Anjie, who had just recovered from a serious illness, came to the gate of the hospital, escaped from death, smelled the air outside, as if it was exceptionally fresh, at this time, Anjie, the heart was satisfied and peaceful, just like many ordinary peaceful and calm old ladies.
Yafei and Jiang Defu supported her, and Yafei asked Anjie, "Does it feel good to be alive?" Jiang Defu couldn't help but interject, "Of course it's good to be alive!" Aren't you talking nonsense? ”
Yafei complained, "Dad, why are you so confused?" Mom, how have you survived all these years? Unexpectedly, Anjie retorted with a smile and satisfaction: "I have lived a very good life in my life!" I'm content! ”
In middle age, when Anjie summed up his life, he once said such a thing, marrying Jiang Defu she lived a worry-free life, spiritual pleasure, this time after the disaster, Anjie more affirmed his life to marry Jiang Defu, how happy and happy he lived.
When Anjie was seriously ill and unconscious, Jiang Defu was helpless like a fragile and helpless child, standing in front of Anjie's hospital bed, not knowing how to eat, drink, or take a bath, mechanically as if he had lost his soul, and said stupidly: "If your mother leaves, what can I do?" What can I do? ”
Husband and wife two to the end of their lives, there will always be a person to come to the front, but Jiang Defu can not accept Anjie walking in front of him, the older Jiang Defu is, the more childish, more and more fragile, more and more clingy.
Therefore, Anjie was able to recover and be discharged from the hospital, which is a great joy for Jiang Defu to lose and regain. In order to make Anjie happier, Jiang Defu told Anjie a good news: "Jiang Dehua, she carried her quilt to our house, she said she wanted to live in our house for a while!" ”
Anjie was indeed happier, but he couldn't help but be angry: "Why do you have to report the quilt yourself, don't we have a quilt for her in our family?" "A lifetime is almost over, and Anjie and Dehua, the sister-in-law who once had a very different personality to Mai Mang, have long been so good that they are inseparable.
The single Dehua returned to the brother-in-law's house again, the three elderly people lived together, of course, it was good, but no one understood Dehua's loneliness and bitterness, she married into the Ding family for thirty years, why did she finally come back?
Dehua rolled noodles at home, gave the discharged sister-in-law the wind, heard the whistle of the car, Dehua stood at the door and watched her sister-in-law walking towards herself, she seemed to remember the scene of the first meeting with her sister-in-law, at that time it was Anjie holding Wei Guo standing at the door greeting Anjie, Anjie was full of smiles, but Dehua still felt very scared, and Anjie was very powerful at that time. There was a sharp edge in the harmony, and Dehua was afraid of her.
At this time, Dehua looked at his sister-in-law again, but he only felt extremely kind, and when he ate the noodles, Anjie said, "Sure enough, I still like the noodles made by Dehua the most!" Dehua jokingly said: "You like to eat, I will make it for you every day from now on!" Anjie said happily: "This is what you said yourself, after we will live together, you don't have to leave, talk is the word!" ”
After saying that, Anjie also said, no, you still have to make a statement to prevent you from repenting! Dehua is still the outspoken personality, does not know anything reserved, and said happily, "If you want to write, I can't write!" ”
So Dehua returned to his mother's house and retired with his brother and sister-in-law, and it was fixed in these seemingly joked words.
In reality, there are very few sisters who have been married for thirty years and return to their brother-in-law's home to retire, but after revisiting this drama, I understand why Dehua finally returned to her brother-in-law's family.
Teckwah did not have a marriage of love and respect
When Dehua was about to get married, it was a very urgent and joyful mood, she followed Anjie with her to see what dowry Anjie had prepared for her, and Anjie knocked her, "Jiang Dehua, your heart is wild, the chickens are not fed, you have to stand on the last shift before you get married!" ”
At that time, Dehua hated that he could not fly to Lao Ding's house as soon as possible, and immediately became related to him, in Dehua's words, he was afraid of the long night and dreams! Because Lao Ding promised to marry her, it was the dream she had waited for many years to realize, which was too precious.
In order to wait for this day, Dehua ran to Lao Ding's house every day and contracted all the housework in Lao Ding's family, Lao Ding did not care about her, and it did not matter if Lao Ding talked about marriage with other women, although her heart was as uncomfortable as being stabbed, but she had no regrets.
It was not until Lao Ding's two marriages were yellow, and Lao Ding broke the jar and confessed his fate, which gave Dehua the opportunity. For many women, it is not uncommon for a marriage to be treated like a spare tire by a man, but Dehua, who is content and simple and persistent, is willing to eat.
On the day of proposing to Dehua, in fact, Lao Ding's mood was very bad, because he had a deep pain and helplessness that could not be asked, and proposed to Dehua, just to live together, which had nothing to do with the ideal partner he had always imagined.
In the eyes of Lao Ding, Dehua is actually not much different from his ex-wife Wang Xiu'e, no culture, no cultural style, rude and rash. It was the marriage pattern he had always wanted to escape.
However, fate always teased Lao Ding, and when he was one step closer to his dream twice, he ended in failure, whether it was Ge Meixia or Wu Yizhu, they were all related to him, and choosing Dehua was a helpless move for him to compromise with reality.
So he proposed to Dehua, in fact, it is very perfunctory and inappropriate, he said: "Dehua, or I marry you, you marry me, we can get by together, the province is in trouble with others!" ”
Look, Dehua's marriage, from the very beginning, reveals a kind of general and perfunctory! On the wedding night, Lao Ding knew that Dehua was still a yellow flower girl, and there was a surprise, but this kind of unexpected happiness could not maintain the real marriage needs, and Lao Ding needed a spiritual partner.
Dehua served Lao Ding's life thoughtfully, and could not go into the depths of Lao Ding's heart, even though Dehua had already given birth to a daughter for Lao Ding, and Lao Ding had a complete family with both children, but Lao Ding still revealed his true inner desire after getting drunk.
Old Ding asked the painter for a portrait of Anjie, and asked the painter to hang it in the most conspicuous place in their house. After waking up drunk, Lao Ding said that he was not impressed at all, and asked how the painting came from, not acknowledging that he wanted it himself.
Anjie's portrait reveals the difficulty in Lao Ding's heart, he and Dehua marry and live together is one thing, but his deepest longing and desire have not changed.
With such a mentality, Old Ding cannot have much respect for Dehua, and it can even be said that Old Ding does not take Dehua seriously at all.
After marriage, Dehua was very humble
After marriage, Dehua continued her diligence and ability in her brother-in-law's family, bearing hardships and enduring hardships and complaining, but there were more humility in her hard work and resentment.
Different from in his brother-in-law's family, when Dehua was in Jiang Defu's home, he was hardworking but not complaining, and Dehua's mouth was often unreasonable, whether it was Anjie or Jiang Defu, when Dehua felt unfair, he always opened his mouth and was angry.
But in Lao Ding's family, Dehua always buries his head in work, but rarely expresses his opinions and opinions, because Dehua loves Lao Ding, but she also knows that she is not worthy of Lao Ding, and Lao Ding's inner unwillingness, so Dehua, who married Lao Ding, became very humble.
Every time after marriage, dehua is buried in housework, and Lao Ding is leisurely reading newspapers or practicing calligraphy.
One of her sharp mouths became a sawn-off gourd, and she had no other way but to desperately dedicate herself without asking for anything in return to prove her worth and get the approval of Lao Ding and Lao Ding's four sons.
Dehua brought up four and his own samples, as well as six children of Lao Ding's grandchildren, and even when his arm was broken, he still held Lao Ding's granddaughter.
In the end, Lao Ding died one step ahead, and Dehua did not even dare to say a word to protect her rights and interests in front of her stepsons, and the brazen Dehua over the years became so stoic and introverted that she did not look like herself.
The stepsons wanted to bury Lao Ding and Wang Xiu'e together, and they didn't discuss with Dehua, so they informed her that even if they didn't want to be alone in the grave a hundred years later, devalued, but she didn't dare to raise objections to her stepson, and could only run to her brother-in-law's house with tears and talk about her inner sadness.
Just like Yafei said three and four things: "She married into your old Ding family for thirty years, buried her head in hard work, worked hard and complained, and in the end she was just an outsider, and she was notified by you!" Have you ever met someone kinder than she is? ”
Ya Fei's following paragraph is even more detrimental to Dehua's humility in the old Ding family! Ya Fei asked three things and four things: "My aunt has been married to your old Ding family for thirty years, right?" Have you ever seen her object to anything you do? Did she do anything to your old Lord? The only thing she's done is to help you with your children! ”
Dehua's humble forbearance and dedication in marriage did not exchange for sincere treatment, on the contrary, what he got was improper and disrespectful. This continues from Lao Ding to Lao Ding's children. Three or four dare to treat Dehua like this, and they have heard about it since childhood.
On such a day, after the death of Lao Ding, what is the need to live? Or go back to her brother-in-law's house, where at least there is a sincere heart for her brother and a sister-in-law who treats her equally.