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Hua Owen once said: "A woman's life is a history of love." ”
Women are naturally sensual, have many emotions, and yearn for love.
But love is a double-edged sword for a woman after all, it can make a woman, it can also destroy a woman.
When meeting a man who truly loves herself, a woman can get happiness for the rest of her life, but if she meets a man who does not love herself, the second half of a woman's life will be miserable.
Therefore, having the ability to judge whether a man loves himself or not is a very important thing for a woman.
Men, unlike women, want to see his true heart not to listen to what he says, but to see what he does.
A man's love is not hidden in words, but in attitudes toward money.
Men who don't love you will leave traces on the "money".
Miserliness in money
I like a quote on the Internet: "Poor and perfunctory are two different things." ”
I had seen a rural wedding, with no splendid auditoriums and no sacred and solemn atmosphere, but the groom used a red carpet from the entrance of the village to the doorstep, and the carpet was lined with colorful balloons.
This is the romance of a peasant boy to his newlywed wife, who has limited financial conditions, but can express unlimited love with limited money, and he gives the bride all he has.
Men genuinely love you and will be willing to give you everything, whether it's money or attitude.
If a man always searches and searches you on the grounds that the economic conditions are not good, or even a dime, there is no doubt that he does not love you at all.
From the perspective of human nature, men love nothing more than power, money and women in their lives.
If he is willing to give money to a woman, it proves that in his mind, the status of a woman is beyond money, and vice versa.
There's a saying that goes it well: "Men who are willing to spend money for you may not really love you, but men who are unwilling to spend money for you must not love you." ”
Calculations on property
Confucius said, "A gentleman loves wealth and has a way to get it." ”
People with a strong sense of morality who want to have wealth will obtain it through their own hands.
People with a weak sense of morality often do whatever it takes to lose money, and even do things that lose the bottom line.
The TV series "Double Sided Tape" tells the story of a phoenix man and his mother "squeezing dry" his wife's whole family.
The characters in this TV series are all derived from reality, and the ending of the archetypal characters is far more tragic than the heroine of the TV series.
There are many similar TV series, such as "Mother-in-law is Coming", which shows you the same story of the phoenix man and the city's only daughter.
TV dramas are derived from life and are higher than life, and the plots that everyone sees have really happened in life.
In this world, there are people who spend thousands of dollars for women, and there are also people who calculate women for "thousands of dollars".
The former does not say that he loves a woman to the bone, at least it shows that in his heart, this woman is very valuable, while the latter is left with only calculation.
In real life, there are many similar things that happen, such as men trying their best to calculate the woman's property and dowry when talking about marriage.
In "Knowing or Not", Sheng Shao once said to Lin Xiaoniang: "Only the most unsuccessful men will worry about a woman's dowry." ”
Sheng Shao is not a bright and honest gentleman, on the contrary, he is somewhat hypocritical, poor he understands the truth, but many men do not understand.
It follows that if a man does not love you, he will not treat you with actions within the scope of morality.
Precautions in money
I once knew a man who was extremely wary of his wife, and his house and car before marriage did not have his wife's name added, but he still went to do the premarital property notarization.
After getting married, he did not give his salary card to his wife, but only 5,000 living expenses per month.
He pays for the child's tuition and interest classes, and his wife's living expenses are only used for family expenses.
Although the money is enough, his behavior is really chilling.
He earns 30,000 yuan a month, but he is only willing to give his wife 5,000, and important expenses do not go through her hands.
He guarded his wife like a thief, so much so that when the children were in second grade, they eventually ended up parting ways.
This situation is not uncommon in real life, and many men have been wary of their wives from before marriage to after marriage.
He was not afraid of losing his wife, only of taking money from him.
When a man guards against a woman in terms of money, he is taking her as an outsider in his heart.
Even if they get married and have children, she is by no means a lover to him, but just a woman who lives together.
Because there is no love in the heart, so everywhere to guard, such a day tastes the same as chewing wax, let people die.
Attitudes that vary by "money"
Sima Qian wrote in the "History of Su Qin's Biography": "Su Qin laughed at his sister-in-law: He Qian and Hou Gongye? ”
Su Qin returned home for the first time, and his parents spoke coldly to him, and even his sister-in-law did not cook for him.
So he chose to leave, and many years later he returned to his hometown, his parents' attitude changed greatly, and his sister-in-law knelt at the door of his home to receive him.
This is the story of the famous former and the latter in history.
Sadly, the difference in his family's attitude toward him before and after was so large, not because of the awakening of family affection, but because of the change of his identity.
Shakespeare once said, "Gold, yellow, glowing, precious gold!" With a little bit, you can turn black into white, ugly into beautiful, wrong into right, lowly into noble, old man into teenager, coward into warrior..."
He told us the truth that money can make ghosts grind, and also let us see the human nature driven by money.
This kind of human nature is not only manifested in family affection, but also in love and friendship.
A man approaching you, flattering you, or even unwilling to leave you because of your money is not love, but for money.
If one day your family falls, he will be the first person to leave you.
When you don't have money, he doesn't bother to pay attention to you, and when you have money, he boos and greets you, and he wants to hold you in the palm of his hand, all of which is just for profit.
epilogue:
For men, money is a measure of love.
In front of you, his attitude toward money is the degree of love for you.
A man who doesn't love you will definitely leave clues on money, and this cannot be disguised.
Use money to judge a man's sincerity, to test a man's love, and you will get the most accurate answer.
I am Shadow, an original author who focuses on the field of emotion.