An Xin: Anjie's sister, Anjie's former spiritual pillar, and anjie's closest person in her mother's family.
Jiang Dehua: Jiang Defu's sister, Anjie's sister-in-law, anone anjie used to hate very much, but he became the person who accompanied Anjie to old age.
Anjie: A woman who has been spoiled by Jiang Defu all her life, a woman who willfully for a lifetime, a woman who has alienated her sister but is in love with her sister-in-law.
So why does the relationship between three people change so much in the long years?
Objective reasons:
First, get along time.
Soon after Jiang Weiguo was born, Jiang Dehua came to Anjie's side.
Although, the two sisters-in-law have been arguing. But sleeping under the same roof and eating at the same table is normal.
Later, Jiang Weidong was born, or Jiang Dehua and Wang Xiu'e personally delivered the birth.
Later, Jiang Defu was transferred to the island, and it was Jiang Dehua who accompanied Anjie to spend his days in Qingdao.
In the end, Jiang Dehua followed the couple to the island and never left.
So and so calculated, since Anjie had a child, he had Jiang Dehua's company by his side.
Jiang Dehua helped Anjie watch the children for more than ten years and did housework for more than ten years. How can two people have no feelings?
On the other hand, An Xin, since An Zhi married, the contact with his sister has gradually decreased.
Especially after arriving at The Little Black Island, the two people even met as a luxury.
After retirement, Anjie retired in the compound of the military region, and the address should be Jinan.
An Xin returned to his hometown of Qingdao, not far away.
But the age of the two is getting older, and it is even more difficult to meet.
Second, the gap in circumstances leads to the gap in status.
An Xin is an arrogant capitalist lady, when Anjie went to arrange a blind date ball, she would be wronged for her sister.
Later, because Ouyang Yi was beaten to the right, An Xin was reduced to a worker who pressed noodles on the island.
Even three meals a day, the care of her daughter, has become a big problem that Needs to be solved in Anxin's life.
Jiang Dehua was a rural woman, a woman who married and did not know how to cave.
Later, he became the wife of Lao Ding and the family of the chief of staff of the army.
During these dark years, An Xin's situation can be described as plummeting, but Jiang Dehua's situation is slowly improving.
So that on montenegro island, when An Xin and Jiang Dehua met again, they were already replaced by Jiang Dehua's "poor" An Xin.
After boarding the ship, it was Jiang Dehua who had been taking care of An Xin, and An Xin directly praised her fate.
When we arrived at Anjie's house, it was An Xin who had been doing housework, and Jiang Dehua ran to the next door to chat.
All of this is a gap caused by objective conditions. But it has already had an irreversible impact on everyone's personality and worldview.
An Xin became humble and sensitive, unable to withstand the sarcasm in Anjie's tone.
And Jiang Defu is living more and more confidently, when he saw Teacher Ge picking up feces, Jiang Dehua even once thought that it was good to have no culture.
Moreover, this change is deeply rooted in the bones.
Compared with some "temperamental" sisters, Anjie is naturally more willing to be close to Jiang Dehua.
In terms of the general environment, As a commander's wife, Jiang Dehua, the commander's sister, and the wife of Chief of Staff Ding will naturally have more common language with him.
Subjective reasons:
First, the personality difference between An Xin and Jiang Dehua.
An Xin was originally a more sensitive woman.
Therefore, An Xin was able to feel the pride of her husband Ouyang Yi. At the family banquet, An Xin had an argument with her little sister Anjie.
An Xin can also understand the difficulties of others. Therefore, when An Xin learned of Teacher Ge's identity, he advised Anjie to stay away from her.
An Xin can better appreciate the gap between the two sisters, so when the two talk in bed at night, An Xin even has nothing to say to her sister.
Schopenhauer:
The most special weakness of human nature is to care about how others perceive themselves.
An Xin is very concerned about her own situation and her attitude towards others.
Such a person will make most people feel comfortable when they are exposed, but they are really embarrassed by themselves.
Smart people should not live in the eyes of others, and do not live in their own emotions.
But it's easier said than done, and that's the fate of character.
Andy Jiang seems stupid and straightforward, but he is actually very smart.
As soon as he arrived at his brother's house, Jiang Dehua quarreled with his sister-in-law Anjie, and he has always been at home, thinking that his brother's home is his home.
Even when Anjie wanted to give birth, after Wang Xiu'e reprimanded him, Jiang Dehua rushed to his brother's house to help.
Jiang Dehua learned that his brother could not be promoted because Anjie was tired, and without saying a word, he directly threw a cold face at his sister-in-law Anjie.
Jiang Dehua learned that only by leaving could he force his sister-in-law to go to the island, and immediately took up his luggage and returned to his hometown.
Jiang Dehua and Anjie were noisy all the way, and they helped to come all the way.
Anjie's temperament has never been an obstacle to the communication between the two people, but has made Jiang Dehua feel the pleasure of returning to the back. Therefore, Anjie will be "afraid" of this little sister-in-law.
Jiang Dehua can selectively remember.
Jiang Dehua once said to Teacher Ge with pride and trust: "My sister-in-law is willing to give me everything!" ”
It can be seen that Jiang Dehua later only remembered Anjie's kindness to her.
The biggest trouble for people is that their memory is too good!
And Jiang Dehua's greatest happiness is that his memory is "not very good"!
Second, the differences between Anjie and Jiang Defu in their treatment of their families.
Anjie was flirtatious.
It can be said that this is inseparable from an environment in which Anjie grew up from childhood to adulthood.
As a child, Anjie's family was well-off and spoiled by his parents. When he grew up, although his family was in a state of ruin, Anjie still had his brothers and sisters to protect him.
After getting married, Anjie had her husband Jiang Defu spoiled everywhere.
Such a smooth Ander, naturally self-centered, rarely thinks about others, let alone empathizes.
Therefore, Anjie could not tolerate Jiang Dehua's faults, and he could not understand An Xin's embarrassing situation at that time.
Jiang Dehua can argue with Anjie, can make her position clear and open, and fight for her own interests, which is due to her character.
An Xin, on the other hand, can only silently endure all the discomfort in her heart, even in the face of her sister who has accompanied her from childhood to adulthood, which is also due to her personality.
Anjie and Anxin are becoming more and more distant, and Anjie and Jiang Dehua are getting closer and closer, which is the result of the natural selection of the three people.
Because, only Jiang Dehua's big grin can tolerate all of Anjie's emotions.
Only Anjie's sharp and unreserved words can convince Jiang Dehua.
At that time, when Jiang Dehua found the villagers in his home, he did not feel that he had done anything wrong. It was Anjie's three words and two words that made Jiang Dehua dumbfounded, and he also called himself unlucky.
Saying goes:
Brine point tofu, one thing drops one thing.
Anjie and Jiang Dehua are like this.
Jiang Defu and thin mud.
Anjie said that Jiang Defu must have been a mason in his previous life, and would be with the mud.
It was this mason who won the opportunity for his sister Jiang Dehua to stay in the city.
It is also this mason who is worried about the situation of everyone in the house.
It is this mason who helps his sister Jiang Dehua finally find happiness.
It can be said that without Jiang Defu's various efforts, Jiang Dehua could not have stayed in the Jiang family all the time.
Things at home really can't be argued, and once they are argued, they are wrong!
The original difference in personality, coupled with the multiple influences of the environment, it is not surprising that Anjie is estranged from An Xin, but can accompany Jiang Dehua for a lifetime.
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