Old Ding in "Parental Love" has always envied Jiang Defu for marrying a beautiful and cultured Anjie.
When his original partner, Wang Xiu'e, died, he wanted to find a woman who could feel sorry for him, Qinser and Ming.
But he had four children who had not yet reached adulthood to take care of, and there were few cultured women on the island who were in the same condition as him.
It seems that only Teacher Ge is suitable for choosing to go, Teacher Ge is an elderly leftover woman, the family composition is not good, and marrying him is also a good choice.
However, Teacher Ge is the daughter of Yu Ba, and the composition is not good, and the superior leaders do not approve it. Old Ding did not have the persistence and courage of Jiang Defu, and his marriage to Teacher Ge was also counted.
Wu Yizhu, who extracted his teeth, not only concealed his marriage history, but also a shrew, and Lao Ding could not bear it.
Look at Jiang Dehua, who comes to his house every day, although he has no culture, but help him take his children and do housework, so that he can work with peace of mind and have no worries.
After careful consideration and weighing the pros and cons, he decided to retreat to the second place and marry Jiang Dehua!
Jiang Dehua and Wang Xiu'e are not literate, and the marriage of Lao Ding and Wang Xiu'e is to live together, tasteless, and made up; but his marriage with Jiang Dehua was also made up at first, and later it became more and more moist.
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Jiang Dehua is measured in his work, and there is nothing to do without unnecessary gossip.
When Wang Xiu'e first moved into the Artillery School, she spent all day with Jiang Dehua talking about Anjie, figuring out right and wrong, and then waiting to see the joke.
Anjie and Jiang Defu have a harmonious relationship, and Jiang Defu also loves Anjie. Wang Xiu'e looked at the love of others and thought about Lao Ding's attitude towards her, life is a chicken feather, and her heart is uncomfortable.
She wanted to make some right and wrong, and also look at other people's jokes.
So she told Jiang Dehua that because of Anjie's origin problem, Jiang Defu lost the opportunity to be promoted, and the great future was ruined in vain.
The point is that Anjie is still at home and can't take on the burden of taking care of the family like other women, all day long.
This made Jiang Dehua feel very upset about her third brother, so when he returned home, he threw his face to Anjie.
When you look at Wang Xiu'e, you can't see that others are good, she doesn't come out with moths on time, and her heart is not steady.
Even in the middle of the night on a dark day under the guise of going to Anjie's house to borrow something, I wanted to see if someone else's house was fighting, and I saw a hilarity.
This kind of woman's own family affairs are not sorted out, and she still worries about other people's family affairs every day, no wonder Old Ding is always on her.
Although Jiang Dehua likes to visit the door, he does not like to watch other people's jokes like Wang Xiu'e.
Once an incident in Anjie's family, Lao Ding asked Jiang Dehua to go over to see, and Jiang Dehua said at that time that he wanted you to go, and I would not go.
Whether the relationship is close or not, there must always be a sense of boundaries between people. Some things can be worried about and helped, but some things that are overzealous are not good.
Dkwah knows the measure.
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Although Jiang Dehua has no culture, he has been growing.
She has lived with Anjie for so many years, and Anjie's living habits and words and deeds have subtly affected her.
Jiang Defu and Lao Ding were drinking together, and when they saw Lao Ding scolding his sister, Jiang Defu was very unhappy and questioned Lao Ding, and Lao Ding said: You can rest assured! How is Dehua doing? In your family culture, I haven't learned it at all, and her sister-in-law has learned a lot of tricks. I often wrestle with me, and sometimes I really can't fight her.
You see this is the power of example, Dehua also learned a lot of things with Anjie, and Dehua has the shadow of Anjie, a cultural person whom Lao Ding admires.
Especially when Lao Ding asked Dehua to leave the dinner table, when he and Jiang Defu chatted well, Dehua smiled and walked away, did not resist, did not face, very obedient.
Once when they were in the artillery school, Jiang Defu and Lao Ding also drank and talked like this, but Wang Xiu'e chattered on the side, so that Lao Ding couldn't hold back a reprimand.
In the face of Lao Ding's dissatisfaction, Wang Xiu'e not only did not leave enough face for Lao Ding, but also vented her own complaints. Old Ding couldn't bear to say in a loud voice: Get out, get out. Extremely impatient.
Not interrupting other people's conversations, learning to save face for her husband in front of outsiders, this is the way for husband and wife to get along, and it is also a person's cultivation.
In the same meal, Dehua learned the wisdom of getting along with his brother and sister-in-law, so that Lao Ding was in a comfortable mood and felt the gentleness and virtuousness of his wife.
But Wang Xiu'e made him feel upset and unreasonable.
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The kind Jiang Dehua thinks about Lao Ding everywhere and maintains Lao Ding.
There is no reason to love someone, it is to hope that they are happy and happy.
Dehua saw that Lao Ding was a man who had to work and take care of the children, and was very busy, she ignored the strange eyes of others, disdained the gossip of others, and went to Lao Ding's house every day to wash and cook, take care of the children, and do not ask for returns.
Especially after Old Ding changed the lock at home, Dehua went to his house to help with housework and could not open the door, Anjie could not see it anymore, and left Old Ding in a number of passes.
Dehua looked at Old Ding, who had nothing to say, lost the arrogance he had just had, and said that Old Ding was like that, and Anjie also said that he would not leave him any face.
At this time, Lao Ding was about to marry Wu Medical Aid, and Dehua still couldn't help but care for him, thinking about him, afraid that he would be wronged.
Her kindness comes from the heart, and her simplicity makes her have no regrets about her efforts.
Even Lao Ding's son hoped that Dehua could be his stepmother.
Without sincere dedication, how can you exchange the innocent feelings of the child!
Dehua wholeheartedly took care of Lao Ding and this family, and when he was old, he also worked tirelessly to help Lao Ding's son take care of the children. Although Lao Ding said not to bring them children, Dehua made him feel at ease, let him be down-to-earth, and let him feel the most simple love!
No culture is not afraid, as long as there is generosity and benevolence, as long as there is kindness and family, as long as there is love, marriage will not lose the color of happiness because there is no culture!