The author ∣ An Dongyue
Source∣ An Dongyue (ID:andongyue1)
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A woman loves a man deeply and cannot help but rely on it; a man loves a woman deeply and is willing to guard it.
When a woman moves her heart, she will become tender like water; if a man moves his heart, he will become strong and strong.
Women identify a man, will guard the rear, try to reassure him; men identify a woman, will rush to the front, try to reassure her.
Two people together, business feelings, business marriage, business family, the most important thing is to be satisfied, smooth. How to achieve satisfactory satisfaction, you need to grope in practice, in the process of getting along.
Today, talk about what kind of performance a man will show when he loves a woman deeply.
Different people have different ways of expressing love. But the change is inseparable, a man really loves a woman, at least in these aspects, let the woman rest assured.
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Emotionally reassuring
If you ask what kind of men are the most attractive, many people may say rich men. If you ask what kind of man is the most rare, I think it must be a man with single-mindedness.
The boy's "color" is almost recognized, which is also understandable, just ask, which man under the sky does not like beautiful women?
Of course, liking is one thing, love is another. Like may be when passing by can't help but look at a few more eyes, love is always in the heart, there is no other scenery in the eyes.
Jiang Defu in the TV series "Parental Love" has loved Anjie all his life, has been consistent for decades, and has never touched his heart for other women. Because marrying Anjie is the proudest, proudest, and most accomplished thing in his life, no woman is half as good as Anjie in his eyes.
Is Anjie really that good and perfect? No, she also has many shortcomings, but so what, Jiang Defu loves her, she is the brightest star in his eyes.
Emotionally, Anjie was very relieved about Jiang Defu. The reason why she is assured is that she is very confident, and the other is that Jiang Defu gave her an absolute sense of security.
Men who really fall in love with a woman will be single-minded in their feelings, reject all ambiguous relationships, and reassure the person they love.
Women often say that men spend their hearts, there is no good thing, in fact, they are injured, angry, and angry at the moment. In fact, men also have special affection and special ones, depending on whether they can meet them.
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Rest assured at work
Women like men with a strong sense of enterprise, so that life can have hope and hope for the future. Maybe many people will say, what is a strong sense of enterprise, is not like money?
Frankly, this argument is really funny. Is there anything wrong with women liking enterprising men? Shouldn't men be enterprising? Do women like money, men don't like money? Like money, work hard to earn money, improve the quality of life, this is the right thing to do.
In today's society, women's sense of enterprise is getting stronger and stronger, are men willing to fall behind?
In the TV series "Thirty Only", Zhong Xiaoyang is a 25-year-old young man whose parents are in business, relatively rich, and bought him a house early. He doesn't need to worry about food, clothing, housing, and transportation, and he doesn't have to work to earn money, just experience life, play games after work, drink with buddies and friends, and play all kinds of crazy games.
For Zhong Xiaoqin, he lost his job, but he did not worry at all, played all day, and took Zhong Xiaoqin to play with him. Zhong Xiaoqin told him to find a good job, but he did not think so, saying that he was not short of money. Zhong Xiaoqin finally proposed to break up because she realized that they were not suitable.
Whether in love or married, no woman wants to be a mother to an immature man, too worried, too tired.
A mature man, who is truly in love with a woman, will be more active in his work, work harder, dare not slacken off at all, and will take practical actions to reassure the person he loves.
The most important thing for a woman to choose a man is to see if he has the awareness and ability to take on the responsibilities of life. Men should understand that the more they love a woman, the more they must work hard to create a career and create better living conditions for her and for themselves.
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Rest assured in life
Love is the wind and snow, life is chai rice oil and salt, happiness is peace and joy.
Together, the two must face the trivial things together, but also bear the storms of life. It can be said that the fate of two people is tied together, and the two hearts are also tied together, and they will care about each other and remember each other at any time.
A man who truly loves a woman will reassure the loved one in many things in life.
My friend's husband is a salesman and travels a lot. Every time he travels, he will take the initiative to report the itinerary to his wife, and it has become a habit to simply send messages when busy and call when he is idle.
The friend said: "He took the initiative to report the itinerary, tell me where he is, what he is doing, in order to reassure me, after all, when I am out, I will definitely worry, he understands." ”
Friends also said that her husband often socialized, and every time she would remind him to drink as little as possible and not to drive when he drank. Her husband always said, "Rest assured, I know." "When he says it, he never takes a risk with a fluke mentality.
Perhaps, people are like this, once they have the people they want to protect, they will be particularly spared, do not dare to get sick, do not dare to grow old, do not dare to die, in order to reassure those who care about themselves and need themselves, they will cherish themselves more and take care of themselves.
The deepest love is often reflected in the details of daily life, plain, warm and long-lasting.
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Loving someone is simple and simple, and it is difficult to say.
If, to love someone, simply follow the feelings and be self-centered, it's simple.
If, in order to make the loved one feel love and warmth, it is necessary to think differently and learn how to love someone correctly, it is not so easy.
If a man truly loves a woman, he hopes to do three things:
First, emotionally single-minded, refuse ambiguous relationships, let her rest assured.
Second, work steadily, diligently and positively, let her rest assured.
Third, life is meticulous, know how to cherish herself, take care of herself, and let her rest assured.
Love is mutual, and your efforts will eventually be exchanged for the happiness you want.
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