Yi said, the gathering place of women's growth, may you not wear armor, you can withstand thousands of difficulties in life, welcome to pay attention.
Unexpectedly, I was poked by my sister-in-law Chen Shuting in "Crazy", and the sister-in-law's sassy and cool appearance was very amazing, especially the part where Gao Qiqiang was cleaned up with a belt, which impressed many people.
However, with the end of the whole drama, and then combing the life of sister-in-law Chen Shuting, Yi said that he felt that behind this woman's eyes were full of sadness, and she was destined to a tragic fate.
It is said that fate is in their own hands, and they all say that character determines destiny, and for Chen Shuting, no matter how she looks, she will not be at the mercy of fate and let herself live as a tragedy. Her end seems to be murdered, but under closer examination, she did not escape the fate of becoming a victim in the man's game.
Chen Shuting is Bai Jiangbo's wife, and it can be seen that she is not a canary raised at home, she is a woman who broke out of a family business with Bai Jiangbo. It's just that after having children, the focus of her life is on children, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't know what Bai Jiangbo is doing outside.
The Liangzi that Xu Jiang and Bai Jiangbo bonded, she knew very well, so after Bai Jiangbo disappeared, she took her child to the field. She hid Xujiang for the safety of herself and her children, but she could also see that she did not plan to return to Jinghai.
At this time, Chen Shuting's goal is very clear, she can give up avenging her husband for the safety of her children, and she does not want to wade into the muddy waters of the Beijing Sea again.
An Xin's appearance made her understand that if Xu Jiang's son's case was not closed for a day, she and her son would have no safety to speak of, and it was useless to hide anywhere. Chen Shuting is a woman who can face reality, so she promised An Xin to return to Jinghai.
However, Chen Shuting also saw An Xin in a car accident, and she realized that in Jinghai, An Xin and they could not give her safety, at least for now. She followed Bai Jiangbo and was also a woman who had experienced strong winds and waves, and also knew that the relationship between Jinghai was complicated.
Chen Shuting has returned to Jinghai, and Bai Jiangbo is no longer there, but the industry in Jinghai is earned by her and Bai Jiangbo, and it is indeed unwilling to give up taking her son away from other places, not to mention sister-in-law Chen Shuting, such a woman.
She herself said that I am not the kind of woman who is weak and unable to take care of herself. She is up to her own to give her children a secure future.
However, it was such a sassy woman who still did three things wrong after meeting Gao Qiqiang.
The first thing is to marry Gao Qiqiang.
If Chen Shuting married Gao Qiqiang for love, probably no one will believe that it is definitely not a pure marriage between them, but a cooperation. At the beginning of this cooperation, it was Chen Shuting's active choice, and Gao Qiqiang would not have thought of marrying Chen Shuting as soon as he saw her.
It was Chen Shuting who saw Gao Qiqiang having fun with her son, and suddenly had an idea, after all, she wanted to give her son a complete home. In addition, she also felt that she needed someone to be a helper, and Gao Qiqiang was a good candidate.
This seems to be a good choice for Chen Shuting, and it is also a decision that she has calculated carefully, why is it wrong?
You see that the night she went to surround Gao Qiqiang, it is clear that there are many people following, and her analysis and handling of everything, all the time shows that she is a woman who can stand alone.
She wanted to give her son a stable life, and even wanted to get rid of Bai Jiangbo's previous fearful days, these are not wrong, but she did not put the initiative of these lives in her own hands, and finally chose to give it to a man.
It's not that you can't remarry, but remarriage also needs to look at the other party's character background, perhaps in Chen Shuting's view, Gao Qiqiang meets her requirements in all aspects, but she didn't think that Gao Qiqiang can go to Xu Jiang, which means that it is similar to what Bai Jiangbo does.
Not only did she not jump out of this circle with her son, but she also fell deeper and handed over her fate to others.
The second thing is to control Gao Qiqiang.
Chen Shuting has been trying hard to get the business on the right path, that is, to get rid of everything before, and she also knows that this kind of life will only sink deeper and deeper. However, from the moment she married Gao Qiqiang, she would never have the opportunity to jump out.
I think that the reason why Chen Shuting is very confident, she married Gao Qiqiang, she can also achieve her goals, after all, she has this marriage with her goals. However, she forgot that people are independent individuals, and no one wants to be controlled by others, even if you help him or even build him, but you can't control him.
After marriage, Gao Qiqiang, with the help of Chen Shuting, first recognized Uncle Tai as a godfather, entered Uncle Tai's group company by himself, and later had his own industry.
Gao Qiqiang's counterattack all the way has the shadow of Chen Shuting. From dressing clothes to handling everything, Chen Shuting looked standing behind Gao Qiqiang, and was actually controlling Gao Qiqiang. She thought that Gao Qiqiang listened to her.
Because without her, there would be no Uncle Tai's godson Gao Qiqiang, and there would be no later chairman Gao Qiqiang, let alone the later Qisheng Group.
Chen Shuting's mistake is that she wants to control Gao Qiqiang, and she thinks that this control will always be effective. When she found out that she could no longer control Gao Qiqiang, and Gao Qiqiang no longer obeyed her command, she would probably regret it.
But it's too late, she is trying to hold Gao Qiqiang, trying to let the family live under the sun, but can the fate placed in the hands of others be taken back?
She didn't know that there was a word that was overwhelmed.
The third thing is to try to correct my son.
Chen Shuting wants to control Gao Qiqiang on the one hand, and wants to change her son on the other hand. At the beginning, when she married Gao Qiqiang, she should have thought about what kind of impact it would have on her son's future. Perhaps she found that she couldn't influence Gao Qiqiang to run wildly on the wrong road, so she tried hard to bring her son back to the right path.
It's just a pity that a person's character is determined by his experience. She gave her son the best education and raised her child in front of the tiger mother, but this is also a kind of control.
The end result is that when she leaves this world, her son begins to lose control and begins to race on that road like Gao Qiqiang.
And Chen Shuting's death in a car accident was not an accident but man-made. To put it bluntly, it is the victim of Gao Qiqiang and Jiang Tian's fight against each other. Chen Shuting has been planning for the safety of herself and her son all her life, and has been trying to get herself and her son out of that kind of fearful life all her life.
But in the end, her ending is embarrassing. Maybe she just lost to herself, and she gave her reliance and hope to others.
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