Jiang Defu in "Parental Love" has always been considered a rare good man in TV dramas. However, he also has some "inferior roots". If this is a good man, is the basic disk of a good man also too bad?
When family conflicts arise, Jiang Defu always adopts the attitude of "peace and thin mud". When the conflict between Anjie and Dehua broke out, Jiang Defu's peace seemed to avoid the outbreak of a war, but it did not let Anjie see his attitude. In the early stages of the plot, Dehua actually did a lot of wrong things, she did not correct her posture, always felt that she was the hostess of the family. And for Anjie, a person who has been raised since childhood, he and Dehua simply cannot communicate.
Taking a slimy way to resolve family conflicts is unreasonable for both emotional and rational girls. For emotional girls, and thin mud will make you feel unappreciated. For rational girls, they want to be reasonable but are alive by their husbands, but they will be more angry.
Of course, there are also views that the family has never been a reasonable place. More netizens said bluntly: "If my husband had half of Jiang Defu's mason kung fu, our family would be much happier." This also makes sense, there has never been so much absolute right and wrong in the family, and the mud itself is just for the harmony of the family.
In addition to the thin mud, he often helped relatives arrange work, which also became one of the reasons why Jiang Defu was classified as having "inferior roots". Jiang Defu arranged for people to go to the Sino-Soviet border for a while, and the daughter of Anjie's brother to the health center for a while, and he was always showing his "ability" and blatantly arranging everywhere. For their own ability to "show off their might" does not converge, which is also a manifestation of inferiority.
But talking about problems cannot be separated from the background of the times. Jiang Defu's era, or Chinese society, for a long time, was a proper society of human feelings. Helping your relatives is perfectly normal. In the early years, the supervision was not strict enough, and naturally there were many loopholes that could be drilled. But now that the regulation is strict, you can only help your relatives within the scope of the law.
Jiang Defu's mouth "I am a big man, should not wash diapers; I am a hall of staff, should not carry water, women should carry water, no man to carry water" is also to make netizens feel uncomfortable. These fatherly macho speeches are indeed uncomfortable. But Jiang Defu went to wash the diaper after he finished speaking, but his mouth was straight.
In the education of children, Jiang Defu is actually a failure, and many netizens believe that their children are not nurtured enough. But in other words, food and clothing were still a problem in that era, and cultivation was rare. But one of Jiang Defu's best points is that he grasps the big and lets go of the small, and never compromises on issues of principle, such as punishing children when they insult the children of martyrs, and encouraging children when they defend their mothers.
After all, no one is perfect, and whether Jiang Defu is a good man or not is a matter of opinion. What is your point?