Jiang Dehua:
A country woman who couldn't read big characters.
A woman who has never been in a relationship.
A married woman who doesn't know what "cave house" means.
A woman who has been helping her brother-in-law take care of her children for more than ten years.
When Domino first watched "Parental Love", he only felt that Jiang Dehua was straight, and even a little stupid.
But when I watched it many years later, I found that Jiang Dehua actually had the most correct view of marriage in the whole play.
Moreover, she is also very well implemented in her daily life.
First, do not hate each other, it is enough to get married capital.
Jiang Dehua likes Lao Ding.
Because, Lao Ding did not abandon Wang Xiu'e, the wife of the chaff
Because, the image of Lao Ding grew on Jiang Dehua's aesthetic point. When he saw Lao Ding's first glance, Jiang Dehua directly commented that this grandfather looked good.
It is also because Lao Ding is Wang Xiu'e's husband, and Wang Xiu'e is Jiang Dehua's favorite "girlfriend".
Therefore, it is not surprising that Jiang Dehua has a good feeling for Lao Ding.
But Lao Ding can only say that he does not hate Jiang Dehua.
Because, Lao Ding admired Anjie and envied Jiang Defu.
Because, Lao Ding only wants to find a woman who can read and write, and has spiritual communication with himself.
Therefore, when Lao Ding accepted Jiang Dehua as his wife, he just felt that he did not hate Jiang Dehua.
However, Jiang Dehua did not care.
Because, as long as Lao Ding doesn't hate her, she can marry Lao Ding. As for the love that spans ordinary life, Jiang Dehua has never experienced it and has never longed for it.
The basis of marriage has never been more than love, and it is possible to live together unharmed without hate.
Second, two people together, there must always be one person to pay first.
There is a classic vow:
If you do not leave, I will not abandon you.
At first, it sounds like a promise that's beautiful and unwavering. Sheng Minglan in "Knowing or Not" made a promise to the little grandfather Qi Heng in this way.
But on closer inspection, this is actually a vow of harsh conditions.
Because, only if the other party pays first, he will give a corresponding return.
But Jiang Dehua never cared about this order.
Jiang Dehua can first silently take care of the daily life of Lao Ding and the child, even if the other party does not pay attention to her efforts.
Jiang Dehua can even ignore Lao Ding's pre-marriage flower heart, but also ignore all the gossip.
In the end, in exchange for the dead heart of Lao Ding after many years of marriage, who can say that Jiang Dehua is not a winner?
For Lao Ding, his experience of "flower heart" did not bring him much comfortable feeling.
Teacher Ge's life was once like a big mountain, crushing Old Ding breathlessly.
Wu Yizhu's mixed-up and chaotic play made Lao Ding even more embarrassed.
I'm afraid that if Lao Ding chooses the marriage partner again, he will have already chosen Jiang Dehua in a down-to-earth manner.
Therefore, after many years of marriage, Lao Ding has always tolerated what Jiang Dehua has done.
Only Jiang Dehua is the most suitable for him. Old Ding understood this very well.
In fact, no one can take advantage of marriage, even if there is such a good thing, the advantage taken before marriage will be returned after marriage.
Marriage itself is an exchange of values.
Old Ding can help Jiang Dehua get rid of the embarrassment of living in his brother's house all the time.
It can also give Jiang Dehua enough sense of security. Moreover, this sense of security is recognized by Jiang Dehua himself.
Jiang Dehua always believed that Lao Ding, who could not abandon Wang Xiu'e's sister-in-law, would certainly be able to take care of the rest of his life.
Old Ding needs Jiang Dehua's care.
Since coming to the island, Lao Ding and the four kinds of life have always been taken care of by Jiang Dehua.
Although, Lao Ding can turn a blind eye to Jiang Dehua's efforts.
But What Old Ding could not deny was that he and Ding Si were already accustomed to Jiang Dehua's care.
Alain, DeBotten:
Much of the pain in marriage comes from the misleading romantic view of love.
But if you see marriage as an exchange, there won't be as much trouble. Whether it is material or spiritual, as long as you feel that there is no loss.
Marriage has always been the day of a large group of people.
Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for a large group of people.
After Lao Ding came to the island, Jiang Dehua has been taking care of Ding Si.
Therefore, Jiang Dehua was able to marry Lao Ding smoothly, and the wind in Ding Si's ears also played a great role.
After all, Old Ding was a responsible father.
Lao Ding and Wang Xiu'e have four children. Years later, no child said that Jiang Dehua's stepmother was not good.
Even in the matter of the joint burial, the children did not think it through at first, and then they tried to think of a way to have both.
Is Jiang Yafei powerful?
Of course, Jiang Yafei won the right to be buried with her aunt at the wine table.
But this is also because Jiang Dehua has taken the throne first, and Lao Ding's sons will feel guilty and respect this stepmother.
Jiang Dehua's marriage, from the beginning, was not a matter of two people, but a complicated family.
She wants to share her love with each child, all of which Jiang Dehua accepted and took for granted.
Fifth, dealing with problems in marriage does not need to go straight.
Although Jiang Dehua is a straight woman, she is full of wisdom in handling the affairs of the husband and wife after marriage.
Anjie's photo was hung on the wall of his home by Lao Ding, and although Jiang Dehua looked very uncomfortable, he did not make a fuss with Lao Ding.
Instead, he directly found Jiang Defu and asked her brother to retrieve the photo of his wife. Although Lao Ding was reluctant, he was dumbfounded.
After all, Anjie is Jiang Defu's wife, and it is reasonable for people to retrieve the photo of his wife.
In fact, after marriage, even Lao Ding felt that in addition to being illiterate, Jiang Dehua was also a very powerful woman many times.
"Fighting" with Jiang Dehua has naturally become a pleasure in Lao Ding's life.
Sixth, the end of marriage is nothing more than to please yourself.
In his later years, Lao Ding loved to write calligraphy, and Jiang Dehua naturally could not appreciate it. But this did not delay Lao Ding's cultivation of his own interest.
Later, Lao Ding was able to write a plaque to Jiang Weimin's tea house in a similar way.
Jiang Dehua still helps his children with their children, even if his arm is broken, he is not willing to rest.
In Old Ding's world, Jiang Dehua couldn't go in.
Jiang Dehua's habits, lao Ding can not change, but it does not affect the two people to live in harmony and live a happy old age.
For Jiang Dehua's married life, Domino believes that it is happy.
At least, Jiang Dehua spent half his life in the way he liked.
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