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Watching "Crazy" recently, how did Gao Qiqiang, a kind little fishmonger, finally become a murderous big devil?
When I read the book of criminal psychology professor Li Meijin before, I knew more or less about human nature.
Gao Qiqiang is not a born criminal, he is not bad in nature, he has a conscience, he is not cold-blooded or ruthless.
He is grateful to Officer Anxin for helping him, he has a natural desire to protect his younger siblings, and he can help even those around him.
How could such a person who seemed to be very kind be blackened?
In a person's life, his experiences and encounters, as well as his original family and childhood trauma, have played a great role in the formation of his character, and his fate is mostly determined by his character.
Gao Qiqiang's parents died in a car accident when he was 13 years old, and as the eldest in the family, he naturally became the pillar of the family and took on the responsibility of raising his younger siblings.
A small fishmonger business led him to train two college students.
If his life had not been turbulent, he might have been content to be a small fishmonger until his younger siblings started a family, and then he also started a family and lived an ordinary life.
But An Xin changed his fate.
As a fishmonger, he was bullied by the Tang Xiaolong brothers in the market, and he endured for many years, kept his voice down, and in addition to sticking money, he also gave them a TV.
Earth head snake, the more you whisper, the more he likes to cut you.
But Gao Qiqiang has no way, he has no background and no money, he can only endure.
However, the emergence of Anxin suddenly changed Gao Qiqiang's position in this market.
As a police officer, An Xin is his uncle, and his contacts with Gao Qiqiang have a certain deterrent effect in that small market.
And this deterrent effect changed Gao Qiqiang's mentality.
02 I want to be recognized
Gao Qiqiang has had a hard time with his younger siblings since the death of his parents, he covers his younger siblings, but no one has ever covered him, and his sadness is only known to himself.
Suddenly, one day, because of An Xin's kindness, he became the one who was taken care of, and the feeling of being respected without whispering was too good.
He was very obsessed with this feeling.
So when someone in the market asks him for help, he can also help, in addition to kindness, deep down in his heart he also longs to be recognized.
Because from childhood to adulthood, he lived in poverty and inferiority, and no one could afford to look up to their brothers and sisters.
Now that someone is looking for him to help, it means that his status in the eyes of the people around him has improved, and his ability has risen, even if he is a fox fake tiger power, in short, it is much better than the previous days.
03 Take your family very seriously
Gao Qiqiang, who has lost his parents since childhood, takes his family very seriously.
In his heart, he would rather suffer grievances himself than let his younger siblings be wronged.
According to his intelligence, if he had the opportunity to study, he would also be a high-achieving student, but he was bullied for his younger brothers and sisters to enter society early.
When his younger brother borrowed money from the Tang Xiaolong brothers, Gao Qiqiang had already begun to blacken, and he beat Xu Jiang's son through the introduction of the Tang Xiaolong brothers, and the result was that he was connected with Xu Jiang by mistake.
In fact, when Xu Jiang was wanted, Gao Qiqiang wanted to turn himself in, and he knew very well what he had done in his heart and knew that reining in the precipice was the best way.
But his brother disagreed, he didn't want his brother to go to prison.
Gao Qiqiang looked at his persistent younger brother and his sister who knew nothing, and thought a lot.
He can't abandon his younger brother and sister in his life, his younger brother has just graduated from college, his sister has not yet graduated, after graduation he has to find a job, marry someone and have children, he is an older brother, he can't hold them back.
Once he gets in, his younger siblings will become someone else's sword.
He is also fed up with the days of being bullied and does not want his younger siblings to be bullied again.
Especially his younger brother, he was poor, looked down upon, and he never wanted to live the days of being played by others.
Because they are poor, they all have low self-esteem, and once people with low self-esteem try the sweetness of money and power, they will never go back.
People who lack snacks in life will be addicted to snacks in the future, people who lack love will be addicted to love in the future, and Gao Qiqiang's brothers lack money and power, so they will also be addicted.
03 Blinded by money
Some people say that Gao Qiqiang's blackened younger brother has a great responsibility.
It was indeed the younger brother who prevented Gao Qiqiang from turning himself in.
But we all overlooked Gao Qiqiang's ambition: wanting to get ahead, to be respected, to be looked up to, to live a good life, is also his dream.
And he realized this dream in his own whim.
When An Xin tested him three times, he could pretend that nothing happened, not only because he valued his family, but because he valued this feeling and did not want to return to the beginning.
The movie "Hidden in the Dust" Ma Youtie has Cao Guiying, the lover, can never return to the original lonely time.
After the hard people sing a little sweet, they can no longer forget, and Gao Qiqiang is the same.
An Xin said it steadily, he has had it since he was a child, but not much.
But after violating his conscience, the pleasure brought by money and power was too addictive to him, knowing that it was poison, but he could not extricate himself.
Originally, he and An Xin were both teenagers and orphans, and there was a feeling of sympathy in their hearts, but in the end, he chose the path to disappoint An Xin, and the two went against each other.
Written at the end:
In this world, there are many people who are inherently bad, they are ruthless to anyone, and there are many people like Gao Qiqiang who have become bad people because of the influence of life and experience.
They choose the wrong person and take the wrong path because they want to make up for the flaws in their hearts and protect the people they think are important.
As Li Meijin said in "Psychological Parenting": The most powerful and priceless control over people is emotions. The weaker he is, the more he has nothing, and sometimes he needs a soft emotion to awaken his humanity.
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