The divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and now most of the cases are women who propose divorces, some people say that women can't stand it, and some people say that everyone is not willing to settle down.
These are all true, look at the women around them in addition to their own betrayal of marriage to propose divorce, most women divorce because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, two people gradually indifferent, feelings broken, marriage has a third party, and finally the marriage disintegrated.
Some people even forgive after their husbands betrayed their marriage, but after many years, they still chose to divorce, which summed up purely to leave a bad person, rather than wanting to change people.
From hope to disappointment is a long process
When she enters marriage, women are happy and happy, and finally have to stay with the person they love until they are old, but again and again, she feels that her husband ignores herself.
Ignoring her feelings, ignoring her presence, ignoring her efforts, every time she thought her husband would change, she was disappointed.
Again and again, from hope to disappointment, the years have gone through all kinds of tastes, until love has not moved.
In the middle of this, she hoped that her husband had really changed, even if it was only a little, so that she could see hope, she could stick to it, but no.
The small flame of her inner gas was completely extinguished, and she began to face the reality, realizing that her husband's selfishness had become a habit and there was no cure.
The other person's inherent habitual personality, after all, does not have the ability to persuade, change or influence.
Women are water, men are mountains, and mountains that do not grow grass can retain water? After all, the water can only bypass the big rocks and bravely move forward.
Just like Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin, the two people don't even have a problem of principle, but when the fish raised in your eyes are more important than me, your brother's affairs are not afraid of difficulties, to me, you are the top pillar, and when you are the treasurer, your heart will also be a little cold.
What you feel is your cold heart and dispensable attitude, so what is the point of continuing?
In fact, they do not seek exactly the same as when they are in love, but the gap is not so large, but it is becoming more and more uncontrollable and strange.
As Zhong Xiaoqin said, there is a kind of marriage that can be predicted every day after that, and it is getting worse and worse every day.
So she was just waiting for the right moment and said to him: You are no longer my husband, you are only the father of the child.
That's why so many people obviously seem to forgive, and why they still choose to divorce after many years.
When she forgives, she also sincerely forgives, but you think that if you forgive, everything will be fine, or you will ignore it as before, not change at all, and have no motivation for convenience.
Divorce is not wanting to be wronged again, in order to make yourself live a more dignified life.
Life does not have to be married, and a woman's single life can also be wonderful because it does not require a lot of time to do housework and take care of children.
A lot of people think you have to do these things without getting married, yes, but there's a big difference between the workload of one person and two people, or even a family.
And one person you are for yourself, two people even if you want to do it yourself, but also want someone to share, no one is obliged to contract everything for the other person.
In the happiness duo, Dong Boyu reprimanded and scolded his wife Gu Xiaonan, and he had no remorse. But when he ate takeout every day and couldn't mop the floor, he realized that he was more dependent on his wife.
Because after the wife does not do this, she can work wholeheartedly, she can also find a job to support herself, but she does not know anything about the housework, and her life is a mess.
While his wife filed for divorce because of dissatisfaction, he realized the problem.
A woman's disappointments are all accumulated little by little, and when she really decides to divorce and put it into action, it means that she has been heartbroken.
Many women no longer marry after divorce, because they have grown up through marriage, and suddenly they are enlightened, marriage is a part of their own life, some are happy and happy, and they can live a high-quality life without themselves.
If the man you meet does not grow up and does not meet his criteria for remarriage and mate selection, he will not jump into the fire pit again.
Marriage is also an investment, investing your time and energy into it, and it turns out that not only is the rate of return not high, but even the loss will be lost, and you are naturally unwilling to enter the marriage again.
It is better for women to live their own lives after divorce.
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Love will see, interpret emotional confusion, pay attention to marriage problems, and be willing to listen to your sorrow and happiness, along the way