"The family eats and lives together, don't be careful" The daughter-in-law was newly married for half a year, and the in-laws lived in March

What is a family member? The so-called family, that is, the good to share, the bad to share, in order to have the courage to face the world, without fear and regret.

Families that are not harmonious will have all kinds of disregard. Harmonious families, only one thing, understand and support each other. Only by doing this can the family live in harmony.

Therefore, getting along with relatives and family is a science, going too far, the relationship will be weak, going too close, and there will be more grievances. Only a short distance is the best way to maintain a family relationship.

01. The eldest daughter-in-law was newly married for half a year, and the in-laws lived for 3 months

Because of the blessing and advantage of an only child, even if Xiao Ting learned that her in-laws' family was very general and she had two sons, she did not choose to give up, but was more determined to be with her husband, as if only then could she prove that she was true love.

After the parents tried to persuade them to no avail, they were unwilling to completely break off relations with their daughters, so they had to take out their savings to buy a dowry house for their daughters. At that time, the parents were thinking that even if the daughter's in-laws were in a general situation, the daughter's marriage was unhappy and unsatisfactory, and there was still a house as a base and a way out.

At that time, the parents may not have thought that the dowry room they gave to their daughters not only did not become a retreat and confidence for their daughters, but became a burden and burden for their daughters.

Because some people's skin is thicker than the city wall, their younger son eats soft rice, and his parents also bring their eldest son's family of four to eat soft rice, rubbing and drinking.

Xiao Ting, who has just been newly married, has a thin skin, where can she say no? Coupled with the fact that her husband is next to the soft and hard bubbles, pleading bitterly, how his parents are not easy, now that he has a good life, he should also do his filial piety to his parents and pull down his brother-in-law's family.

Xiao Ting helplessly accepted the 6 members of her in-laws' family, and since then she has begun her life of headaches. Because the in-laws of 6 people, as soon as they moved in, they were unwilling to move away, allowing Xiao Ting to explicitly hint that the in-laws just would not take the stubble.

02, "The family eats and lives together, don't be too careful"

The in-laws are 6 people, so the bright and just squeezed in for 3 months, Xiao Ting can't stand it anymore. For the sake of her husband, to support her in-laws, she has no opinion. But brothers and sisters-in-law are married and have two children, and they still nibble on the old brother, what is this like?

The in-laws moved in, and it can also be said that the younger son is filial piety. But the brother-in-law followed to live, he did not pay a penny, eating and drinking all counted on his brother and daughter-in-law Zhang Luo, and even the health of the housework was rarely done.

Xiao Ting said several times, but the mother-in-law immediately maintained, your brother and sister-in-law are busy at work every day, exhausted after work, where do you still have the strength to work and do housework? But you are different, you go to work every day is to sit in the office to blow air conditioning, the treatment is too different.

Xiao Ting said that she could not be a mother-in-law, but she was not willing to continue to suffer dumb losses. She proposed that since her brother-in-law was busy at work, it showed that the salary was not bad, so she would take 2,000 yuan per month for living expenses. The 2,000 yuan was actually spent on their two sons, and Xiao Ting did not have a lion to open his mouth.

Since the in-laws took the brother-in-law's family to live in, the monthly expenses of the family have risen sharply, at first it was 2000, then it rose to 3000, and then to 4000, every time the mother-in-law will say with a straight face, the price is high, the child wants to eat seafood to eat meat and fruit, she has no way, always can not even the child's little bit of food to search for it.

The mother-in-law still said disapprovingly, "The family eats and lives together, don't be too careful, you two earn 20,000 a month, can't even support 2 children?" Isn't it a joke to say it? ”

03. The daughter-in-law asks the brother-in-law to live for 2,000 yuan per month

Others don't look at jokes, Xiao Ting doesn't care, but since the in-laws came, it is an indisputable fact that she has overspended on her monthly expenses. The key is that it is overspended, but no one has taken the initiative to stand up and take on one or two.

Hearing that Xiao Ting wanted to let her eldest son pay 2,000 yuan for living expenses, her mother-in-law couldn't sit still, and immediately jumped up and said that they were all family, and it was too much to collect living expenses. And your husband and wife are not low wages, nor can they support a family, there is no need to tear their faces for 2,000 yuan, hurting the harmony between brothers.

Xiao Ting did not speak, and looked directly at her husband, who lowered his head and was silent. Seeing her husband's statement, Xiao Ting's heart was like a mirror, but she would not compromise again.

She did not argue with her mother-in-law, and directly told her husband that this is my mother's dowry room, either you send your parents and sister-in-law's family back to your hometown, or you leave the house and live with your parents and sister-in-law's family.

Xiao Ting did what she said, and let her husband immediately instigate. At first, he was still a little hesitant, thinking that on one side was his parents and brothers, and on the other side was his wife, and how he chose would offend the other party. But now that he was about to be cleansed out of the house, he couldn't take care of it.

It's just that he still wants to fight for his parents, saying that the brother-in-law's family can be sent back, but his parents have worked hard for most of their lives and have not enjoyed a day of happiness, and he should stay around and do a good job of filial piety.

Xiao Ting did not want to leave her in-laws any longer, and the reason why she had all this was brought by her in-laws. Leaving her in-laws behind, Xiao Ting was worried that her brother-in-law's family would make a comeback.

Today's Topic:

Do you support Xiao Ting in leaving her in-laws for the elderly?

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