"Doctor, can I have a baby?" In 2009, a 33-year-old cerebral palsy patient named Ye Hong came to Huashan Hospital for follow-up consultation and quietly asked the doctor.
Ye Hong's words made the doctor a little surprised, looking at Ye Hong, who was struggling to speak and had no hands and feet, the doctor asked rhetorically: "Can you eat well?" ”。
Although the voices of the two people were very low, the husband next to Ye Hong still heard it, and he comforted: "Don't think too much, your task now is to raise your body well, as long as you are good, everything is fine." ”。
What Gong Jianqiang did not expect was that his wife Ye Hong actually said: "You can take such a big risk and pull me back from the death line, I can't risk giving you a complete home?" If I go first in the future, there will be a child to accompany you and take care of you! ”。
His wife's words made Gong Jianqiang burst into tears, first, he was touched by his wife's desire to risk having children for himself, and second, he found that his wife, who has always had language difficulties, could actually say such a long word in one breath and made progress.
Gong Jianqiang, a technician in the engineering department of Shanghai Jindian Industrial in Jinshan District, has been stumbling until he was 33 years old and not married for various reasons, which made his relatives and friends around him very anxious and introduced him to the object.
In 2001, under the introduction of relatives and friends, he met the 25-year-old Ye Hong, although Ye Hong came from the countryside, but the person is beautiful, the temperament is good, the two are very close, after 1 year of love, in 2002 May Fourth Youth Day, the two entered the marriage hall.
After getting married, Gong Jianqiang was full of energy and wanted to live a prosperous life, but who thought, just 6 days after the new marriage, bad luck came to this small family that had just been formed.
On May 10, 2002, Gong Jianqiang was busy in the company when he suddenly received a call from Ye Hong's colleague: "Your wife suddenly fell ill and was sent to Jinshan Hospital!" ”。
Hearing this news, he went straight to the hospital without saying a word, and when he arrived at the hospital, Ye Hong had already been pushed into the ICU.
In order to take care of his wife, he took a leave of absence from the company and guarded his wife day and night, and a month later, Ye Hong's life was robbed, however, because of cerebrovascular malformations, her hands, feet and facial muscles atrophy, basic funeral language and mobility, and was soon diagnosed with severe cerebral palsy.
Ye Hong's encounter, let her family grief, looking at the daughter during the rescue, busy after Gong Jianqiang, Ye Hong's father is even more distressed, after a fierce ideological struggle, Ye Hong's father decided to take his daughter home to take care of, not to drag this young man.
But Gong Jianqiang refused, he took his wife's hand and said: "Wife, I will not leave you..."
Gong Jianqiang did what he said, after taking Ye Hong home, he had to go to work and take care of his paralyzed wife, the hardships can be imagined, but the lover accompanied him, no matter how tired he was, Gong Jianqiang did not have a word of complaint, because he believed that this was the responsibility of a husband.
Gong Jianqiang did not complain, but his friends could not see it anymore, and they all advised him to get rid of this burden, and some people told him: "Husband and wife are originally forest birds, and they fly separately when great trouble is imminent, so why should you hang yourself on a tree?" ”。
Even Gong Jianqiang's father warned Gong Jianqiang: "If you choose not to leave, you will suffer a lot in the future!" ”
For the persuasion of these people who are good for themselves, Gong Jianqiang did not refute it, and still went his own way, in addition to going to work, that is, staying by his wife's side.
In order to reassure Ye Hong's mother's family, he solemnly assured them: "As long as I have a breath, I will take care of her for a lifetime!" ”。
In order to help Ye Hong recover, he has to help his wife massage every day, he lives on the 4th floor, he is even more tireless, every morning and evening carrying Ye Hong downstairs to exercise, there is no equipment suitable for Ye Hong, he uses foam plastic, cardboard to do it himself.
After more than a year of unremitting efforts, Ye Hong's body has improved greatly, and she can actually get out of bed and walk under his support.
The change of his wife made Gong Jianqiang happy, and then he bought a story meeting and chess, so that his wife could slowly recover her thinking and slowly practice speaking.
One day, it rained lightly in the sky, and Ye Hong, who was accompanied by Gong Jianqiang, was exercising on the balcony, and suddenly said incoherently: "It's raining!" ”。
The simple three words made Gong Jianqiang burst into tears, and all his efforts were worth it.
Soon, the time came to 2009, at this time, Gong Jianqiang and Ye Hong, have been married for 7 years, Gong Jianqiang is also 41 years old, because Ofe Hong's cerebral palsy, they have not had children.
Watching her husband grow old day by day, his once thick hair has become thinner, and he is sick and threatened, he may die one day, and it is also because of this that Ye Hong's idea of giving Gong Jianqiang a child is getting stronger and stronger, so there is a dialogue with the doctor at the beginning of the article.
In the summer of 2010, Ye Hong found out that she was pregnant, which surprised her, however, people around her were worried about her body and advised her to give up, but Ye Hong refused: "Even if I take a big risk, I will give birth to the child!" ”。
On February 2, 2011, the evening of Chinese New Year's Eve, Ye Hong gave birth to a son, the mother and son were safe, and Gong Jianqiang, who became a father, was even happier, naming the child "Gong Yehan", at this time, they had been married for 9 years.
In life, Gong Jianqiang is definitely a good husband, at work, although dragged down by his wife, he is distracted a lot, but he is still a positive and good employee, he is the only scarce talent in the company who holds the RT Advanced 3 professional certificate.
This certificate, the gold content is extremely high, even undergraduate graduates, also need to work for 8 years, to be eligible to be admitted, and Gong Jianqiang, a graduate of the technical school, has prepared for this certificate for 18 years.
When taking this certificate, Gong Jianqiang was 38 years old, in fact, at that time, he did not want to take this certificate, because he was afraid of distraction, there was no time to take care of his wife, but Ye Hong encouraged him to go to the test, and even accompanied him to endorse and review, stuttering to ask him questions and draw back.
In the words of Gong Jianqiang, he can pass this certificate, his wife is indispensable, not only that, under the encouragement of Ye Hong, he has successively taken the ultrasonic second-level, magnetic powder MT and other certificates.
Around 2016, Gong Jianqiang's family won the titles of National Civilized Family and the Most Beautiful Family in The Country, and at the report meeting, he told people his story and touched countless people.
With the passage of time, Gong Jianqiang's wife has recovered well and basically does not need Gong Jianqiang's care, and with leisure time, he has joined community volunteers to help difficult families pick up and drop off their children and encourage residents with diseases to be healthy.
The reason for doing this is to feed back, because when Ye Hong was ill, the caring people in the community heard the news and set up a help group at the first time, gave them a lot of help, and even in terms of medical treatment, they also tried to win some subsidies and exemptions for them.
Nowadays, Gong Jianqiang and Ye Hong have spent 20 spring and autumn together, and for them, there is only one wish left, that is, to cultivate their son well, so that he can grow up and become a useful person to society.
Married for 6 days, the wife was severely paralyzed, Gong Jianqiang did not abandon the care for 20 years, I have to say, is really a rare good man, calculate the time, this year's May Fourth is coming soon, in advance to wish this couple who suffered and shared the "porcelain marriage" happy.