The love that surrounds you and me has never disappeared
Throughout every marriage, blandness and stumbling are the norm, and almost no marriage is a husband and wife who do not contradict each other from beginning to end. There are even some couples who have been noisy for decades.
After experiencing many ups and downs and tribulations, the two people who originally did not know each other can join hands to enter the palace of marriage, which should be a very fortunate thing, and it is also because of the great fate as a support that they can marry each other.
However, the state of married life and the stage of love are obviously not comparable, and after marriage, couples must not only deal with each other's feelings, but also deal with various problems from life.
As the saying goes, a marriage without economic support is like a mess, which cannot be denied, and many couples will have many contradictions because of economic problems, and even once reached the point of being out of control.
01 Phoenix male husband's salary after marriage is all handed over to his parents
At least before marriage, Koko's treatment of love was full of infinite yearning.
Ke Ke and her boyfriend met through a friend party, when the two added contact information to each other, talked a lot after they went home, because the first impression they gave each other was quite good, plus the matchmaking of friends, later, the two gradually developed into lovers.
Because Ke Ke did not have any plans to get married at that time, she wanted to spend a sweet and happy love time at that time, but when Ke Ke told her parents that she had a boyfriend, her parents were also very much looking forward to her future son-in-law, and finally, after both parents knew about it, Ke Ke and her boyfriend's marriage had to be put on the agenda.
However, after the parents met the boyfriend, including the boyfriend's family, on the way home, the parents said to Koko: I feel that your boyfriend seems to listen to his parents too much, and you should pay attention to this.
However, at that time, Ke Ke did not take his parents' kind reminder to heart, but only echoed a few words on his mouth, after all, at that time, Ke Ke's relationship with her boyfriend was in a period of hot love, and in his eyes, the other party's body was almost full of glowing points.
In this way, under the witness of both parents, Koko and her boyfriend eventually married.
After marriage, Ke Ke often thought: he was so afraid of marriage before he got married, but after waiting until the parents of both sides met, he saw the happy and harmonious appearance of the family, and suddenly a warm feeling arose in his heart, as if it was the appearance of his ideal home.
At that time, Koko was still immersed in the memory, and a decision made by her husband made Koko not know what to say for a while.
Before marriage, in terms of economy, Koko and her husband were almost personally in charge of personal income, and Koko thought that after marriage, the two would at least be integrated in the economic aspect, no matter who controlled the economic power, the result would be the same.
However, unexpectedly, after marriage, her husband did not give his income to Koko, but when koko asked, his husband said that his income was given to his parents.
02 Parents helped to save, the wife did not hold back: go with your family
My husband said to Ke Ke: Ke Ke, we are still too young to know how to control consumption, I now save my income, and then give it to our parents, let them help us save, and when there is a need in the future, I will ask them again.
Ke Ke looked at her husband fixedly, and after a long time she asked: Before you were with me, did you also give them your income for safekeeping?
My husband replied in the affirmative: Of course, from childhood to adulthood, my parents raised me with hard work, they were very difficult, after I graduated from college, they told me to let me give my income to them for safekeeping, and then take it out when I got married, when I married you, my parents also fulfilled their commitments, took out all their savings over the years, and prepared a marriage room for us.
Looking at her husband's obsessive look, Ke Ke sighed helplessly: You are really a phoenix man, and you don't forget your family when you have income.
But Koko still tried to save her husband: Then have you ever considered that since we are both married, then we are a family, do you take into account my feelings when you say this?
And then the husband said, "I think you'll understand me."
At this point, the conversation between the husband and wife came to an end, and Koko finally understood the true meaning of the phrase "your boyfriend seems to listen too much to his parents" said by his parents.
During this period, the husband also tried to get Koko to give his income to his parents for safekeeping, which was naturally rejected by Koko, who said: Since you and your parents are so close, then you should live with them.
Every time he heard Koko's words, her husband was silent for a long time.
The feelings between husband and wife are also greatly frustrated because of this matter, and their intimacy is not as good as before.
Conclusion: For Koko's husband, when he chose to give his income to his parents from the moment he started, he was already wrong, although from childhood to adulthood, his parents were raising him, but there are many ways to return, but the way he chooses to return is based on Koko's "reluctance", and even has a certain possibility of affecting the stability of the small family.
After marriage, husband and wife should always keep in mind that they and their partners are the two key factors in forming a small family, and there is not much connection with their respective original families, if they have been affected by the original family in terms of economy, then it is obviously unfavorable for the future life of the small family.
Although the husband and wife will live together for decades, there will be many contradictions and misunderstandings during the period, but some contradictions are completely avoidable, especially at the income and economic level, no matter who is in charge, it should be based on the mutual willingness of both husband and wife, so that it is conducive to the long-term development of the husband and wife's feelings.