What will happen to an only child in the future? Beware of phoenix men "eating the family", there is a kind of person who is more greedy

Families with girls, especially one-daughter families, in the first 20 years, parents may be the most carefree and comfortable, but in the stage of daughters talking about marriage, they may be the most anxious.

The parents of the only daughter basically have a complex, hoping that the daughter can stay around, it is best not to go anywhere, just marry in the local area.

It is also understandable that girls are inherently weak, and parents who go out into the world are always uneasy, stay around to take care of, and both sides have a sense of security.

On the other hand, because there is no son, all the property can only be left to the daughter, but girls are naturally more emotional than boys, and they are prone to emotional impulses.

Therefore, the parents' mentality is very complicated, hoping that she will find an honest and reliable husband, but she has been wary of the son-in-law, afraid that he has a different intention to rob the daughter's property, resulting in the daughter's loss in the marriage.

Therefore, in the marriage concept of the only child, the phoenix man is the first object to avoid, but things seem to be so wonderful, the preferred target of the phoenix man is the only child with a better family, and the reason is also very obvious.

Phoenix man loves to "eat the family"?

Two mothers chatting in the square, one has two sons, one has only one daughter, can't help but envy each other, the mother of the two sons said, I have nothing to envy, two sons can only take care of one, the other let him fight on his own.

But the words turned sharply, and as if jokingly, I said, otherwise we will marry the doll, I will give my son to your family, and the people next to me will start laughing, are you not equivalent to letting your son into the money? You're willing to do it too!

The mother said, what is there to be reluctant about? Anyway, two can't afford to raise one. It just so happens that the only daughter has no sons in the family, and the son-in-law is half a child! We all know that it is a joke, haha laughed, but this is in the heart of another mother, she is afraid that her daughter will meet such a boy in the future, to eat "no family".

When it comes to phoenix men, I believe that everyone will not be unfamiliar, and everyone knows a little about the terrible things about phoenix men, and the concealment of phoenix men is very good.

But their criteria for choosing a blind date are very clear, the woman must be a local, preferably an only child, the family has money, and her parents have retired.

This is the stepping stone for the phoenix man to change his fate, to find a suitable partner, so that he can struggle for ten years less, but also out of the muddy original family, and live the life he wants.

Phoenix men regard marriage as a transaction, put material conditions first, such people are good at hiding, they value the loneliness of the only child, the family relationship is simple, and when the parents are old, he can naturally occupy the property and take the property that the girl and the parents have struggled for all their lives.

And this, I believe that all the only female parents are most afraid, just like YaPing in "Double Sided Tape", Zhang Dongsheng in "The Hidden Corner", they are very well hidden at the beginning, waiting for each other to unload their defenses, girls are waiting for not happiness, but a chicken feather, and finally may be empty of money.

Phoenix men are indeed terrible, they regard the marriage object as a prey, the basis of marriage is not feelings, but desire, but the only woman's family is only wary of phoenix men is enough?

In fact, they are surrounded by another kind of more greedy person, who is more purposeful and more domineering.

Beware of phoenix men "eating the family", there is a kind of person who is more greedy

Xiao Li is an only child, her parents have a business mind, so the family situation is very good, because of the perennial busy, there is only Xiao Li a girl, from xiao Li remembers, the uncle's family always comes to pick up the oil, originally is a brother, you come and go is very normal, but the uncle never pays, only knows to take, as the children grow up, the uncle's son goes to school, marries his daughter-in-law, buys a house and buys a car, always comes to borrow money, borrows and does not pay back.

Once, the father really couldn't help but say two words, and as a result, the uncle raised his eyebrows, and you don't have a son, what do you do to earn so much money? It is better to leave it all to Xiao Liang (the son of the great uncle), and in the future he will also give you a pension, and he will give you a grave a hundred years later, which is not much stronger than a handsome piece?

For this reason, the two brothers were not happy and dispersed, and the uncle was also very cold every time he saw Xiaoli, and he was also macho during the New Year's Festival, thinking that Xiaoli was a girl and did not let her participate in some family activities.

Once, Xiao li's father heard something, the parents passed away, left a suite for the child, but the only daughter could not inherit, a question to know, there is a part of the relatives.

Although it is only a few tenths, if those relatives do not agree, the child has no right to deal with the property, either let the relative voluntarily give up for notarization, or sell the house and distribute the property to the relatives.

So he decided to make a will, stating that the property was only left to his daughter, and when the uncle's family heard about it, they made a fierce disturbance, and the two families completely broke up.

Many people may not have heard the word "eat the family", the word "eat the family" means the family without sons, in the past "eat" means bullying, suppression, evolved to the present, although not so cruel, but the only child family in some traditional concepts are still slightly prejudiced.

Write at the end:

For girls, they are inherently too emotional, and they are often prone to losing judgment and reason in their feelings, which is very dangerous in marriage.

In the world, it is also easy to let people with hearts exploit loopholes, so one-daughter families also want to have a second child, whether it is two sisters or a man and a woman, two children take care of each other, and parents will not be too worried and worried when they are old in the future.

But in fact, the essence of marriage is still based on love, after marriage also need to know how to operate, whether it is an only child or not, parents in the process of raising girls should also cultivate her vision and vision, love children but also let him understand what is evil, do not coddle lead to too simple, let their kindness with thorns, know how to protect themselves, in order to maintain a long-term marriage.