Wen 丨 Qingxin Junyue
Swiped again. Click on this video, and before I can finish watching it, I cry.
On January 13, a wedding held in Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province, touched all the guests at the scene, including me who brushed this video.
When the groom stood alone in the center of the wedding stage, when the 76-year-old grandmother trembled and took out the text of the speech she had prepared and read it word by word. I listened to my grandmother's words, looked at the pictures that kept flashing on the screen, and cried uncontrollably.
That one sentence that keeps circulating on the Internet is very well said and is very correct. The so-called quiet years are just someone carrying the weight for you. We sometimes make the mistake of feeling that the world is getting colder and colder, as if the cold winter is sweeping through the year.
But the warmth never really leaves us, there will always be people like that, and that kind of thing happens, gently telling us that the world is still beautiful, and we should not give up the endless light for a moment of darkness. There are always people who defend the beauty for us, light up the light for us, and call us to move forward together.
An unsatisfactory wedding.
On January 6, Wang Jin had packed his bags and was ready to take the high-speed train back to his hometown of Ganzhou, Jiangxi tomorrow to complete the wedding. That high-speed rail ticket, she had booked it a long time ago.
For this wedding, the families of both sides began to prepare for the wedding at the end of last year; for this wedding, Wang Jin's old GongYuandan took a leave of absence after returning home. The wedding date is set for January 13, family, relatives and friends have been notified in place, and the hotel and wedding celebration have been properly arranged. The preliminary preparations have been completed, and I am waiting for the bride Wang Jin to return.
On the night of January 6, the mobile phone suddenly received a notification - Wang Jin could not go back.
Wang Jin, a nurse at the Liantang Community Social Welfare Center in Liantang Street, Luohu Hospital, Shenzhen, received a temporary emergency notice: there have been confirmed cases of new crown pneumonia in the jurisdiction, and nucleic acid testing needs to be carried out immediately.
Without hesitation, she returned to the community.
She said: "The epidemic is the order, my job is to fight it, this is my mission."
She said: It is not so much that I have adjusted my mentality, but rather that I am too busy to have time to adjust, and I have forgotten everything when I am busy. But my family cares about me.
She also said: My husband will ask several times a day to let me pay attention to protection and so on. He said that seeing me work so hard, he would definitely treat me better in the future.
In this way, driven by her sense of mission, under the understanding and care of her family, and under the care and care of her husband, she has been busy in the front line of the fight against the epidemic.
January 13, the wedding day.
The wedding in his hometown was held according to the original time, and Wang Jin was busy with the sampling site as usual. On that day, she did not complain, continued her work, but later said: "There was a little loss this morning, after all, I got married today, but I did not attend my wedding." ”
"I didn't attend my wedding", these few words, what a sad sentence.
This sentence does not need to be embellished, and it does not require too much explanation. A few simple words stating the facts are enough to make the person who hears it feel empathy. For a woman, marriage can be said to be one of the most important things in the whole life; for the happy moments in a woman's life, on the wedding day, wearing a wedding dress, receiving blessings and testimonies from family, relatives, relatives and friends, based on the whole life, it is also one of the few moments.
However, she gave up. A consummating wedding, and therefore no longer consummating.
Different relatives and friends.
If the wedding is the most important moment for two newcomers, it is the most important moment for the two families in terms of the current state of life. There are too many things that the two families want to show and obtain at this moment, and many of the demands are divorced from the needs of the wedding, but they are highly valued by the two families.
It is not difficult for us to see from the Internet that often there are new couples who have not yet had time to start a happy married life, and before and after the wedding, they have to go their separate ways.
It is a reality that the wedding is ready, the relatives and friends are notified, and the wedding cannot be rescheduled. In this reality, how many people can willingly accept that the bride is not present, even if the bride's absence is justified enough, but according to the minds of most people, this is still unacceptable. Such a wedding will inevitably cause criticism, and it will inevitably make people feel unlucky and unsatisfactory.
However, in this wedding, all this bad stuff that could have happened, didn't happen.
The relatives of both sides did not have any disputes or questions about this, and the guests who came gave the greatest understanding and blessing.
Wang Jin's 76-year-old grandmother, holding a handwritten speech, read out the most sincere wishes for this marriage and the most heartfelt thanks to the guests:
"Thank you! Respect for relatives and friends, thank you for attending Wang Jin's wedding in your busy schedule. On this big day, I wish you all good health and good physical and mental happiness. Under special circumstances, in this special way, Wang Jin met with everyone. Because of the terrible epidemic, Wang Jin could not come to the scene because of his work, and wished the big (family) to eat at ease and have fun. I wish Wang Jin and Chen Cong, husband and wife love, white head to old age, happy life, and early birth of a noble son. I wish my dear family, peace and wealth, good health, peace and happiness. I wish the strong motherland prosperity and strength, the health of the whole people, the victory over the epidemic, and the peace and happiness of the whole country. ”
If there is no one, how can we come to a small family? The country is tens of millions, and only when there is a country can there be a home. What I read out of my grandmother's blessings was the great righteousness and great love hidden in my blood.
On the screen, at another "wedding scene", Wang Jin and her colleagues "Dabai" recorded the video in advance, and the "Dabai" sent blessings to the couple with their own actions and gestures.
This wedding without a bride is a wedding that transcends geographical restrictions, a wedding in which everyone is united in fighting the epidemic, and a wedding full of happiness and blessings.
It was the most touching wedding I've ever seen in recent years.
Not generally loved.
I think in a marriage, the most important thing is mutual understanding, followed by love. Because there is understanding, there is room for love to survive, and because there is understanding, there is the nourishment for the continuous survival of love. Love, of course, is important, that is the premise of two people coming together, but more important than love, the understanding between two loving hearts.
After the wedding. Wang Jin received a message from her husband: "Wife, today is our big wedding day, although I am sorry that you cannot participate in our wedding, but my husband is proud of you." Greetings to you and all the medical staff on the frontline of the fight against the epidemic! Wife hard, wife I love you. ”
I believe that when Wang Jin's husband sent this message, he was full of tears, pride and pride; I also believe that when Wang Jin received this heavy message full of infinite love, he must also be full of tears, happiness and touch.
There are many times in a person's life that it is necessary to make a choice or a choice. As Wang Jin said: "Although I can't go home to attend my wedding, it is a regret in life." But I don't regret being able to contribute a little bit to the epidemic. ”
This is the choice that Wang Jin made between the small self and the big self, the small family and everyone, endured and firmly. I believe that Wang Jin's seemingly regrettable wedding is not regrettable, because the blessings and love she received will make up for all this and will always be engraved in the deepest part of life.
Here, allow me to —
Bless you from the bottom of my heart!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Qingxin Junyue, an emotional observer, ta said book critic, film critic. Warm you, me with words.