The writer Lin Huiyin once said: "Only when people sit off their loneliness can they regain their noise; only when they have exhausted their sadness can they see their happy faces again; and if they taste the bitterness, they will naturally return to sweetness." ”
Life is a process of thousands of turns, and if you gain affirmation, you will lose.
You can't do everything, but you have to take care of your own interests within the bounds of the conditions.
Only by not being bothered by the world can we live our true selves.
Breaking up is not terrible, and a person can also move forward fearlessly without fear.
Never again be troubled by feelings, the beauty of life is on the verge of happening.
You have only experienced a brief period of grief, and the confusion is followed by another bright day.
After the breakup, don't linger, don't contact, don't bother.
In the face of emotional helplessness, breaking up is the most perfect fulfillment
Writer Zhang Jiajia once said: "We didn't know when we were young, some movements, once they started, sang the song and dispersed. ”
I used to think that the oath of shan menghai was enough to overcome a lifetime, but now I realized that real life is too difficult.
There are too few feelings from the beginning to the end, and the waiting for each other is too luxurious.
It is impossible to talk about feelings only in a lifetime, and two people together will face countless difficulties and obstacles.
If you are always hesitant, you will only hurt others and yourself in the end.
No one can predict the future development, and everyone has to make a reasonable judgment.
When you are young and crazy, you can do nothing, and when you are mature and stable, you can understand the meaning of growth.
The two people have come to a fork in the road of feelings, and it is inevitable to break up.
You can't win back the other person's heart, and the other party can't think about you all the time.
The two people can never go back to the past, and the feelings of the two people are on the verge of being broken.
If you don't know how to close it in time, you will only end up with two people and money.
Don't waste time on an inconsequential relationship that simply isn't worth your compliment.
You always want to take care of the overall situation, but the other party has already made a choice.
Not everyone knows how to empathize, and you don't have to punish yourself for other people's mistakes.
The past experience is long gone, and you must get out of the pain as soon as possible.
In the face of emotional helplessness, many people will be painful.
However, people have sorrows and joys, the moon has clouds and sunshine, and love is not the norm of life.
Get rid of the shackles of two people as soon as possible, in order to find the comfort of one person.
It is impossible for two people to go back to the past again, but it is better to let go of the burden from now on.
The two people were sweet and sweet at the beginning, but they still couldn't withstand the destruction of reality.
You want to stay together until you are old, but real life is too difficult.
You can't find the exact answer in this relationship, and the fate of the two people has come to an end.
Do your own thing, and beautiful surprises will come unexpectedly
I like a quote from the writer Yang Xiwen: "When you focus on yourself, opportunities from the outside world will come to you." ”
Constantly improving their own value charm in order to attract like-minded partners.
You don't have to prove it to the world, but you can't live up to your expectations.
Stop having unrealistic dreams, real life is often real and helpless.
If you are always wishful thinking, you will only lose everything in the end.
Go out and walk around a little more, and you'll definitely find something different.
The world is under your feet, and you must have the courage to open up.
Even if the last relationship failed, it does not mean that you are a complete loser.
Smart people will improve themselves in other ways, and find another way to find a unique landscape.
Adjust your mindset and start over, study hard so that you will not lose.
There is still a long way to go, and you can never put feelings first.
Only by distinguishing between the light and the heavy will we not fall into endless confusion.
People with high emotional intelligence know how to weigh the pros and cons, and they will never take life as a joke.
Some people are only suitable for nostalgia, some things can only be put in the heart, a little more calm and comfortable, life has a different style.
Focus on yourself, no one is more important than you.
Don't give up a great future for anyone, the future life is still full of glory.
Life is not only in front of you, poetry and far away are really romantic.
The road is at your feet and you can set sail at any time.
The future life is rich and colorful, and the good times are worth looking forward to
The writer Yi Shu wrote in "Suddenly This Summer": "Why prove anything to people who are not worthy, and live better, but for yourself." ”
There is no need to compare with other people, let nature be the big truth of life.
What you don't get doesn't have to be forced, and what doesn't belong to you will eventually fall with the wind.
A person's life is very good, and a person's life will be able to bloom.
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?
After a breakup, it returns to normalcy, and a person's life can also be slowed down.
Freed from the shackles of feelings, you become more and more mature.
Away from the distractions of the past, you can completely re-plan.
No longer have to look at other people's faces to live a life, you live a new self.
Find a lifestyle that suits you, and be a person who is still colorful.
Without the help of others, you can enjoy the exquisiteness of life.
Two people together complement each other, and one person can also be alone.
When you are used to the life of one person, you will not care about the inseparable nature of two people.
The days of day and night are indeed beautiful, but the past experiences are long gone.
If you don't know how to get lost, you will only lose both in the end.
From now on, focus on self-improvement, and soon achieve a gorgeous transformation.
There is no need to be disturbed in the unexpected world, there is no need to linger on the past love and hate, after crying and laughing, it is over, and it is not too difficult to start over.
Let go of that restless heart and leave yourself plenty of buffers.
When the time comes, all the good will come as promised.
There's no need to dwell on the past, you have to take every day of your life seriously.
Not everything will go as you wish, you have to know how to let go.
Even if there is nothing, a person can be at ease.
Put your mind at ease, life is not as hard as you think.
When you look down on everything, it is really a relief.
Life is simple and beautiful, and only by nurturing with heart can it flourish.
The writer Shen Congwen once said: "Everything has a chance coincidence, but the result is like the inevitability of fate." ”
Two people meet because of fate, but the results are often unsatisfactory.
It's not that destiny is hard to violate, it's that it's not suitable at all.
You can't change the other person's mind, and the other person can't obey your wishes.
This relationship has reached a fork in the road of life, and a breakup is inevitable.
Don't dwell on the bits and pieces of the past, be a little dashing so you won't get tangled up in your heart.
Now you are only in a moment of confusion, and you can still embrace the world after starting over.
Never doubt yourself, you're never worse than anyone.