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Jin Yanxi in the TV series "Golden Powder Family" fell in love with her after encountering Leng Qingqiu on the street.
In order to be able to find her, Jin Yanxi tried everything she could. However, when they knew each other, Leng Qingqiu's attitude towards him was very indifferent, no matter how many gifts Jin Yanxi gave, she never gave a smiley face.
But the more Leng Qingqiu did not give a chance, the more unable Jin Yanxi could extricate himself.
In the end, they still came together, and Jin Yanxi gave Leng Qingqiu a romantic wedding.
However, after marriage, they did not live the beautiful and happy life they imagined, but the quarrels, contradictions and boredom that came with them at any time. In the final analysis, it is because for Jin Yanxi, Leng Qingqiu is no longer attractive.
When he got her, he felt that there was no desire to challenge or conquer, so the more flat the days became, the farther away they were from each other.
Why is it that when Leng Qingqiu was indifferent, Jin Yanxi loved himself beyond recourse, and Leng Qingqiu was enthusiastic, but he was not rare? This is the problem of the desire to challenge and conquer in psychology.
Some girls love wholeheartedly, but they are never cherished, the more you dig your heart and lungs, the more the other party can not feel your uniqueness, and even treat your love as cheap.
In fact, if you want a man to be unable to leave you, you need to use the right method.
The more you love a man, the more you can't be too active and enthusiastic, and when you can do it in the following three aspects, he will be more interested.
01: Ignore his enthusiasm appropriately, even if you like it, don't be too proactive
Most men don't like women who are too active, and the more you show that you care, the easier it is to lose the person you love. Truly intelligent women, who understand the psychology of men, even if they like each other very much, will use the right posture to manage each other's relationship.
Yang Li is not very pretty, but she is very confident. She and her boyfriend have been in love for two years, in fact, Yang Li liked each other from the beginning, but she did not show great initiative.
Her boyfriend chased her for three months before she reluctantly agreed.
During the love period, friends around him persuaded Yang Li not to invest in real feelings, because before knowing Yang Li, her boyfriend had many partners, and the time together was not long, so friends felt that he was unreliable.
Yang Li did not let herself fall into passivity, when together she knows how to maintain a sense of mystery, even if the boyfriend is very good, but she will restrain her inner emotions.
She knows very well that a woman can only win respect and pampering if she loves herself first. During the relationship, Yang Li can always maintain the bottom line, and when her boyfriend does something that makes her feel uncomfortable, she will immediately express her feelings.
Not only that, but she also appropriately ignored him and focused on her own business.
As a result, the feelings between the two not only did not fade, but became sweeter.
02: Maintain your personality, live out yourself, and reject him to change you
Whether you are in love or married, it is a very important thing to always maintain your personality. The more women who love and lose themselves, the more they cannot win each other's love and cherishing.
Liu Xiaojie in the TV series "Xiao Min's Family", she is a woman who is easily influenced by her partner. Xu Zheng is very handsome, and the conditions are good in all aspects.
When she was single, Liu Xiaojie had a job she liked and loved to dress herself up. But after interacting with Xu Zheng, the other party began to control her, and even in the name of love, let Liu Xiaojie delete her best friend's WeChat.
Seeing her wearing sexier clothes, Xu Zheng will feel unhappy, Liu Xiaojie can not get along with the opposite sex around her, and even the author of the contract can only be a woman.
Even if Xu Zheng constantly controls and changes her, Liu Xiaojie has fallen into it, and when the other party does this, she will still make excuses for herself, all because Xu Zheng cares too much about her.
In the end, Liu Xiaojie lost her personality, became more and more unattractive, and her feelings for each other also went to break.
Everyone is independent, women only live out of themselves, do not easily be changed by the other party, in order to grasp the dominance of the feelings, otherwise the more pandering, the more they are not cherished.
03: Don't care too much about his feelings, learn to think independently in everything
Smart and independent women generally manage their feelings better.
Like Andy in the TV series "Ode to Joy", she never regarded love as the only one. Even when he met Bao Yifan, the second generation of the rich, Andy showed a very calm appearance.
When Bao Yifan's parents knew that they were dating, they began to make unreasonable demands on her. However, Andy did not compromise on love, but did not care so much about the other person's feelings.
She knows what kind of life she wants to live and what kind of people she will spend the rest of her life with, and she has the ability to think independently and will not be easily swayed.
Bao Yifan is handsome, has a good family, and there must be many outstanding women around him, but it is not without reason for and his heart for Andy. It is precisely because Andy is always very independent and will not rely too much on him, which will make Bao Yifan have the desire to conquer.
Therefore, the best way for a woman to tie a man is not to blindly obey, but to work hard according to the goals she has set. I don't give up everything for anyone.
It's just a pity that there are many women in life who don't know how to manage their feelings in the right way.
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