We stepped into the marriage hall with a vision of love and trust in our other half, thinking that our love would be like in a fairy tale, and happiness and happiness were the end.
However, we never think that the person who thinks he can shield himself from the wind and rain is the one who gives himself the most wind and rain after marriage.
Husbands never care about us, all the sweet words before marriage are destroyed after marriage, and we don't know what really happened to make a person change so much in marriage.
In a relationship between the sexes, after marriage, why would men not care about you? The secret of the marriage relationship, you must understand it early.
Is your marriage union because of love?
Chen Yu in the TV series "Thirty Only" was still very attentive to Zhong Xiaoqin before marriage, but after marriage, he turned a blind eye to Zhong Xiaoqin, and only cared about fiddling with his own fish every day, and the two people even said a word became a luxury.
Once, Zhong Xiaoqin could not stand such a widowed marriage, she asked Chen Yu why he wanted to get married, Chen Yu bluntly said that he was married at that time to save trouble, said that marriage is a safe haven, who knows it will be so troublesome.
However, if they all want to force the wind, then who will be the port?
However, in real life, such men are not in the minority, perhaps missing the only love, so the future people are ok, as long as the task of marriage is completed, it does not matter who the wife is; and some people are still married at the age of marriage, can not withstand the pressure of public opinion and family, so they casually find someone to marry.
If you treat marriage with a perfunctory attitude before marriage, you will naturally not take the person who marries seriously after marriage, but it is just to complete the task.
So we can see that after men enter the marriage hall with women, they ignore their other half, and the heart is even more nonsense.
For men who lack a sense of responsibility, they will not be cherished if they get it
Jin Yanxi in the TV series "Golden Powder Family" was shocked when he first saw Leng Qingqiu, he was not unseen those good-looking girls, but such a temperamental, elegant and fresh people are the first time to see, so Jin Yanxi began to pursue Leng Qingqiu.
At first, Leng Qingqiu felt that the story of Cinderella in the fairy tale would not fall on her, so she did not answer Jin Yanxi's love, and her attitude was also cold.
But how could Jin Yanxi, who had been lingering in the love field for a long time, be defeated by this little setback, the more Leng Qingqiu was untamed, the more Jin Yanxi was fascinated by it, and finally, under Jin Yanxi's perseverance, he finally embraced the beauty and entered the marriage hall with Leng Qingqiu.
It's just that all the deep feelings of love are lost after marriage.
For Jin Yanxi, Leng Qingqiu is like a game of breaking through the level, it is bound to not be easy to pass, so he needs to overcome difficulties and obstacles in completing his goal, because the goal has not yet been completed, so Jin Yanxi has always poured his heart and soul.
And when Leng Qingqiu agrees to marry himself, then this game of breaking through the level also means that the level is completed, the task is completed, then Jin Yanxi naturally will not go to the heart and mind, just like in real life, who will review after the exam?
In fact, to put it bluntly, men like Jin Yanxi just lack a sense of responsibility, do not understand what the true meaning of marriage is, do not understand what it is to love a person, their feelings are staged, but such a man hurts a heart that longs for marriage for no reason.
Love that does not pay a cost will naturally not be taken to heart
In the TV series "The Naked Marriage Era", the family situation of Tong Jiaqian and Liu Yiyang is very different.
When they got married, Liu Yiyang's family was shy, but Tong Jiaqian felt that their eight-year relationship could resist everything, and their love could also override the material.
So she didn't ask for a bride price, didn't want a car, didn't want a house, and married Liu Yiyang.
However, after marriage, Liu Yiyang, who once said that he would let himself for the rest of his life, did not give in when he quarreled with himself after marriage.
I couldn't see myself crying before, but after marriage, I saw Tong Jiaqian crying and even felt a little bored.
Why? It is because Tong Jiaqian's marriage did not make Liu Yiyang pay a little cost.
Even if there is a quarrel, even if it is away from home, Liu Yiyang will not have any loss, people are like this.
The rose in the book "The Little Prince" is not proud of its appearance, but it is unique to the little prince.
That's because roses are the same everywhere.
They are actually a symbol, and there is no difference in essence.
It is only because the little prince has poured his heart and soul into the rose that it will become different and important in the little prince's heart.
In this world, we don't remember people who trekked through mountains and waters to see themselves.
I will only remember the person I waded through the mountains and waters to see, because the essence of human beings is selfish, and love is no exception.