Although at that time, the new daughter-in-law had to listen to the instructions of her mother-in-law, but everything had a degree, not too outrageous, too much.
The Phoenix Man and his mother lived in the wealth brought by Shulan, forgot their original appearance, and were overwhelmed with their shape, so they gave instructions to Shulan and exhaled and drank.
Even Shulan almost couldn't survive.
In this family, husband and wife are not harmonious, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony.
And all this is because the Phoenix Man has no opinion, blindly obeys his mother's instructions, coupled with his own scum, and finally forced Shulan's mother's family to take back the shop and the good land, and the scumbag and leave.
You must know that in that feudal society, people's thinking is to marry chickens and marry dogs with dogs, and there are almost no women who leave.
Because the divorced woman will bring a very bad influence to the mother's family, so that the brothers and sisters of the mother's family can not find a good object, if there is a sister, the sister in the in-law's family is to be discriminated against.
As a last resort, no woman is willing to choose and leave.
However, the Sheng family understands that if they do not reconcile, Shulan may be bullied to death by the in-laws.
In their marriage, if the Phoenix Man can handle the problem between his mother and daughter-in-law as justly, fairly and justly as Sheng Changbai did, I think Shulan will definitely not be separated, and their family should be very happy and harmonious.
In the end, the phoenix man will not be so embarrassed, not only lost his daughter-in-law, but also lost Shulan's rich dowry, which he valued most, and lived backwards in the future.
The days are chosen by themselves, and whether they live well or not depends on everyone's choice!
03
In a family, a man is a bridge between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
This man communicates well, not only family harmony, but also does not have to be splinted.
This was true not only in ancient times, but also today.
My aunt's cousin divorced a year ago, because my cousin couldn't get by, and she had to divorce her daughter, who was just half a year old.
The cousin said that she also endured the widowed marriage, but after returning home, the cousin who did nothing took up the uncle's shelf and asked the cousin to take the child to wash and cook. Cooking late will also be a blame.
In fact, my cousin used to love my cousin very much. But the aunt told her cousin all day that taking the children to do housework is a woman's duty, and where are the men who go around the pot every day?
The aunt blows the wind in her cousin's ear every day, and after a long time, my cousin also thinks it makes sense, and she will lie down when she comes home from work.
Not only that, but my aunt often told my cousin that my cousin had lost my family and bought something, which made my cousin very angry, and he felt that his cousin would not live a life, and he made money very hard.
But he did not expect that his cousin also had a job and made more money than him.
Sometimes men do not know where the confidence comes from, always think that they are very good, women have to take the baby to do housework, but also for him to honor the elderly.
Many times it is a straw that crushes the camel.
Once my aunt was sick, every day my cousin had to rush home after work to take care of the children, and she had to cook for her aunt and send her to the hospital.
However, the aunt is not only not grateful, but also dislikes her cousin in various ways, either the rice is not delicious, or the nutrition is unreasonable. Anyway, the cousin is not satisfied.
The cousin came home and yelled at his cousin, and even slapped his cousin with his hands.
The cousin decided to divorce on the spot.
Men who can't figure it out deserve to suffer and live unhappily!
A mother-in-law who brushes the sense of existence everywhere, unconsciously pits her favorite son!
04
Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem for a family.
But this problem is not difficult to solve, and the focus is on the man sandwiched in the middle.
Doesn't Sheng Changbai honor his mother? Surely filial piety. But the mother has done something wrong, and it must be pointed out euphemistically, that in the future, she will not overly interfere in the affairs of the daughter-in-law with the title of mother-in-law, and the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will be greatly reduced.
However, blind connivance will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tense, and the family will be smoky and miasma, and there will be no peace.
Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not only the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also a man sandwiched in the middle!
The quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plays a vital role in this man! You tell me?