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In the world of husband and wife, the best way to get along should be mutual understanding and tolerance, everyone has their own concerns and difficulties, do not stand in the perspective of the partner to think about the problem, can not understand each other's ideas, husband and wife will also be because of the contradictions.
The harmonious relationship between husband and wife will be more long-lasting, and it is inevitable to encounter differences and contradictions themselves, and it is the top priority to find a solution.
Married to a phoenix man in 2001, life after marriage is not ideal
If she were given another chance, she would not choose to marry her current husband no matter what.
Wei Wei and her husband met through the introduction of a matchmaker, when the two met, Wei Wei was already an older young woman, but for Wei Wei herself, she still had the best wishes for love, but helpless age, plus the matchmaker persuaded on the side: Wei Wei Ah, almost on the line, we are not young at this age, it is time to find someone to marry, and then live honestly.
Therefore, Wei Wei and her husband reluctantly married.
As for why it is reluctant, in fact, when the two were in contact, Wei Wei found that the other party was not so suitable for himself, but in the end, due to various reasons, Wei Wei still decided to marry him.
After marriage, life is very plain, living the same life every day, the husband is an executive of a company, the income is acceptable, and he does not have to worry about the daily expenses of the family.
Outsiders are very envious of Wei Wei's life, but only when you are in it do you know that Wei Wei is not happy.
Wei Wei had almost no say in front of her husband.
Since her husband's hometown is in the countryside, it can be said that so far, everything he has is obtained through the hard work of his own hands, for this, Wei Wei naturally admires her husband very much, but it is precisely because of this that her husband is overconfident in all the decisions he makes, never considering the feelings of others, including Wei Wei.
02 My mother is old, you take care of it
Although the husband's temper is more strange, Wei Wei does not want to get into trouble with her husband because of this. Even after marriage, Wei Wei found that her husband had some phoenix male qualities, she did not pay attention to it.
Suddenly, one day, after dinner, my husband stopped Wei Wei who wanted to clean up the dishes: Wei Wei, you sit down first, I have something to say to you.
Wei Wei was greatly puzzled, because in his impression, it was rare to see her husband talk to him so formally, but Wei Wei still sat down.
The husband said: My mother called me at noon, she said that her body is not very good recently, I hope to have a care around, I think, this is not exactly when you are at home, otherwise you go back to the countryside for a period of time to take care of our mother.
After hearing this, Wei Wei was a little embarrassed, not that Wei Wei was unwilling to take care of her mother-in-law, but Wei Wei's mother was not in good health recently, and her recent body was inseparable from people.
Because WeiWei's home and her mother's home are not very far away, Wei Wei can temporarily take into account her mother's home and her own home.
If you go to the countryside in order to take care of your mother-in-law, your mother's side is naturally not taken care of, and everything in her own family is not at ease.
When Wei Wei told her husband these concerns, the husband thought that this was an excuse for Wei Wei to shirk.
The husband's tone is a little depressed: just take care of our mother for a while, if you are not at ease, I ask the babysitter to take care of your mother, so that you don't have to worry.
Wei Wei still wanted to say more, but her husband's voice suddenly increased by an octave: If you don't take care of my mother, we will break up.
03 thought his wife would compromise, but in the end she was punched in the face
Wei Wei thought about discussing with her husband to see if she could let her mother-in-law move into her home for a while, and when her mother was well, she would concentrate on taking care of her mother-in-law.
But seeing her husband's angry and corrupt appearance, a wave of sadness suddenly arose in his heart. Although I have been married for such a long time, the family's expenses have all depended on my husband, but I have paid a lot for this family, and the behind-the-scenes work is all handled by myself.
Thinking of this slightly, she said to her husband: We have been married for so many years, I have never made any demands on you, and now you actually say that you want to ask a nanny to take care of my mother, why don't you say that you want a nanny to take care of your mother-in-law?
However, the husband did not ask about this, insisting on letting Wei Wei return to the countryside.
Looking at the phoenix male husband who was clinging to it, he shook his head slightly, stopped speaking, and went to clean up the dishes.
In the end, Wei Wei still did not go back to the countryside to take care of her mother-in-law.
The phoenix male husband originally thought that using the breakup as a reason, he must be able to calm Wei Wei, but this self-righteous confidence was finally hit in the face by his wife's slight behavior, and he misjudged Wei Wei's determination.
Of course, the relationship between husband and wife has also reached an impasse because of this, almost causing a situation of intolerable water and fire.
Conclusion: Marrying a phoenix man is a wrong choice in itself, when faced with sudden problems, he will only care about his own feelings, and never ask his wife's thoughts and concerns. Of course, this is a more deformed husband and wife relationship, only husband and wife mutual understanding, tolerance, understanding, in order to go to the bright road of happiness.