The encounter was a fate

If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fans.

No matter who it is, there will only be one pure love in life, that is, the person who liked when the love sinus first opened, and the one he talked about.

It's like childhood only once... When you are three years old, you can wear open crotch pants to play with mud in the field, if you are thirty years old and still wear open crotch pants to play with mud in the field, others will think that you are a neurotic. Therefore, it is very reasonable for the young age to match the young feelings.

But love knows no age, not even gender...

At the age of eighteen, you will be curious about the smell of cigarettes, and you will also be curious about the feeling of getting along with the opposite sex, at that age there is not much evil, and you have not experienced the experience of life... After school, I came home and asked my parents to give some pocket money and then rushed to buy two ice creams, one for the person I liked... Is this love?

It's love, of course, but more like the embodiment of childhood-like friendship... Two young people who have just bid farewell to their youth, pressing the road together, feel that this is the most romantic thing in the world.

In "Paradise Lost" written by Japanese writer Haruki Harukami, a pair of middle-aged men and women who both have families have developed an inseparable extramarital affair, is the relationship between them pure? If you just follow the heart, it is really pure, there is no interest involved, and there is no responsibility... Pure but unethical. So finally meet in a hot spring to spy on the martyrdom of both... As a result, when they were found the next day, the man died and the woman was rescued. Later, the woman lived alone in anonymity until she died...

The writer also wrote a best-selling novel "Norwegian Forest" in which the male and female protagonists are young people who have just opened their hearts, and the description of love in it is also very pure. But the author seems to be a lover of tragedy, and he likes to create some beautiful and sad endings... I don't really appreciate this obscure love.

Shouldn't love be sweet and beautiful? But love that is too beautiful is not true. The love that is truly celebrated often has a tragic moment, just like "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai", "Romeo and Juliet", "Titanic", "Cowherd Weaver Girl" seems to be more memorable only if you can experience the love of life and death, and those who can easily separate and easily give up, it may be just to pay off the debt of a certain life... It's just a matter of a certain lifetime.

It is said that there is a chance to meet, and it is easy to know each other and difficult to keep each other...

If you really read the script of your life before reincarnation, then the person we meet must also be the person we are destined to meet, maybe there is kindness, maybe there is a debt, or there is a regret... Those who have made us suffer so hard must also be what we owe to others, so we have to turn around and leave when we are finished. Those who we can't beat and scold must also have a deep relationship with us.

When Leng Qingqiu stood at the entrance of the flower shop holding a pot of lilies, the morning sun sprinkled on Leng Qingqiu's body, like a layer of holy light... Jin Yanxi's eyes refused to blink, and a glimpse of surprise aroused the young master's spring heart. He got married smoothly, but he did not live a happy life like a prince and a princess. In the end, it was also a divorce ending.

Flowers that are folded home on a whim will always wither one day. The person who really loves flowers is to move their home next to the flower, water it every day, watch it grow, accompany it through flowering, blossoming, withering... Accompany it through spring, summer, autumn and winter, love its tender green new leaves, love its beautiful petals, love its bare flower stem after withering...

Truly beautiful encounters, the time and place are favorable and the same can not be less, once one is not in place, the result is scattered... Whether it is a soul mate, a confidant or a confidant, or a feeling that you know that you can't do it, it is not far away, it is difficult to last.

People are emotional derivatives, billions of people on the planet, and this population density is not too difficult for one person. And each other's eyes need fate, and it is even more precious that they can see each other and communicate with each other. Maybe life will only meet once, maybe life will not meet once until death. If you can meet it, cherish it! Only by cherishing can we live up to the encounter...