Everyone yearns for equal love, but unfortunately not everyone can meet, the balance in marriage is often tilted, and more often than not, the wife pays more, if the husband does not know how to be grateful, he will only enjoy everything as he deserves, then this relationship will be difficult to go to the end.
After all, people's patience is limited, in order to love women can compromise and treat unfairly, but will not be bottomlessly conniving to the end, when her heart is broken, it is not willing to pour out what she has, because it is not worth it, it will stop the loss in time, and once the heart is cold, it is difficult to be re-warmed, you know, some mistakes can be changed, some misses are irreparable.
Xiao Ting and Yang Hui are college classmates, both people are from the same club, there were many people who pursued Xiao Ting at that time, but she was partial to Yang Hui, to tell the truth, it is because of the appearance, Xiao Ting pays special attention to appearance, Yang Hui not only looks handsome, but also gives her a very high and cold feeling, and does things seriously, although there are not many words, but the ability is very strong.
It's just that people who know Yang Hui well know that his family situation is not very good, from a small county, there are two younger brothers at the bottom, who came to the city by reading, that is, the phoenix man that others often say, but Xiao Ting does not mind these, but feels that love is a matter of two people, as long as they are sincere with each other, no matter how big the difficulties can be overcome, just like this, under her pursuit, the two people began to fall in love, and there was nothing to do after graduation.
When interacting, when Yang Hui learned that Xiao Ting's family was very well- and put the focus on her body, in fact, Yang Hui was also very clear that if he wanted to change his fate, it would take too much time to rely on his own efforts, and it was better to rely on the convenience of marriage, so he desperately wanted to be good to Xiao Ting.
Not long after graduation, Yang Hui often mentioned that she wanted to get married, but Xiao Ting did not want to get married so quickly, and her parents did not know how to persuade, until she suddenly had a child, she had to bring Yang Hui back home, the parents were naturally very angry, but because the daughter really liked each other, she had to agree.
But when it comes to getting married, Yang Hui began to cry and said: You also know that my family can't afford too much, can you not ask for the bride price and the house, and the wedding process is as simple as possible. The implication is that if you can save, it is best if your family can pay for it.
For the sake of the children, the woman's family had to make a compromise, not only did not want a penny dowry, but also bought a dowry house, even the cost of the wedding is mostly the woman is responsible, so the two people got married, but the life after marriage is not satisfactory, Yang Hui's focus is on the original family side, the salary is also sent back to the hometown, and the expenses and things for the small family are all handed over to the wife to solve.
Later, the child was born, Yang Hui took over the family on the grounds of taking care of the child, because of the difference in three views and living habits, Xiao Ting and the in-laws could not get along, the family relationship was a mess, Yang Hui would not only stand on the side of the in-laws, but also often find excuses to let her ask for money with the family, as long as Xiao Ting did not agree, he would be counted down and accused.
After a long time, Xiao Ting couldn't stand it, the two people had a big fight, Yang Hui was also ashamed to say: Your family has money, what is wrong with helping my family? Xiao Ting replied directly: "Money is also my parents' money, there is no half-cent relationship with your family, if you have the ability, you will work hard, don't always think about calculating my family's money." Perhaps it was this remark that stimulated Yang Hui's self-esteem, and he was so angry that he threw Xiao Ting out.
Afterwards, Xiao Ting returned to her mother's house and told her parents everything, her father resolutely asked her to divorce, sue without divorce, and take back the house, after learning these things, Yang Hui rushed over to apologize and retain, but Xiao Ting planned to listen to her parents this time, and did not want to give him any more chances.
Love is beautiful, but if you want to get married, you need to be cautious, especially for people whose family situation is too different, the three views are also different, but also to weigh the pros and cons before making the right choice, psychologist Karen once said: The biggest gap between people is not status, wealth and poverty, education or beauty and ugliness, but values.
Two people with different values have always been difficult to go to the end, especially when they meet a selfish phoenix man, who will only blindly value the original family, but ignore the feelings of his wife, and will continue to ask and calculate, so that a good marriage is lost.