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The love between men and women is always unreasonable. Obviously, I think it is a talented woman, but the two people actually get along, but they don't call. Obviously, it does not look right, but it can live a happy little life sweetly.
Especially for many men who look very good, the partner they choose is often inconspicuous.
In fact, men's thoughts in love are not less than women's, but they are willing to express. In love, what they crave most is not the love of women, but the following two things.
Although on the surface, they will not say, but if you give, he will love you more because you understand.
One: I hope to get the worship of women
In the urban emotional drama "The First Half of My Life", there is a couple who make people very sorry: Tang Jing and congratulatory letters.
The congratulatory letter is Tang Jing's master, it is he who took Tang Jing into the consulting industry, and it is also he who step by step taught Tang Jing from a workplace white to a capable female executive who kills and decides, and the bondage and feelings between them cannot be described as deep.
In life, many of their life concepts are also the same, such as loving sports, minimalist life, combining work and leisure, enjoying food, etc., and can be regarded as like-minded partners.
There was also love between them, once to the point of talking about marriage, but the final ending was a big surprise. He Han and Tang Jing, the heavenly partner of The Match, Lao Yan, and Luo Zijun, two people from seemingly completely different worlds, came together.
On the relationship, Tang Jing and the congratulatory letter have been in agreement for more than ten years, and Luo Zijun and the congratulatory letter have only known each other for a short time, and at the beginning they still look at each other and hate each other. In terms of ability, Tang Jing is a company executive, a leader in the industry, and can completely compete with the congratulatory letter, and can also help the congratulatory letter in her career. And Luo Zijun is just a rookie who has just entered the workplace as a full-time mother. Although he also had a little ability, he was too far behind Tang Jing.
Moreover, Tang Jing and the congratulatory letter itself have a deep emotional foundation, but Luo Zijun is divorced and single, and he also has children.
It was such a woman who seemed to be much worse than Tang Jing in all kinds of conditions, but she took away the love of the congratulatory letter. What does it depend on? In fact, it is the little bit of worship that men care about in love.
Men are eager to be adored, and the admiring look of women is the best stimulant for them.
Although Tang Jing has a deep affection for HeXin, with the growth of her own ability, she has gradually reached the same height as Hexin, and her he is no longer the worship of the previous teacher and long, but has become a woman who can stand shoulder to shoulder with him.
Luo Zijun is completely different, she admires the greeting letter, because the greeting letter is the person who pulled her when she was most difficult, the person who taught her to enter the workplace by hand, and the person who followed her to clean up the mess for her.
The look in her eyes when she looks at the congratulatory letter is full of admiration and admiration, and men are often lost in this admiration.
In love, the slower party will be thrown away first. But love is not a competitive sport, and not all love must have a strong and weak one.
If you love the man and don't just value his ability, then you may as well show weakness in front of him, or discover his other advantages, and appreciate and worship each other's love, so that it can be more lasting.
Two: Hope to be a hero who is needed
In various idol dramas, it is not difficult to find that the beginning of the relationship between the male and female protagonists is often accompanied by the beginning of salvation. In "The Star Of The Shepherd", Zhongtianqi saves the thief Xia Zhixing; in "The Prince Becomes a Frog", Shan Junhao has been saving Ye Tianyu, whose life is in a mess.
Why don't they feel like a burden or a hassle, but rather enjoy it? Because in every man's heart, he hopes to become a hero who is needed.
Men usually have some heroic complex, hoping that they can protect the woman they love and save her from the time of distress. In the hearts of men, only in this way can they show their heroism.
If you pay attention to observation, you will find that the phrase "it is best to spoil a woman's life" is very reasonable.
The woman in the company who can do anything by herself is often the most neglected, and the one who seems to be unable to handle everything well and needs to find someone to help, but it is the one with the best popularity and the most popular with men.
Because of her rescue, it satisfies the little vanity in the man's heart.
In love, the relationship between two people is also like this. If you can do everything yourself, your boyfriend will have no sense of existence at all. If he can't find his own position and meaning, he will naturally be prone to running away, and his vision may fall elsewhere.
So women must not be too sensible, remember to leave some performance places for men.
Even if you can obviously do a good job yourself, but to lie to him and let him help you, this is not only a love interest in love, but also a means to seize a man's heart.
This is not a mental scheming, but the emotional intelligence and interest that a wise woman should have.
In a way, understanding that a man is far more important than loving a man, and when he is his soul mate, don't be the full-time nanny who the wisdom takes care of him, you will be more likely to grab his heart.
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